New To PE

Hi everyone.

So bad news I thought I was average 5.5 inches erect; well after finding this site. I finally decided to take a ruler out and measure. Now I only measure from tip to base. So the part that only gets inserted into a vagina. Found out I was only 3.5 inches. My confidence and already low ego about my size just dropped horrendously. I am afraid of having any woman see my penis. Anyone out there can help me give me a few pointers. I really hope this jelqing stuff works. And from the looks of routines it’s at least 20 mins of actual work. How do you guys fit that into a busy schedule especially when you don’t have a lot of personal alone time. And for guys who’s rocking a smaller size like me. What are you doing to please a woman in bed with our smaller manhood?

You are not alone! I also have problems with confidence and also afraid of women seeing my penis. About the time wise you should write a schedule since it won’t take you long for newbie routine GL!

There’s a theory that the smaller you are, the higher the gains that can be achieved, all you need to do is focus and don’t rush things, go step by step focus on quality not quantity and keep your unit heated throughout the workout.

The length you are measuring is NBPEL, which means not bone pressed. I think I was around 4” 1/4 when i started, very similar to you, and already got some impressive gains for the time spent.

And for some reason I really do think I can reach 7 1/2 BPEL, Just gotta remember everyday that this is not a race, I gotta look at it as a lifestyle and incorporate it in your daily schedule.

Dude, we all share the same insecurities as you. I was afraid about my size for the longest time due to a mentally abusive ex.

I am going to make this statement clear. IT’S ALL IN YOUR HEAD

Watch ameteur porn and realize that this is average. One of the best ameteur pornstars has a bf who looks to be about 3.5” NBPEL. They both rock it hard. He really has nothing to worry about, and neither should you.

I’ll look her up and post later.

Really, size anxiety is dumb. Take it from someone who has suffered from that as well as envy for a long time.

Go to a website that rhymes with corncub and search “tusspuss”.

Trust me PE WORKS! Make the time, I wake up an extra 30 mins to get a session in and after work, and in showers. You have the time, and your effort if committed will work! You’ll achieve your goals. Measure every month, to check progress. And don’t stop yourself from seeing woman. Id say ditch the porn if seeing big cocks get to your head. And most important, don’t let chicks get into your head if you here cock shaming jokes or conversations. 8-9 times out of 10 girls are exaggerating about size. And if you run into some hoe’s that try and put you down, quickly tell them that your NOT SMALL, there just loose and have a smelly stinky snatch. That will shut them up! Don’t ask about there exes size, just don’t. Chances are you are going to hear something you won’t like, and what your you hear from them is most likely a lie as well. Good luck on your journey!

First, measure with a ruler pressed to your groin. If you have a big fat pad one of the best things you can do for yourself is drop the extra weight. Don’t be ashamed. Understand your bone pressed length and your non bone pressed. These are tools for success.

It is in your head. Know how I know?

Because you were fine until you looked the numbers up! That's what's real!

We can help you here. You can get very big if that’s a goal. But cut yourself some slack and put the time in, this is how you win.

Keep your head up man! Lookup Bennett8, he started off on the smaller end and made serious progress with dedication. You can totally do this! Everyone at Thunders is behind you.

I feel for you. Just as Kaotic said: it goes both ways. Your being is not the only frame of measurement but the woman’s as well. Do the newbie routine, read TG and BBF’s threads.

Also, stay away from masturbation and if you must, use flesh light. The reason I say this is that, if you masturbate too much—regardless of your size, you may develop death grip, and being inside the vagina will result to lack of sensation. The first three inches of the vagina from the entrance are the most sensitive. You can hit those. Thus, you are not small. If you are worried about girth, use ribbed condoms.

And, if some women stoop so low on you: retort with smell like fish story(BBF, Kaotic).

Siting stink alone is more than enough to bother a girl. If she says that she doesn’t stink, just say “it’s much like not being able to smell your own shit.”

He’s right. Most stories are akin to fish stories to begin with. This applies to size, income, height, looks… You get the drift.

I just want to thank everyone I haven’t logged in awhile. And after reading everyone input. I am ready for this journey and I believe in it. I’ll keep everyone posted with my progress. If anyone is having a similar path go ahead and give me tips! Also is there any videos of people starting small? Because I can’t do some of the stretches.