female libido

Me to, but there are lot of people that can’t handle them self with alcohol, drugs, guns and not even food. Look at all the fat people all over the world. And all men that are addicted to porn, there are a few here on Thunders.

When it’s to easy to get it will be lots of abuse and sorry to say USA is one of the leading country here.

To outlaw something creates other issues. Like others here, I believe the government should stay out of the vast majority of choices people can make.

I am from Europe originally. Not every country there is aligned with Swedish laws (in fact very few are), and yet the rate of alcoholism and drug abuse is not very different compared to Sweden. See a direct comparison on alcohol consumption between Sweden and the EU average here: https://www.eur o.who.int/__dat … P_FS_Sweden.pdf

So you could easily conclude that all that regulation in Sweden is for absolutely zero effect - i.e. bigger bureaucracy for absolutely no reason.

How this philosophical discussion on free will versus government came to appear under "female libido" is one of those Thunders mysteries. :-D

I believe you misunderstood me. What constitutes to be a drug is different than if the drug is legal or illegal, to be legal or illegal is necessary the legislative power to make it happen or not happen, in a democracy legislative power are elected by the people, therefore the opinion, culture and understanding of the representatives of the people are the ones who rules the country, if people elect deputies or congressmen and senators that are in favor of certain drugs or opinions then they will fight for it.
Weed is a drug, and I got nothing against it personally, in my opinion in a democratic State in which the institutions work incorruptibly, lots of drugs could be decriminalized and its users be considered chemical dependents in order for it to become a matter of public health, of course there are ones that will be used recreationally such as weed and mushrooms (psilocybin), this way drug users wouldn’t be bothered by police and being sent to jail by the judiciary for getting high. I understand that your reference in this matter is the history of your country, but don’t tell me to look up the history of your country for the reasons you know you won’t search mine, I don’t study USA history for the same reason you USA citizens don’t study Brazil’s, the world does not rotate around your country. I went to search about what you said and for what I understand your thoughts are deeply in conspiracy theories, I got nothing to say about this anymore.

Are you seriously doubting about the fact that weed affect the libido ?
I mean … for real ?
Weed must be one of the most libido slayer drug in the world.
It increase the dopamine need of your brain like crazy, meaning > low arousal > low motivation > low stamina etc……
This is just the most obvious thing ever.
Weed is a personality eraser.
First time you smoke, you get a super arousal stimlulation, then … the more you smoke the more it decrease, until there is nothing left.

That said, a drug is a simple word to define a toxic substance which modifies perception and / or behavior.
The dangerousness increases with the quantity.
Legislation is legislation, drugs are drugs.

By the way, smoking weed is probably the worst thing to do when fighting against depression….
And it doesn’t matter if it’s in her childhood or something else, she’ll feel better after she quits this crap anyway.

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Wife and I smoke on the weekends, then fuck.

Abuse is abuse and anything can be abused.

Life is seldom black or white.

If someone is sitting around on the couch high, drinking and eating shit all day, well, we almost have too many variables there to figure out what is doing the damage. My guess is whatever is demotivating that individual to be productive and healthy is the issue. Something up in the head.

A burger on Saturday night after a week of exercise and productivity is not the issue.

A burger every meal might mess us up.

Live a healthy lifestyle and there are no issues playing out of bounds every now and then.

All relative. So depending on context, I guess everyone is right:-)

Like with every other drug, the effect is a combo of dosage/frequency/personal tolerance.

Of course drugs have the power to mess up anyone’s life, but it’s just the tool that the addictive personality goes for. We all know that making drugs illegal has never eliminated their use. It is also theorized that it creates a mystique that feeds into people that want to “protest” our collective bourgeois lifestyle and conformity.

Back to the topic at hand - neither of us knows better than the OP what effect drugs have on his SO’s libido. Living and dealing with addictive people is a complex and difficult topic on which I have neither direct experience nor expertise, and all I can do is wish the SO much luck and an improved sex life in the near future.

Thank you.

In that case my girlfriend has a huge addictive personality even with food or whatever, so

I am deeply convinced that it will only great for her to live in good health.

Then she can maybe get addicted to exercise!

Every time I have found my self out of balance, health, head, etc.

Exercise is typically the missing ingredient. When we exercise we change the chemistry and shake things up, ultimately become more balanced. Become more motivated all around. We start to eat healthier, we get more active, we think more clearly.

Exercise is an amazing pill!

Yeah i try to make her addicted to sport, it is in progress.
But when she smokes weed she cannot exercicse so thats the reason why im trying to make her quit.
And exercise is a libido stimulant btw.

Again, not an expert, but my experience with weed is: I *hate* Indica strains, they numb you. I have enjoyed Sativa highs, but again, I am a highly occasional user, and then in moderation. Not sure if your SO has a preference. I am the same with alcohol - I enjoy just the early stage of tipsiness, only and exclusively drink wine because it allows me to apply the exact dosage I enjoy and control. I grew up around several friends that developed drug problems, and I distanced myself from them for self-preservation - probably that explains my strong instinct to always maintain very strict control over my "drug" use, and to strictly limit my choice to sources I am very comfortable with.

With sativa weed I did grow my own for several years, but lost interest and probably I still have an entire year’s harvest somewhere in the garage.

Great example of preference and context.

I’m the opposite, I love Indica. Wife and I love the body high, it sprinkles in nicely when we have sex. We don’t smoke until the week’s and day’s chores are done, we smoke weekend nights and enjoy some time together, no goals to attain.

I’m like Summer’s SO. When I smoke, Indica, sativa, hybrid, it doesn’t matter, I become personally less productive. Might pick up an instrument late night, but that’s the extent of it. So we don’t smoke during the day and week, save it for play time.

I do have some friends that are very productive when smoking, different strokes for different folks. Like you smooth, I have also lost friends to drugs, some in mind, others in body.

In the end what makes me best and most productive is not the same recipe as my neighbor’s.

Know thy self.

Indeed.

And heal yourself when you’re astray.

Humans are the only species that sometimes ignores survival instinct, tragically. The most frustrating part of dealing with addicts is that they suppress survival, self-love and every positive thing they have potentially going for themselves, and meekly offer their throat to the self-destructive monster that savages their lives.

I haven’t smoked weed in 40 years but I do remember it made me so fucking horny I thought my dick was going to rip its way out of my jeans. The erection I got was the best I ever had when high.

Best erections are in the presence of super relaxation.