No More Porn For Me

I’m seriously considering hiring an asian hooker to take me with a strap-on and possibly piss on me. Porn may have had something to do with this.

Kids, don’t do porn!

Don’t blame porn. Don’t even blame asian strap on, water sports porn. Embrace who and how you are.

I agree. Don’t blame porn. My intention was not to start an angry pitchfork-carrying cyber mob of anti-porn people. I would not advocate the abolition of porn any more than the abolition of alcohol. Both have the potential to be addictive if not managed properly and used in moderation. However, the people who are susceptible to addiction need to be honest with themselves and recognise this is a problem for them and stay away from porn. This includes myself. But that shouldn’t spoil the fun for everyone else. If you can only get off from watersports with asian hookers, it might be a sign to stop with the porn.

Ten day anniversary of no porn!

@paulski82 - So you were saying to meet at the docks with pitchforks, anti-porn manifests and the black list of vicious Thunder members?

Two weeks here. There’s still this annoying desire to “take a peek” so to speak, except that now it’s more like “Woo hoo! Two weeks! You’ve proved you don’t need porn! Now let’s go look at some!” I have to keep reminding myself that I’m not just abstaining but trying to re-wire myself so that I don’t need it, period.

Well, I’m back to day 1, but I’ve experienced enough positives to give it another go. Now that I’ve seen what kind of person I can be when avoiding certain impulses, hopefully that will help with motivation.

Alcohol was my downfall. Had a big binge, came home, browsed the internet, found my way onto a porn site & that was that. Alcohol is another vice I want to get under control, especially during the uni semester as it really interrupts my studies.

Anyway, the positives- More time, & more importantly more motivation to do something with it. Also, this could easily have been a placebo effect, but I definitely was more relaxed, & spoke to far more women in the street than usual, & was getting a great response too.

The best was the effect it had on sex. If you see my sig, I’ve struggled with retarded ejaculation. I’ve gone a long way to fixing it, but still struggle if I have to use a condom. Well, about 6 days in a friend of mine that I fool around with came into town. I was so horny … it was great. Condom went on, but my dick was so sensitive almost as soon as I entered her, my cock was not only erect but also in a heightened state of arousal, where every thrust was really pleasurable & felt like I could cum if I wanted to. Usually with a condom it takes me a good 10-15 mins of thrusting before I feel much pleasure at all. And best of all.. when I fucked her again the next day, the effect was still there.

Anyway, again, you could say I’d only been abstinent for a week, so it could have been a placebo … but who cares! If my brain’s able to trick itself & give me more confidence by abstaining, I’m happy to keep doing it & make the most of the placebo. But I think the effects are real, & so far I really like what I’ve been experiencing.

Good for you. Keep going! From what I’ve read and experienced, it takes about 6 weeks on average to feel you’re rid of porn. It takes 60 days on average to rewire your brain. Of course everyone is different and it will depend on how bad your addiction was and the recovery process, but these figures generally hold true for the average person. Also keep in mind that you’ll never cure porn addiction, you can only manage it. You have to watch for triggers for the rest of your life and really know and accept your addiction to prevent further relapses.

Another good link:

http://www.reun … .info/node/1808

Really regretting "relapsing" now. Oh well, just gotta start again & do my best to keep at it.

Don’t regret anything. It only means you were not ready to quit.

Nice thread. Porn indeed has a lot of programming effect on the way we think and behave. Simple things like looking at hot girl and touches should be able to turn one on but lots of porn does kill that effect. It is like brainwashing one to believe that some of weird stuff is very normal and pushes one to the limit of trying it oneself.

Am joining the club.started it coincidentally four days back without reading this thread.

However, my approach is slightly different. I am not going to delete any porn or put any porn blocker or anything. It would be more of a test of will power with everything constant, it would be to fight the desire to go porn watching. It is something like quitting smoking, one should be able to quit smoke by not being away form it but by keeping one in his pocket and avoiding the temptation to cave-in. Will keep you guys updated how far I reach in this goal.

Good luck man & thanks for the support CH

All you guys who are joining the club: how many of you have a slightly pornographic avatar? ;)

That’s actually what I’ve done too. In the past, the horror of deleting my lovingly curated porn stash has caused me to cave in and start reassembling after a couple weeks. I’m hoping that by leaving it intact while negating the desire to watch it will make it easier to clear it when the time comes.

Oh, and I had a fun foreplay session in bed with the lady this morning, so the libido is definitely intact. I was starting to wonder.

Keeping temptation right there in front of you is a foolish thing to do when trying to break an addiction. When I quit smoking I didn’t keep a pack around just to see if I could stare it down when I got a craving. Heroin addicts don’t keep a loaded syringe around to see if they can overpower with their will the urge to use. This having been said, porn is not a real addiction. No one ever sucked dick in order to satisfy their craving to look at porn. No one ever got the shakes, shits or Delerium tremens from porn withdrawal. Do what you like, but if you are really trying to break an addiction to booze, smokes, pills or powders, Don’t keep those things at the ready. You are just setting yourself up to fail.

15 days of no porn and I feel very good. Also there is no desire to watch it.

I make a deal with my self. Or PE or porn . Better PE.