Originally Posted by motivated
Could you elaborate?
A little setup first. I had always been very strong sexually. Never had any erection problems, could go for a very long time, could go multiple times, always thought about sex, was constantly horny, could have sex at anytime of the day or night easily. Now to July 2002.
I was out of town seeing this girl that I had known for some time. We had sex twice that Monday and 3 times that Tuesday. On Wednesday morning I woke up and did not feel right. I could not get out of bed. My joints were aching a little and I just felt funny. Later that afternoon we started to have sex but right after I got my erection, I suddenly turned off. I became disconnected. My whole attitude changed. I lost the erection. Her comment was “that’s never happened before.” I said I know but I felt very strange. No matter how hard we tried I could not get it back up again. I did have an orgasm though which surprised me. But instead of it being my normal strong orgasm it was very weak and the semen just dribbled out and there wasn’t a lot of it. Similar to the way it is today.
Later that evening I was sitting at my computer when I started to get a chill. Had to cut off the A/C but I was still very cold. I started shaking violently and went and crawled into bed under the blankets. I was shaking so hard that every joint in my body hurt. Knees, fingers, you name it. Then I would start sweating. Then back to the chills. All he time I had a huge headache. The chills and sweats alternated most of the night and into the next day. Whenever I got up to go to the bathroom or anything, I could not stand straight up. I was hunched over like a very old man and I could only take small steps because my legs hurt so bad. I didn’t want to eat anything. This went on for the better part of two days.
I was due to come back home that Saturday and felt good enough to try and drive back home. About the time I got 30 minutes or so from home I started to get very cold again. Made it home and went through the whole thing again for about 24 hours. After the chills and etc. Went away, I noticed one thing in particular, I was no longer horny. I would sit and watch porn or something and feel nothing. I also noticed that I couldn’t concentrate anymore. No more morning wood or spontaneous erections.
After about 5 weeks I could feel I was getting back to normal again. Getting horny and such. Still had a little trouble concentrating but that was about it. That lasted all the way up until Thanksgiving of 2002. The Monday of that week I had a girl over to the house and we had one of those marathon sessions. I think I had 3 or 4 orgasms over about 5 or 6 hours that night. Called her on Wednesday and arranged to go to her house that night. She lived about 20 minutes from my house. On the way out there I felt a sudden change again. It was a sinking feeling like when someone gives you very bad news that you are not expecting. I knew what was coming. Just like last time the switch flipped off and I was no longer turned on, could not get an erection but still had a weak orgasm. Limped back home and just like July here came the chills, sweats, aches, headache, could not walk upright. Lasted for two days then vanished. Since that episode I have never regained my sex drive. I can go to the strip clubs and the girls might as well be sumo wrestlers. I used to have to sit with my legs crossed because I stood at full attention while I was there but no more.
Sorry to be so long winded but it’s just not the kind of thing that you can describe with a couple of sentences.