Premature Ejaculation Solutions

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I did try Wellbutrin XL for 6 monnths last year and didn’t get anything from it.

I think the best premature ejaculation device is a knitting needle. I wait until I’m at the point of ejaculation and then pull out and stick it through my glans, then I twist my penis as far as I can and then let it go and it spins like an airplane propeller. I can usually go another two hours after that;)

Seriously, I recently recently read that gaba might have a slight effect so I’m going to try it tonight. I read Gabapentin works on the other pe, but I have a mild yet annoying case so I don’t want to go the prescription route. Gaba is a much much much weaker version, sort of related to Gabapentin. Has anyone tried gaba?

One other thing I’m going to try. This not a joke but it sounds like one. I put a piece of green scotch pot scouring pad in my underwear and wore it for a few days. The theory is my penis and genital area are too sensitive for whatever reason and this would desensitize it. It seemed to start to work, but I had to stop after a few days because of work. I plan on trying it again soon. Does this make sense or is it really crazy?

As long as you’re talking about SSRIs, I found that it was very difficult to orgasm when I was taking Celexa for depression.

But spending an hour of hardcore dick whacking trying to cum got old. I went back to the doctor after a few weeks and he prescribed Wellbutrin too. The combination was just right. I could hold off as long as I wanted but cum really intensely when I finally let myself.

I stopped taking Celexa. It gave me too much of a chemical buzz.

Try and get hold hold of Mankat chia’s book called “cultivating male sexual energy”. If you cant get hold of the Book, try searching for Xenolith’s post called sexual kung fu on this forum. He has mentioned the basic steps of circulating the sexual energy away from the scrotum. Moving the sexual energy away from your balls will help you stay longer. I’ve started practicing it so will keep you guys updated.

A quick thought on clomipramine. It needs to taken a couple hours before sexual activity. The doctors suggest use of it for atleast 1 week to see the benefits( or the lack of it). Good luck with it.

I know this thread has not been used actively lately but has anyone heard of or tried detainx?

https://Www.detainx.com

Hmmm…Just been looking at the site via your link. Interesting stuff. I wonder what the active ingredient in this DetainX stuff is. Any natural substances that are out there that are known to increase serotonin (and therefore tackle anxiety and stuff) must be known. The things that spring to mind are St. Johns Wort and (I’m not sure if I’ve got this right exactly) 5HTP.

I’ve had limited success with St. Johns Wort. If anyones tried this Detainx stuff, it would be good to hear from them.

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Hi guys, I’m new to the forums and this is my first post. Ironically it’s on the other PE instead of the original goal of enlarging my penis.

Anyways, I was wondering what exactly the difference is between kegeling to control ejaculation and reverse-kegeling to control an ejaculation. My understanding is that kegeling isn’t that useful for increasing the time taken to ejaculate until one reaches the strength to achieve a ‘dry-orgasm’. Reverse-kegeling on the other hand, seems to do what it’s supposed to when I’ve tested it out, but leaves me a few steps closer than before to orgasm than when I started masturbating. Has anybody found success in using kegels to delay ejaculation apart from suppressing the contractions entirely?

Also.. Has anybody ever gone limp from kegeling for too long? I remember when I was with my only partner in the past, I’d kegel because I heard that it would delay my orgasm and because I felt harder and more confident with my thrusts. Suddenly.. Limp noodle. It happened a couple times. I’m not the type to learn from my mistakes unless somebody teaches me, I just kinda think to myself “that was odd.” every time it happens. The limpness happened a couple times (I doubt it’s ED because I was 20 and was find with handjobs or oral) and I never figured out why and had nobody to ask, until maybe now. :)

Hello all. I thought I would relate some experiences I have had with PE. I am currently on Clomipramine (Anafranil) for originally PE but now also OCD. At the start I tried 5-HTP, Cistanche, GABA, MACA, Rhodiola, cock ring, and condoms to no avail. Before Anafranil, I was on Prozac for 6 months which only caused IBS and then Paxil which nearly turned me into a bi-polar monster. Anafranil gave me some hope initially but in the end, SSRI’s and TCA’s have not caused me to last one second more than my normal 45 seconds. I have tried up to the desensitizing cream (45 minute wait time) with double condoms and still I am less than a minute man. I have not given up yet, and still practice edging whenever I get the privacy to do so. The end result is that I have become celibate and that is not the answer. Unfortunately, I will remain so until I can find some method that gives me some level of control. I do see a therapist and I do believe the OCD is what they focus on, hoping that the PE fades away with lessening of my OCD. I have not given up. Keep reading, like I do, and something will change the way my brain works, by method or chemical.

Good Luck,
Steve

I really empathize with you here and relate. I was on Anafranil for OCD and PE. I’m on Zoloft now. I’ve done it all too and I’m convinced its a mental thing for sure. But what I’ve learned through therapy is to accept the way I am and find the positives in it instead of negatives. For instance, doesn’t it feel good to orgasm? Sure! But when you don’t want to orgasm quickly, you become upset and possibly depressed when you do because it wasn’t what you wanted to happen. And you obsess over it. But why is this such a bad thing? I’ve dealt with this for so long and still do, and have avoided and not enjoyed sex for a long time also because of these fears. It’s the nature of our thinking to obsess over correcting what we find as faults in ourselves. And guys who orgasm too quickly and know they want to last longer feel like failures at times and want to “fix” it.

So, my new way of thinking is to accept that I will orgasm quickly at times and that it is perfectly acceptable and normal. And if I do orgasm, I want to enjoy it and not become upset because I look at it as “the end of the world”. It’s not the last time I will ever orgasm and it’s not going to ruin my life. And the person I am with will not berate me. And if she does, she has her own problems and is not for me.

I think many of us who suffer from PE love to orgasm. So why not embrace it? Love that you can orgasm quickly. Go with it and let it ride. And when its over, think about how great it was and how you can’t wait for the next one. But be careful not to start obsessing over orgasming :-D! And know that being a “one minute man” doesn’t correlate with someone who can’t be an all nighter. The person you are with will enjoy knowing that you react that way to them, and you should return the favor and make her want you more and more while you “recover”. Sure, some guys have longer refractory periods but if you are mentally stimulated and into the person you are with, I believe that helps to shorten the refractory period. If PE is your mind, then all your body’s reactions can be controlled with your mind.

Good luck, and I hope this helps you change the way you think about PE and approach it.

I tried something out with the girlfriend recently where I got her to start sucking me off whilst I started smoking a joint. I was chugging hard on it and got so stoned I had to lie down(started breaking out in a sweat etc) Totally lost my erection whilst in her mouth but she persisted in bringing me back to full mast and then we had sex and I’ve never lasted that long in my life. Whilst actually enjoying every sensation. The sensation I had whilst I lost my erection during the blowjob felt like someone had pressed the reset button somewhere inside. As if though my PC or BC muscle was set into the right mode for optimal endurance or something along those lines.

Hello all. This is too good a thread to let it stop - and I just read it all in one sitting.

There have been some amazingly positive posts here and it’s tribute to that part of us men that just will not accept the status quo and godammit we will find a solution. I know that I’ve had a few times when I am the stud lasting as long as I want and with nothing else changing then it must have been my mental state. I’m also sure that there have been some times I’ve been in a great mental place and bang one minute man is in the house.

Most recently I tried some hypnotherapy and in one session we split out the one minute man side of me to see why he might want to spoil the party. We also tried to desensitize my penis with visualisation. I had to stop this as I just couldn’t afford to keep going but think I will try to get in the habit of imagining myself having sex with my gf but with a numb/much less sensitive penis. If I get into a very relaxed state before maybe while lying in bed in the morning (I know I’m lucky to have that time) then at the least I’ll get some good relaxation time.

SSRIs did delay me in the past but they were too heavy duty for me as a person. I even got so frustrated this summer that I got some more (online) but on the two occasions I took even a half they made me feel too weird and I lost sleep that I didn’t want to go through with the two weeks until they kicked in or even take them at all. When I did take them years ago a couple of times I stopped the rutting (two different people) because they said: “Are you going to come?”

It’s just so frustrating eh but when I think that on those times I did keep going there is enough to make me think I can get that control again. Jeez, we’re seeing some amazing things from people - surely feeling great about sex more of the time must be within all of us. I don’t want to come across all head in the clouds but I am one of those people that feel we humans are incredible.

So, how are some of you guys who have posted before getting on now? It does seem that different things are working for different people. Some of us wouldn’t try SSRIs ever again but we are all different. I want it as natural as possible and I know my mind is incredible. I just wish it to be on my side a bit more!

Man, to bring up the subject again.

I am too thinking about SSRI’s. I am undergoing a lot of stress right now and depression. I want adderall for studying, experiment with GH, and maybe SSRI. I know doing all these things will destroy my body. But I do think the SSRI’s will help my life of Premature Ejac.

Rusty- I too believe in being “natural.” I am in the deepest whole in my life that i’ve ever been before and I am turning to medicines for once. Hopefully the doctor will give me some good insight. I need to take SSRI or adderall though. I have a problem and I need it to be fixed.

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