Nofap?

Hey, I haven’t ejaculated for nearly 3 months because I am doing nofap. Last time I did this, I found I can’t get erections anymore, my penis doesn’t fill up like it does when I am masturbating regularly.

This is effecting my jelqing routine. Has anyone else tried nofap and found the same?

Yes, with no issues.

Hey there bent_cock,

I would recommend against any form of abstaining from erections or sexual stimulation. Aside from a temporary peak in testosterone in some men after 1 week (disappearing the next day), there doesn’t seem to be a benefit to it. As you reduce the frequency and hardness of your erections, they automatically become just that… Less frequent and less hard. It seems anti-PE to me. Edging (and the occasional oops!) are an integral part of PE in my opinion, inflating your erection to the maximum of its (temporary) potential over and over until it becomes permanent.

Also I really dislike the terms “fap” and “nofap”, lol.

I have gone with little to no sexual stimulation for months on end, and it always reduced my EQ severely, as well as my libido and general mental health. Porn is a different thing, but I think moderate masturbation is healthy and beneficial for PE. May I ask why you’re following this routine?

Hello! I do Nofap and really this occurs when you will ejaculate for the first time after a long time without doing. I will give my you my opinion because it seems that the penis is conditioned to this for a while (in that sense he does not see need to maintain erection) because NOFAP also resets a part of your body. In my case NOFAP helped me to gain in length (mainly by the jelq in average erection) but if your routine is in gain girth for example Jelq in high erection, pumps or clamp I believe that you should disrupt the practice of NOFAP.

To improve this you can leave your animal instincts to the skin as improving testosterone levels (taking supplementation, weight exercises and taking ice bath when waking up and before you go to sleep) or going after sexual partners, believe in me your sexual stamina increases a lot and with NOFAP and drastically improving your pleasure both in the foreplay and in the sex itself.
In any case be calm I thought I was hurt (i had the same) but only made me analyze and learn a little more, good luck and good gains for you.

I am a nofap skeptic, to me it resembles the musings of some basement dwelling video game nerds who do nothing but masturbate to porn when they aren’t gaming.

I am trying it just so that I can have real life experience. My 4 month streak will last until May 7th, then I will end it with having sex with a prostitute.

I want to do it for self control purposes, really. Just to prove to myself that I can. At the moment my employment situation or lack thereof means no sex until May when I will start a new job.

Anyway I did nofap (yes that phrase is cringe) last year and found that my penis shrivelled up and only ever got semi erections during the period. Last year I was NOT jelqing, however.

I thought with jelqing the added horniness might help to maintain erections, but after the first couple of weeks it seems my body gives up the idea of any stimulation completely and I can’t get hard until I start masturbating again.

I am interested, I think the logic of nofap making you last longer is clearly flawed. The longer you don’t have an ejaculation, the more sensitive you’re penis is to it.

I’d like to ask what your previous or current porn use was/is like.

I agree with you on sensitivity but in practice sensitivity and will to have orgasm become a little distant, logically disposing of other factors tied to psychological benefits such as greater clarity, more concentration, correct breathing and kegels and physical activities all factors together have made sex more intense in sensations and the body becomes more relaxed in relation to the sexual tension giving you more control.
In my specific case, I think my mind had virtual excitements like being with a woman and assuming that she was a lot hotter than she really was and NOFAP just adjusted my mind to live the present time and take advantage of that. This is what happened to me with NOFAP along with the other activities (in my case it was physical improvement through physical exercises plus meditation plus NOFAP plus cycle of supplements that increase testosterone).

Sorry, I know this has nothing to do with this but I believe NOFAP will help you go after women (instinct becomes stronger after 45 days) I believe this will help you. I do not know the country you live in, or the difficulty of getting a women, or the reasons why you choose prostitutes, but I believe that finding girls to get sex with is a good challenge since you have proven yourself not to be dependent on it, will be much more intense and you will enjoy much more the real life.

I do dabble in day game on the weekend. For those who are not in the know it is the art of approaching women on the streets in town.

So far no luck with that as it is seen as quite strange in western society, especially among my generation and younger.

I live in a small and isolated town where people don’t interact outside of social circles at all often.

Back on topic, I find that I just don’t get erections as hard when I am not masturbating. Last year when I tried nofap my dick just gave up and shriveled up. Even my flaccid lost length. Once I got back into masturbation everything went back to normal again.

I think the nofap was a placebo effect and it was the physical exercises that made the difference, but that’s just my opinion.

My God, which country do you live in? I want to live in your country. I live in Brazil and day game is something totally normal and acceptable being in bus stops, bakery, snack bars even in the place where they work. Unfortunately with the wave of feminism, here we have an inversion and now some women have a greater tendency to betray and bring man to passivity with the cuckhold. In any case, good luck.

Well, I’ll give my opinion about NOFAP. It is not a placebo effect, it’s only resets your mind to really feel the real world and experience real and non-virtual situations such as masturbation. This also includes the subconscious state as for example even doing NOFAP the person also does not present nocturnal pollution (which is also something virtual).
For your brain in the NOFAP experience period, if you masturbate without having a partner, it would be similar to you trying to get aroused by something non-sexual, and your mind actually returns to the primitive state of reality, which is you will not do sex, do not get excited. This is the famous reset, which, incredible as it may seem, is extremely positive.

And I agree with you that NOFAP only makes psychological aspects, but in any aspect of our lives (work, personal, psychological) everything is linked up to our gains , that is really everything is connected even to supplementation and exercises.

I will try this out. I noticed erection quality increases so much in my case after like 2 or 3 days.

Good to know you were interested in NOFAP. And believe me, on the 7th day you will have a peak of highest testosterone and by the 3rd week you will be extremely horny. After one month the reset phase will begin. In any case good luck.

I think you’ve missunderstood re day gaming, here in England it is seen as being one step away from a rapist. Day game is not an acceptable activity, making it impossible to meet women.

I have been in trouble with the security in shopping malls for day gaming and even falsely accused of sexually assaulting by a woman once. Trust me, you do not want to live in England! It’s a feminist ruled society where women can say anything about a man and they automatically get believed.

I’m not sure what you’re point is regarding nofap, I couldn’t understand you’re description there.
Other than the “reset” part. How long does this “reset” take?
Last year I nofapped for 3 1/2 months whilst I paid off debts because I couldn’t afford prostitutes and it didn’t seem to reset anything.

I don’t see any benefits from not masturbating and in fact I notice that I don’t get erections as easily anymore.

I understood your point of view perfectly. Here in Brazil they recently created a law on sexual abuse in public transport, some law loopholes in which a woman can’t be complimented, even if the compliment isn’t offensive (example: You are beautiful), this can yield a process with the right to pass since a police report bulletin or even in a worse case spend one night in jail.
A practical example that it happened here in my city, a man was scratching his balls in a park (normal situation) and a woman accused him for doing something dirty and he was arrested.
I’m not impressed to see a several MGTOW men, men with red pill and black pill ideology. Really is adapting to the reality that feminism has entered in many countries and society has accepted.
The women of our generation are dead and buried for any long relationship and there are no unicorns (woman exception). And really now I understood why your choice for prostitutes and if i was on your foot, i would choose the same (yeah this situation is ugly).
But even knowing all of those things, i still would like to spend a season in England just to see how women from England are like. Married men should be happy and proud with such “behaved” wives, perhaps there will not be as many “cuckholds” as I see around here.

Actually reset is a feature that your brain acquires in perceiving reality how it’s.

Example: Watch a porno movie and your mind will understand there is a real possibility of having sex and then you have an erection.

Now the reality: Your logical side knows that you will not have sex or there is no harem that you can have sex any time you want, however your body literally understands the opposite, for your body having an orgasm is the same as you intercouse with a woman for example (even if you know that sensations aren’t the same).

The reset is used in support group (love and sex self help groups) here in my country is called DASA. People who are dependent on porno, masturbation, sexual compulsions and post-orgasm depression.

The reset is also used for couples who have problems in bed (only can get erection with masturbation or pornography) after long years (+7 years) who want to try the famous technique CAREZZA, in which experience the pleasure in wishing the body of the partner instead (desire each other body) instead of the focus being the orgasm itself.

The reset is also used for those who want to explore nine levels of orgasms (we got it at most until the 3rd) given to open the nerve and sensory endings given by the DEVA path and the Lingam (men) and Yoni (women) massages.

In short: Reset is only for your brain to get out of “virtual sex” and see reality. If this isn’t a problem and if you don’t see any advantages or have no interest in what it can provide as the examples above reset does not really bring you any benefit.

Apparently you’ve already got the reset point because of the weaker erections that you are having. A strange example for you to understand would be if for example if you are straight and you are in the men’s bathroom taking a shower without any clothes you will never have an erection because your brain will thinks (there are nothing sexual or exciting just ugly men naked taking a shower I will not be hard with that) and this very moment when you is masturbating your brain really understands that is no reason to get excited because there is no sex while masturbating so it doesn’t get so hard you trying to force the erection by yourself.

Sorry if you could not understand i’m just trying to help, English is not my mother tongue, the subject is complex to try to explain even in my language. Good luck and good earnings.