7 month injury.

First aside from the ejaculation issues, is the amount of sexual pleasure from simulation, etc. that you feel any less compared to before the injury? Then as far as the ejaculation, is it delayed ejaculation, or just reduced when you do ejaculate, or something else? Lastly what dose of Viagra did you try?

I’ve tried 50mg and 100mg, both give me weak erections at best.

Ejaculation is weak and my dick doesn’t contract like it used to before the injury also I never have a solid erection and sex it not even pleasurable it’s just like, ok… whatever.

So if you were getting say a blowjob you wouldn’t feel any pleasure during it? If you were wearing a pair of silk boxers you wouldn’t feel any pleasure when they brushed against your dick?

No, I wouldn’t feel it.

I have less sensation in my dick as well.

That is probably half of the reason why I can’t get as hard, I dunno, that or the “line” that goes horizontally across my dick.

Did this come on suddenly or gradually? Maybe you could give a little more detail about when it first started.

If you are pretty much feeling no sexual pleasure at all ever then I think the best thing you can do is to find stuff that you have fun doing and start doing it. Sometimes these injuries can get better even after a long time, but you want to start finding stuff that you still enjoy so that even without sexual pleasure you can still find some motivation. Speaking from experience on this. Do sexual thoughts still pop into your head, or has your mind felt blanked of sexual thoughts since this started, like you can try to force them but they don’t stick since they don’t generate any pleasure?

Hey Martin, I wasn’t expecting to be the one to help anyone else on my 1st post.. I came here after finding a link about traction devices (which I use and interested in other peoples experiences and recommendations and other peoples experiences).

I saw your post and thought I may be able to offer you some help with this. I am sorry you have had such a bad experience and it doesn’t help when you can not get any good genuine advice and often told to just ‘forget about it’ for see how it goes in another 6 months etc.. Which is very bad advice.. You want to start treating this as soon as possible.

I also have a scar tissue issue.. Which has resulted in me from being very confident in myself and my natural penis size has always been something I have been more than happy with and gave me a lot of self confidence, to suddenly waking up one morning and noticing something doesn’t feel quite right. As we all have days when we are not feeling our normal selves I just let this go and after a few months I noticed my penis had a hard lump/tissue forming in the middle of the shaft. I saw the Dr who the sent me for a scan, which came back as having ‘PEYRONIES DISEASE’

I had heard of peyronies before and told the Dr this was a mistake as I know that if you suffer with that it means you have severe curvature of the penis when erect, which I did not have any curvature. I did some more research and found Peyronies doesn’t necessarily mean you have to have any curvature. The main cause is unknown and thought to happen after you have had some kind of trauma to the penis like over vigorous sex or some kind of accident to the penis (also there is some mention of Finasteride having some effect on the penis tissue if you have taken that before) which you do not detect any pain and it goes un-noticed for weeks or months until you just start noticing some pain or discomfort, penis length can also reduce in size up to 2" for some people (which is what I had happen to me, I went from being confidently above average size and never thought it would be an issue in my life to dropping way below average which is very shocking to experience as who would ever have thought that could happen! Unless you are aware of peyronies disease). This causes you do find it difficult to maintain an erection, size issue causes difficulty in having a partner and having a bad / embarrassing traumatic sexual experience which your partner instead of a enjoyable one and some pain even without an erection during the day which will usually last a few years until the scar is fully developed and then it will have set in and be very hard to do anything about other than having surgery which is the very last resort.

What normally happens is the Dr will then send you to a Urologist who will ‘usually’ offer you very standard poor textbook advice and recommendations, which involve:

1: Not doing anything and come back in another 6 months and see if it goes away by itself! (The worst advice you could get as once the scar is fully formed it is much harder to treat).

2: Take some Vit E twice a day and that will be all you need. (There is no medical evidence that Vit E will do anything what so ever to help which Peyronies)

3: Having surgery (the very last resort in the most extreme of cases)

I also had to wait 3 - 4 months before I could see the NHS Urologist and prior to that 2 months for a scan. So I had lost approx 6 months of my treatment time.

I found a gentleman by the name of John Parks on the internet that had a great deal of knowledge to share on self treating Peyronies disease as his case was extremely severe and he too was not getting anywhere with his specialists. He has a 90 degree bend and was considering suicide as he felt his wife would leave him but has now turned his life around and completely fixed his own Peyronies disease and talks openly to anyone that wants help with this on his website, he does this all for free.

I have been following his advice and only recently began his recommendations on the supplements you have take to help treat this condition along with exercises to help break down the scar tissue.

You may want to check his website out.. Which you will need to read through and see if this is going to help you and at least give you some much more well informed advice.. Than.’just wait another year and see how it goes’

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He also has a video on youtube that introduces himself..

My advice is .. To make you own decisions.. Decide on what you believe will be the best option for you and do as much research as you can on the advice John Parks offers. This is also fairly new to me as only have only began following the advice John has set out.. But for me it has given me a great deal of hope and I know I am going to be able to do something about this now.. Other than nothing at all which was the advice from the Dr’s and Urologists.

Good luck.. Hope this helps educate anyone else that is also suffering or just was unaware of Peyronies disease and what it involves.

You guys like being fooled? I don’t. There was something about this kid and his post that seemed to not make sense. Well last night after a few beers and nothing to do I thought I’d go do some snooping. He did say he was kicked out of another place so I figured I’d go take a look. It took a while but I found him.

He joined there in Dec of 2016, Christmas day to be exact. He was all ready to begin PE. He joined here in May 2017 and said he’d been injured for 7 months which means Nov 2016. Funny he was fine in Dec so what happened?
Now he starts an injury thread over there in March of 2017 claiming, as many do, that jelqing ruined his penis. He did mention over there that he had a urologist appointment in May 2017. But he tell us here that it’s months away and he’s still waiting?

The two stories don’t add up. It shows a young mentally troubled kid that needs help for his mind. He got booted from the other place because they decided his injury was mental. They seem smart over there.

So if you guys want too feed into his mental issues by giving him all kinds of physical remedies than be my guest. You’re not helping him.Go to the other place he was at, the pegym, and look for etuhu. You’ll find him in the injury section or just do a search. Read and tell me what you think.

Jimmybob I checked into it and the first post you’re referring to would be the one on the thread titled “small to big (flaccid)” made on December 25, 2016, where he starts by asking if anyone else started out with an embarrassingly small flaccid penis size, and goes on to say that he did manage to get to a half decent size through regular PE, but since he stopped, it had gone back to its original size. It also shows that he joined the site in June 2016.

So he likely started PE in June 2016, and was following up in December to check about his progress. It’s the end of May now, so if he was injured near the beginning of January, that would be almost 7 months. People don’t always add up the exact correct number of months on a timeline from when an injury started, but overall the timeline follows.

What was the title of the thread where he posted that he had seen a urologist? I saw one post he made where he said it was taking forever to get an appointment. Still though, there was no justification to ban him since he didn’t start saying he hadn’t gotten an appointment yet until coming here. The other stuff you said about him starting PE in December was obviously false (and no, I don’t like being fooled) since he joined in June and in his December post was following up about his progress.

Try reading page 10. You just don’t get it do you?

Gentlemen.

No amount of bickering will solve the OP issues. Yes plural because it’s not solely about his dick and it’s function.

At this point it seems to me like we care more about his well being than he does. There’s been ample time for him to work on the controllable issues, yet he’s taken a back seat to those ideas.

We are all simply guessing. His issues need qualified medical attention. For us to keep throwing darts is pointless. He needs to seek help for himself to end the self pity and guesswork.

What if he’s never healed? What if it’s all in his mind? Those are questions I won’t attempt to answer.

This isn’t meant to be bickering at all just asking for clarification. Are you talking about page 10 of this thread, or a thread on the other forum and if so what’s the title of the thread?

Also his symptoms might have started to show up before he made the post on the 25th updating his progress, but since they were just starting he wasn’t sure at that point if it was just over training/fatigue or an injury.

Read the whole thing, he was posting the same stuff under two usernames which is probably why he was banned.

The user name given by Jimmy will take you to 2 different threads on PE Gym. Log in, search for username and both will pop right up. The title of the thread we are referring to is "Jelqing has destroyed my dick" https://www.peg ym.com/forums/p … ed-my-dick.html

Both are written in the same exact writing style as the OP here. Both speak of identical symptoms. Are characterized by despair and frustration. He posted on multiple threads asking the same questions, over and over again (to the tune of the same complaints that we have given him here) And…the thread on PE Gym recommended almost all of the same things we have (except the DSMO Iodine, I guess we’re bigger on that remedy here and it ain’t got big on PE Gym yet).

I do not know what has happened to the OP. It seems bad. But he’s asked the same questions dozens of times in multiple places and appears to only reply to mention that nothing works and then ask the same questions again like there are different answers we can give him. He has also done this under another account name at PE Gym in the past, apparently. Big Al repeatedly tried to counsel him, in the thread and in personal messages. I’m sure he wasn’t the only user or moderator at PE Gym who made the attempt, either. After they closed his initial complaint thread, he tried to derail other threads and they moved those posts to his closed thread, this was before they banned him out of frustration. He also did this same thing under another name, as it appears on PE Gym and that makes 2 user accounts there, doing the same routine. Which is likely why he got banned again.

So it is obvious that nothing we say here will matter. I mean look at your exchanges with him, inspirit99. Look at everyone’s exchanges with him. He is contrary to every single thing we have to say and in this thread and the thread at PE Gym…guys injured like this but for longer and worse have offered him consolation and told him to stay strong but he just shrugged it off and repeated his questions. Verbatim. Again and again. I read through the entire thread. You should to, before you keep responding, so you know with whom you are dealing.

The OP may well be hurt. But, not only is there nothing we can do…it doesn’t even matter what we say to him. I can’t say wasting more energy is justifiable. We have given him the very best advice that we have, some of us have poured our hearts out towards him but at the end of the day his insistence on asking the same questions to get responses out of the good and sympathetic among us is indicative of one thing.

Fishing.

For attention. And that…is what this has been, every single time he says "pencil dick" at the end of his posts. Or "feels bad, man" and "…will it ever get better?" and "…it feels like I don’t have a dick."

All of those statements provoke disapproval. Provoke a thoughtful reply from anyone with a heart and that’s the thing he wants. Attention. And that is the only thing that’s been accomplished in the 15 pages that this thread has sprawled out to. An outpouring of energy based around one man and his perceived injury and complete impotence to do anything on Earth to help himself in this regard. At all. The symptoms change. They seem to multiply, the longer he posts. All of it requires more attention, more discourse and the cycle simply will not end. Having read through both threads…it’s the same thing, just a different web address.

Having made the effort to help him, having spoken on my own personal struggles and them disregarded in favor of asking the same questions over and over as though I haven’t spoken…it’s pretty obvious to me what went on at PE Gym and is going on here.

Proceed, if you like. But all of the pages in both threads look like the first.

After he was banned, he made another account, which was then also banned. But the second account wasn’t made until after the first one was already banned, meaning the two accounts aren’t why he was banned the first time, just in case there was any confusion about the two accounts and banning the first one.

I think he’s just venting, upset, angry. etc. Sometimes when people are really hurt they just need to get it out of their system. It isn’t always about being rational and doing the most beneficial thing for oneself. Some people can obviously stay more calm during challenging times but maybe he’s just more sensitive and is probably not the best person to have gotten a PE injury. Basically I don’t think he’s looking for attention so much as he is trying to just vent and sometimes venting can be helpful for people. If it goes on and on and on, then I would say yea it’s a problem, but it can help with the initial emotional impact of difficult situations.

It’s been about 7 months, so based on what he’s said about the severity of the symptoms, the venting and coming to grips phase might take a little while, easily more than a year. I doubt he’ll keep posting the same stuff again and again for over a year, he’ll probably vent and come to grips in other ways in his life until he’s finally ready to face it and implement the best most rational strategy to move forward, but as humans sometimes we need to deal with the emotions first, and it’s easier said than done.

With my responses I’ve been trying to help him get a sense of the closure that’s been so difficult for me to get with my injury, and I don’t know if it’ll help at all, but it doesn’t really matter to me if he’s telling the truth or not, because if he’s not then so what? I don’t feel like I wasted my time because I still had the right intentions, and if he is telling the truth but I focus more on being suspicious then it could really cause harm. If he keeps posting the same questions forever then it is what it is, but I’ll do what I can.

Why the f**k would I be lying about this?

I really don’t understand why anyone would waste their time posting on forums about non existent injuries…

Do you think people have time for that shit like seriously? what is there to gain from that?