Erectile Dysfunction after jelqing erect 7 months ago. (nerve damage?) Pic included

Please read the whole thing, I’m so sad and I don’t know what to do.

My dick hasn’t been the same since December. I jelqed erect for 3 sessions total. On the last session, I remember my dick was fully hard and I was jelqing, then I must have injured something because it deflated like a balloon immediately. Ever since then I’ve had trouble getting and maintaining an erection. Also when I have sex I have premature ejaculation now. I finish in around 1 minute. Before I used to last around 20 minutes in bed.

Please look at the pic I linked above. The first pic is before PE. The remaining pics are after my injury. The veins right below the glans in the pictures seem different. Is this plaque? Could it be affecting my erections?

Symptoms:
-Erectile dysfunction (it’s hard to get an erection, and maintain it). When I stand up it usually disappears quickly.
-Premature ejaculation (last only 1 minute in bed now). Why? I’m curious about this one. I think when I jack off and ejaculate, the semen doesn’t shoot out sometimes now, it just leaks out.
-Flaccid dick is cold sometimes, especially glans. This probably means not enough blood is circulating there.
-Hard to kegal my dick when it’s flaccid sometimes. (Hard to move it up and down). Sometimes penis feels lifeless.
-Sometimes flaccid is skinny and lifeless.

I do get morning wood most mornings though.

Also, I don’t know if I have hard flaccid or pelvic pain. How can I tell? I never feel pain in my pelvic area. Is pelvic pain or pelvic floor dysfunction supposed to hurt? I never feel any actual pain in my pelvic area.

I’m able to get erect eventually by stroking my dick and looking at porn. But the erection usually disappears if I stop touching myself.

Did anyone have a similar experience? How do I heal this? In the first month after my injury I had loss of sensation in the glans and part of my shaft. But I don’t have loss of sensation or numbness symptoms anymore. It’s been 7 months. I don’t know what to do anymore. Is this permanent?

Go to a doctor!! Don’t even think of doing anything else rather than going to a doctor!!

Morning wood is a good sign! Stop fapping, stop porn. Maybe you are just fapping too much. Read this book: Your Brain on Porn: Internet Pornography and the Emerging Science of Addiction.

It describes how a man can loose erection by too much arousal stimulation and how to get it back.

But, GO TO A DOCTOR!! Cold flaccid dick is not normal at all!!

Regarding the premature ejaculation, you are forcing an erection to keep your penis up. You must be relaxed or you will cum faster. The more you force, more premature it happens. Your body will learn this pattern, so stop forcing the erection.

Go to a doctor and see if you didn’t damage your veins or nerve or any other physical part.

Wish you best.

Tell us more about your routine..

Did you warm up? Did you stretch? How much force you applied? Did jelq with an easy grip or a strong as hell grip?

Maybe some experts here can help you figure this out.

“Erectile Dysfunction after jelqing erect 7 months ago”

-That’s your problem. No one should Jelq “Erect” you asked for trouble with that one.
The forum stated 30-70% erect is fine/safe. You did it erect bro, I’d say better leave that penis alone for a month.
-As they said go to a doctor to see if it’s a serious injury if he says it’s fine lay off PE until you feel like before.
-Then start again like a beginner and be freaking SAFE , if you can’t loose the erection simply don’t do jelqs. \
-You need to take PE very seriously, it’s all about you being patient and safe, consistent and smart about it.
Good luck, hope you heal ASAP.

rush9mota is a new member with 2 posts, so I’m not sure where he is getting his information. A doctor will not be able to help you unless you are looking for pills, injections or an implant, as confirmed by every post ever since 2002. The doctor debate is long over, and anyone attempting to rekindle it for some reason or another is wasting people’s time and ignoring hard evidence. The only thing they would be willing and reliably able to test for is bloodflow in and bloodflow out. Penile doppler ultrasounds do not test for structural anomalies (links about dopplers done on a person’s thigh to check for something else are totally different, and not evidence to the contrary). Some have reported worsening of their issues after doctor’s rough physical handling to feel around for peyronie’s disease.

Are you able to get an erection sufficient for sex in any position? Are there certain positions where, after ejaculation, your symptoms much less likely to be worse? The premature ejacution I’d try to overcome through simply practicing and trying not to ejaculate. I’d also test out a few reps of the angion method (1,2 or 3) and always use a silicone lube during masturbation, which will increase stimulation and bloodflow, and help along any healing process that is attempting to happen.

Go see a doctor!

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If you want you can upload the picture in the fourm. It’s easier and safer for everybody.

We appreciate!

Also for some of these obscure, weird posts, that crop up less than once in a blue moon, in which the poster talks about blood coming out of their penis and following up on it by having a myriad of tests performed to check for damage to their urethra, damage to tubes leading from the urethra to the kidneys, or kidneys, have nothing whatsoever to do with the standard procedure for sexual issues (try to relax- possibly a doppler- pills- injections- implant) so don’t be confused by it.

I think the problem is permanent. My injury is about 5 months now and it still getting worse. Penis feels like a balloon and light as a feather like theres nothing in it. Going in for more test next week to inject dye to check vessels. Might end up doing penis revascularising

Amigo…con toda la amabilidad del mundo… Porque no intentas descansar el pene. Creo que tengo un problema muy similar al tuyo, y solo se a recuperado con descanso. Hace 7 meses tengo dolores y creo que son los nervios. Los cuales necesitan descanso y vitaminas para recomponerse.

So around 6 months ago I started doing some manual stretching and pumping. My goal was to increase a little girth and maybe a half inch in length . Around 3 months of a on and off again routine I noticed I did have some gains . Around a 1/4 inch in in girth and length . My issue now is my flaccid state seems to be soft at times . Much softer then I remember . I have plenty of feeling and am not numb ; however something is not right . I can get an erection , but not the rock solid like I used to . The injury happens around 6 months ago . I did not really notice the injury until a few rough sex sessions and me masturbating to hard seem to set it off . My symptoms came on fast after this . My flaccid state went from firm and mostly short to very jello / rubbery like. I went to urologist . He told me that my symptoms did not really exist and if I was still getting erections that things were fine . I assume he thought this was in my head . Its definitely not ! I took some time off and did not masturbate for 6 weeks. I saw a lot of improvements , but still was not 100 percent better . I do notice that if I do not masturbate I have periods of recover , and things seem closer to normal . When ever I masturbate I seem to have set backs and it takes a while to recover . I really don’t like the flaccid state I am in. It goes from firm to loose and long . My flaccid state a few months back was very soft , way to soft and was very scary . It has seemed to recover a lot recently. Hopefully it will continue . When I lay on my back I can get erections , but when I am flaccid I really deflate and it’s gets too soft again. My question is has anyone else has these issues, and if so did they heal . Everything seems to work just not perfect . My plan is now to refrain from masturbating for at least 3 months possible longer . Take supplants , eat right, and see what happens . Also my morning erections are still coming in they are soft , but I still get them . If I don’t masturbate for 3 to 4 weeks morning erections are very strong and hard again . Any masturbation really drains me and takes me a while to recover . Any advice or insight would be appreciated . Thanks for the help

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So around 6 months ago I started doing some manual stretching and pumping. My goal was to increase a little girth and maybe a half inch in length . Around 3 months of a on and off again routine I noticed I did have some gains . Around a 1/4 inch in in girth and length . My issue now is my flaccid state seems to be soft at times . Much softer then I remember . I have plenty of feeling and am not numb ; however something is not right . I can get an erection , but not the rock solid like I used to . The injury happens around 6 months ago . I did not really notice the injury until a few rough sex sessions and me masturbating to hard seem to set it off . My symptoms came on fast after this . My flaccid state went from firm and mostly short to very jello / rubbery like. I went to urologist . He told me that my symptoms did not really exist and if I was still getting erections that things were fine . I assume he thought this was in my head . Its definitely not ! I took some time off and did not masturbate for 6 weeks. I saw a lot of improvements , but still was not 100 percent better . I do notice that if I do not masturbate I have periods of recover , and things seem closer to normal . When ever I masturbate I seem to have set backs and it takes a while to recover . I really don’t like the flaccid state I am in. It goes from firm to loose and long . My flaccid state a few months back was very soft , way to soft and was very scary . It has seemed to recover a lot recently. Hopefully it will continue . When I lay on my back I can get erections , but when I am flaccid I really deflate and it’s gets too soft again. My question is has anyone else has these issues, and if so did they heal . Everything seems to work just not perfect . My plan is now to refrain from masturbating for at least 3 months possible longer . Take supplants , eat right, and see what happens . Also my morning erections are still coming in they are soft , but I still get them . If I don’t masturbate for 3 to 4 weeks morning erections are very strong and hard again . Any masturbation really drains me and takes me a while to recover . Any advice or insight would be appreciated . Thanks for the help

Hi Bnasty.

The flaccid state should not be a problem, at all. You stretched your tunica albuginea, as a result it is more flaccid than before, your flaccid state will be longer and softer. Don’t get me wrong, but think in a virgin pussy, and in a porn star pussy. One is more firm than other, right? Why? A porn star pussy was trained to be stretched! That is exactly what you are doing to you dick! More stretched, less firm.

The thing about erection state is that your body is pushing the blood to your penis. You have strong erections, but, maybe you are too worried and you lose your arousal, or you are not enough aroused.

Go see an urologist again and ask which exams can be done to evaluate a possible malfunction of the penis. For sure he will ask for a doppler ultrasound and than he will be able to evaluate the penis functionality.

I suffered ED by porn addiction, which I’m still fighting to have my erections back. In doppler exam my body pushes the blood but is not able to retain it inside. It’s getting better, but it takes years to be normal again. I stopped porn for good and it really helps.

My advice? Relax. Stop fake stimulation (save you penis for sex only). Stop PE till you feel everything is normal again.

Give us a feedback after a while.

Wish you best

Hi Bnasty,

I got loose flexible erections after a stretching session. The following exercise helped -

NicholasVan - Kegel - the secret revealed

Also check out captainphils post on the next page of that thread. Good luck.

Thanks for the advice . I appreciate it . I plan on relaxing and hopefully in time will heal . I am giving up porn . Is it ok to masturbate or should I give that up for a while too ? Any idea if the tunica albuginea can heal with rest ? I assume it will, most likely a lengthy process that will take several months ? Thanks again for your input