Jelqing has destroyed my life A warning.

Bumping any thread is against the Forum Guidelines.

“or bump threads (post in threads simply to make them rise up the topic list)”

Which clearly isn’t the case here is it?

So again, what is the problem with Jonny posting in this thread to ask if I am “fixed”? That is not “bumping” as the forum guidelines see it.

If I didn’t know better I’d think certain individuals are just hoping this this thread will disappear? I know better though. I think.

Can you answer Narrator’s question from the previous page? That would be more useful to many here trying to understand your current state.

willy wonka - Jelqing has destroyed my life A warning.

:rolleyes:

ED meds do not work no.

I still lose erections as quickly as I can get them up.

As I have said to every urologist I have consulted with “take a condom, make lots of little holes in it and try and blow it up like a balloon. That’s how it feels.” I never had an problem achieving or maintaining an erection prior to jelqing.

Semantics.

You knew full well what I meant.

WW, I’d stop suggesting conspiracies against you, the truth is fairly simple: I did read only your post asking ‘Why bumping this thread is an issue?’ and I answered that specific question. Now that I read Mem’ post, I think he was actually worried that Jonni17 was pushing his opinion more than anything else. This thread is near 3 years old, no one has closed it, you weren’t banned, we even made a thread pointing out that jelqing could cause to few predisposed males permanent ED, which is, IMHO, erring on the safe side; the phylosophy of this forum has always been ‘better safe than sorry’, no one is interested in hiding your story, as long we believe you are not trolling.

One post in a dead thread could be considered a misfortune, two in a row looks careless and three is where a mod steps in and asks for the aberrant behaviour to cease.

What was this thread about again?

Well I am as stumped as every urologist you have consulted.

I wish I could think of something that would help you, but I cannot come up with any structural damage you could have done to your penis by jelqing that would not either heal with time or be helped by PE meds. I may not know as much about penile anatomy and function as most urologists but I deal with structural injury and tissue damage every day, am pretty clued up about penile anatomy, and know a great deal more about jelqing than probably any urologist out there.

I would be surprised if anyone here could help, based on your description and the lack of any effective treatment from every urologist you have seen. I’m glad I can’t recall hearing of this problem from anyone else here.

I have several PM’s from men saying “I I have exactly the same problem”.

Hey willy I do think your situation is unusual but I had a good laugh reading a post from jonny127 that a good doctor can tell you the cause of most health problems.LOL.Ask any doctor whats the ROOT cause of most health problems and they don’t have a clue. Trust me I know from personal experience. Don’t get to frustrated arguing logic to doctors cause you won’t get anywhere. Like I said in that message I sent you psychiatry is a psuedoscience so don’t waste your time on psychiatry if thats what you been doing. They make up new conditions all the time. Homosexuality used to be a mental illness. But I do think your condition is unusual and when I’m feeling better ill read over all the posts in full and would like to here back from you cause I wanna get into PE but never really done any

Again, what you described is totally compatible with a psychosomatic ED, I am astonished that none of your urologists told you that.
You need to re-educate yourself to your feelings, after that post-traumatic sexual stress episode you had, you need to learn another time to feel the sexual excitement, stopping thinking compulsively to need an erection. Forgive your penis.
Indeed, forgive to have one. Start focusing on your mind, on that girl you liked when you were young. 99% of th erection is in your mind. Can you stay 1 month without even look at your pants? start from here. The fact you can still achieve something erected despite how weak it is, it’s a very good sign.
But, if you don’t trust anyone, than nobody can help you. Is it better to follow other people saying that medicine can’t do nothing? Cosmic pessimism will lead you to nowhere. What Marinera says is right, everibody is trying to be respectful and truthful here.

Wow this whole thread has been brutal to read.

I thankfully never got into jelquing of any sort.

I did however start doing some minor stretching, and I’m thinking of even stopping those. I may not be happy with my penis size, but it’s definitely better to have it working than to have a larger penis that no longer works.

If I were ever in a situation were I could no longer get any kind of sexual release, I would probably look into getting some kind of chemical, or physical castration. I’ve been reading up on other sites where men have had penectomies for whatever reason (usually due to cancer) and the only thing that helps them afterwards to deal with the libido is to cut the source of the hormones that create the libido.

I couldn’t see any other way to deal with a loss of sensation at this level.

Hi Andron,

Welcome to the forum. It’s definitely important to read and take notice of injury threads, many provide good clues as to what to avoid.

That said, many thousands of men have jelqed without an injury or with rather temporary and superficial injuries.

If you’ve simply scanned this thread, it may be worth reading it through thoroughly.

Hello Memento.

Yes I definitely understand that. I see all the success stories here and in other parts of the web. In my particular case, I’m happy with my girth, so I definitely won’t be trying any jelquing of any sort.

I’ve seen the videos on it though, and it seems like this is an activity that does have potential to squeeze nerves too tight and damage them. I wonder if some people have nerves deeper into the tissue than others.

In my particular case, I’m interested in only the stretching exercises, but I haven’t been able to find any concrete data on how far is it safe to stretch without damaging the nerves. I even asked a urologist, and his answer was “we don’t know, everyone is different”

As for this particular thread, I read the entire thing carefully until about half way, then I just skimmed through the rest (since it seemed to be repeating). I just wanted to suggest to the OP, and any sufferers of permanent damage, that, if they have no hope of ever recovering sexual function, then the next step might be to cancel their libido, whether chemically, or if needed, physically. That’s what I would consider if I were in their situation (hopefully I never am)