PatientGaining's Progress Log

September 27, 2016

8 min Lentil Sock
5 x 60 sec stretches (1 each direction)
50 dry jelqs

TG, you’re saying that a 15 minute warm up and a 10 minute warm down may help my gains? I jelq in the shower more these days so they’re warm as a byproduct of the water, and I try not to use cold hands anyway for comfort’s sake. As for the jelqs is there a difference in the results that dry and wet yield? I’m uncircumcised so I’m not sure if/how I can do wet jelqs.

There’s definitely a difference. What’s more, it’s worth looking up in some past threads. Jelqing isn’t my specialty but I know, from my own experience, jelqing without lube felt worthless.

Yes, increase the warmup. Add a warm down. These things do matter.

brainhans, I don’t think I’ve gained since I’ve last measured but you’re right, if I could gain at that rate consistently I’d have it made. Thank you for putting it in perspective.

I do feel I need a bigger penis. I’m honestly quite depressed about my size and I feel lacking and inadequate as a man. With that said, I’ve never had a woman tell me that I’m small. I don’t have any problems pleasing women, in fact I consistently give them experiences the likes of which they’ve never experienced. My stamina has long been good enough to have sex (of any variety) indefinitely (though I find over 3 hours is gratuitous, if you ever find a woman who can take it that long) and I would like to consider myself a skilled lover. I’ve never come across a woman who couldn’t orgasm with me, even if she never had before or doesn’t usually.

Despite the fact that it doesn’t seem to negatively effect my performance, despite the fact that I’ve never been told I’m small, I’ve always been unhappy with and embarrassed about my size. I look at your stats and envy you, wishing that I knew how it feels to be big, to be looked at by a woman as impressive, to have my cock appreciated as something remarkable and irresistible. When I take my pants off I feel like I’ve disappointed them, even if they don’t say it I feel they wanted or expected more and I want more badly than almost anything to know that I am just plain big.

At its core, I think the issue has roots in a pervasive feeling of unworthiness. I think that if I woke up tomorrow with a 7.5 x 5.25 unit (a goal I desperately want to reach, nbp preferably) I would either fear it wasn’t big enough or find another aspect of myself on which to cast my deep seated insecurities.

More important than the size, I think, is the fact that I have the power to change it. If I can prove to myself that I am able, through hard work and consistency, to dramatically alter an aspect of myself that most say is impossible to change, I will be able to look back on my PE journey and apply the skill of accomplishing the “impossible” in other areas of life.

I don’t think that getting a big penis will fix all of my problems. I think that the man I will become in the process is one that doesn’t have those problems.

Thank you, TG. If you happen to think of anything I can change about the way I jelq or stretch, or think that there is a particular thread which I would find beneficial, please feel free to link me to it.

What my stats don’t say is that, even though I am tall, athletic, intelligent, have an above average penis and whatnot, I am still a virgin.
I don’t SEE myself as that big because I’m 6’7” tall and I’m a grower and I can’t really see a difference with my gains because they were so gradual.
I envy you, because you seem to be a confident, skilled and experienced lover.
You appear to have a good idea about your true motivation to do this and I wish you the best of luck.
Just don’t stress yourself out because you think you “need” this.

What is a lig pop?

A “lig pop” is when a suspensory ligament along the base of the penis feels like it “pops” or releases a bit due to some sort of PE, typically manual stretches, jelqing, sometimes hanging. But any outward force that pulls the penis away from the body. When done gently, a ligament pop may signify gains in the near future or immediately. Typically a good sign.