female libido

I choosed her, last night we had a long discussion, hard and painful, but have been the most honest possible i can be.
And after an hour or painful reflexion i realised that for now i need more stability than i need to fuck other girls.
I told her i can stay with her for now, but somehow, one day i will maybe leave and need to be alone.
She told me she dont like to think about the future and i agreed, lets enjoy now and dont think about potential future.

I had the sensation that if i leave now i will regret it so hard, that was strange.
But now i made a choice, and ive been honest with her and my self, it feels good.

She lives in Paris bro

I have the worst luck. Lol

haha sorry ^^

If my girl smoked, took drugs, didn’t train and there where no sex I would have dumped her already. We would never even be together in the first place.

yes but I’ve been through it too (except for the libido) and I know exactly how to get out of it.
And she’s a girl with whom I get along very well.
So I told myself that if I help her, she could become like a precious stone that we polished to make it shine.
I thought to myself what a mess, let’s change all that.
Then here i am.
But i’ll finish what ive started no matter what.
Then i will see.

You think weed is a drug? Seriously? Have you ever tried weed? Have you ever drank alcohol? Last I checked alcohol is a drug. And if that’s the case your options on women are going to be small.

To me it sounds like weed is the least of her problems. It could be many things depression being one of them. If it is depression then yes she should stop weed and cigarettes and alcohol or any other drug. It could also be hormonal. It could be something from her childhood or past. None of us can really answer that nor can the OP unless she’s completely open and honest with him. But are any of us completely open and honest with our SO?

Do you know what constitutes to be a drug? Another thing, to a drug be legal or illegal depends on if is a democratic country and how the society sees it, if a drug is social acceptable then it will be legal, for example alcohol and other ones that you can buy at the pharmacy. I could say a lot more about drugs, and how weed can kill your neurons and fuck up your brain, mainly the brain’s reward system.

Anything could have happened in order for her to not want sex. That said, as of what I understood of what OP says, his concern is that the problem could be drugs. I would like to see djrobbins opinion on this, I loved his comments.

In my country weed is forbidden. Weed and other drugs can be the start for heavier stuff. And when you see the problems there is in America with drugs it might be the case here.

The drug problem in the America is bad because of prohibition. Look at alcohol prohibition in America and all the problems it caused during its period. Also as stated above the government is also a major contributor to the drug problems in America along with the pharmaceutical companies. That’s not opinion that’s fact based on lawsuits and recent arrest. We can debate all day about drugs. I myself am a recovering addict. I’ve lost my father to the disease. So I considered myself well versed in the subject. Also pot weed whatever you want to call is not nearly the gateway drug you think it is, alcohol on the hand is very much so a gateway drug.

I don’t agree that weed is the main problem here. As far as I know, cigarettes hurt your sexual activity way more than anything else besides intense alcohol drinking.

Maybe it’s different with everyone, but it seems that weed makes everyone much more horny cause it creates a vasodilation effect, plus mental arousal get more intense. Me and lots of people I know would agree with this.

Plus, probably you people should check your attitude against soft drugs like alcohol or weed, not like we are talking about cocaine or else. Anyways, if your girl has some kind of psychological disorder you should support her to get some professional advice, NOT ASKING RANDOM PEOPLE ON INTERNET. Most people here are just giving opinions that are not scientifically accurate.

Hope you can get better with your girl, good luck.

What constitutes a drug here in the US is how the government can control it simply as that. Can they control it and if so how much money can be made on it? That’s all the government gives a shit about. Don’t be fooled.

Look back at most US wars and then look at what drugs became huge during those conflicts and wars. It tells you a lot about drugs and government and also big pharma and how much will be made off of that particular drugs treatment after said conflict/war.

Here in Sweden only the state is allowed to sell alcohol. Except bars, clubs and restaurants. No drugs is allowed. And that’s probably the reason we don’t have excessive alcoholism and drug abuse.

I’m sure you know much more about this than I am. I hardly drink😂😂

I prefer freedom to make choices for myself.

Exactly!!! I’ve always felt the better word is the liberty to make my own choices!