Originally Posted by iwillbbigger
This may seem weird KG but it seems like you ans I are somewhat kind of in the same boat with this. My wife doesn’t like sex. I may get it twice a month. But in terms of my wife, it seem now that she too as yours is now beginning to try more things and is now doing things that I wouldn’t have never imagined. Like giving me oral sex more often even without me asking for it. It makes me think that world is about to come to an end. But as you said,” It’s a long process to undo a prudish upbringing” and I must agree.
Originally Posted by King_G
Dude did you should check this out, good advice I reckon…Sexual “take-away” strategy
Dude I tried that take-away strategy above. I was crap and didn’t last very long but it worked!
We hadn’t had sex for a week. I think my wife was expecting me to try it on, but I didn’t, in fact for the last 3 days I completely ignored her sexually. On Sunday night I got in bed and started going to sleep. She got in bed next to me and starting stroking my leg with her leg. Quite unusual, she rarely makes sexual advances at bed time. She’ll flirt around with me during the day, when there’s no chance of actually having sex because the kids are around. But as soon as it reaches the evening, she never makes sexual advances and is usually ‘too tired’ or some other excuse if I try to initiate something.
Anyway there she is stroking my leg and I’m immediately thinking, wow! my lucky day, I could have sex right now if I wanted it. It was hard to turn her down, but I had masturbated earlier in the evening on purpose to relieve the sexual tension to give myself a chance of turning her down.
I did turn her down, I just made a tired noise and rolled over and went to sleep.
She must have been shocked! I’ve never turned down sex before ever!
So the Monday during the day, she keeps trying to kiss me and I’m kissing her back in a very minimal way. That night we go to bed again and again she strokes my leg. I thought I’ll just be nice and give her a cuddle. So I responded and stroked her leg back with my leg. She tried to lure me over to her side, but I restrained and after a min or two I suggested she come over to my side. She paused for a second, then she shot over like a flash. Two more seconds and she had taken her top off. She was gagging for it!!!
It works. Needless to say I banged her like a garage door in the wind. I just couldn’t restrain myself, she took me completely by surprise. But hell it had worked. We had sex twice that night. It was funny I was determined to punish her for seducing me, so when she said she wanted me to cum inside her I said “No, I’m going to cum on your face” normally she would freak out at this point and threaten to stop and walk out if I said that ever again. But she didn’t. I was surprised, so I said it again, “I’m gonna cum on your face” she actually seemed to be getting turned on more by my dirty talk. That did the trick for me and within a few seconds I withdrew jumped up her body and did exactly that…
She just said, you dirty boy! with a kind of “boys will be boys” look in her eye. Woohooo!
After a few mins of cuddling she initiated round 2. So hell I gave her another real good shafting.
I’m never initiating sex again.