Stigma of PE

Just a warning to everyone to maintain your privacy. Someone saw a receipt for a cock ring I bought and pulled me into a room to interrogate me and ask if there is “anything else” (my brother). They may have seen me pumping once I’m not sure, but damn. Lock away your stuff and be careful because people obviously do not take this stuff lightly. The stigma and implication is that you must be tiny or have psychological issues. I was really offended though. Why can’t a normal person seek personal improvement through such a simple practice? Mind blown at the moment and not even sure how to deal with it so just putting out there for the community.

Your brother sounds like a dick.

As much as it sucks, I’d just make sure to keep it on the DL and invest in a locked crate if you’re living in the same house as him.

Devices make it very easy to get caught if you aren’t careful.

Alpha,

Don’t worry about what other people think. Explain to your brother that this is making your penis healthy and growth is an added bonus. I’ve spent too much time worrying what others thought. If it’s something you want to do and it makes you happy…do it!

A crate and a locking closet or room.

Honestly, I spread the word but I simply cannot recommend trying to plead your case to the unsympathetic.

8x6, I like your positive attitude but when folks are younger and have a lot to lose socially I don’t think this is a stand worth taking when there are many things we keep private that we know are deal breaking hot buttons. This is one of those things.

Two of my brothers know I do PE and coach it. So does the gf and a best friend. But all of us are 30+ and are fresh out if fucks to give. Everyone just can’t be there in life yet.

Very true. In most cases something that just comes with age.

Ha yeah tell me about it, was in a rush one day and left a pump out… Talk about awkward.

But PE is one of those weird things… One part of me seeing my dick an inch thicker than when I started makes me want to tell everyone about PE and at the same time you also wanna tell nobody about PE.. I’d be more inclined to tell people or my friends about it once I’ve reached goals and can already prove it works. I always think if you try to tell a friend but haven’t made much improvements yet not only does your friend probably think your weird but he probably won’t even think it works either and just think you’re weird or something…

Locked all my stuff away today in a locked container. Also realize I have way too many things I don’t use. Over 300 USD of PE equipment:
2 vacuum pumps
Worthless bathmate
Bib starter that I haven’t used yet
Couple seals, lube

All this and I have never been even 2 weeks consistent. I guess there is another lesson here - don’t buy too much equipment that you can’t keep track off!

I always warn people not to buy things until they’re sure PE is a path they want to take. Shot gets expensive, fast.

It feels good to pe for free. No money lost but gains are made. Makes you appreciate them more. The only thing spent is time.

Car trunk is a perfect spot for these devices. I do not recall ever having my trunk searched by any woman/relative.

Don’t go to the border! Ha.

I keep mine in a tool bag in the basement with the rest of my tools. Wife would never look in one of those.

It’s funny.. I left my Capn’s wench out on the table one day, friends stopped by unannounced.

“What are these cable clamps/Velcro for?”
"Rewiring the TV, keep things tidy”
"Oh neat.”

Hahahah incognito!

I like the “all out of fucks to give” attitude. I’m there. I haven’t told my wife, but I will at some point. I’m too serious about it, now, to hide it. I’m still a manual guy, but she catches me tugging and squeezing and I sort of want to share with her what I’m doing and why.

If that were my brother, I would literally have told him to go fuck himself, and said it’s just a workout routine same as any other workout routine or told him it was my business and stay the fuck out of my business, dickhead! That’s all it is. Don’t let someone dick-shame you about it. Keep it private if you like, but you are entitled to defend yourself, and you have a right, nay, an obligation to profess your beliefs without fear of judgment or retribution.

You have a right to feel what you feel. Never let anyone, man woman child boss or priest or God himself tell you otherwise. Keep it private, fine. But not for shame.

- Saul