The Game: How to pick her up in real life.

Yes, I think this thread is needed also.

This is a place for your best 1 liners. I’ve managed to become quite the conversationalist, or rather, a decent pick-up artist. What are your best lines, and how do you approach women?

I purchased the book by Neil Strauss years ago, and I took his “walk into the room smiling” rule to heart. I would love to hear how you guys have mastered the technique, and what are your go-to methods. The “Neg” shit is played out, meaning, they know what that is now. I go for comfort.

Picture her walking by you.

Me: “Ummmm, excuse me? Ma’am? I noticed you dropped your smile back there, I just wanted to make sure I gave it back to you.”

She hits you with the smile.

“I honestly just wanted to speak to you. I know that if I walked away from you, without at least trying to get to know you, I would regret it. Tell you what, do you mind getting my number? If you call me cool, if not, no love lost.”

She’s in control, and if she bites, cool. You made it to the next level. More than likely she’s going to text you. Or, if she’s really apprehensive, give her a social media contact. The goal here is comfort.

What’s your style?

Ask directions to someplace close by, when she answers ask if she’d give you a piggyback ride. Nothing better than a bit of cheeky humor to get a girl in the mood to get to know you a bit better.

Don’t be generic, don’t operate from a scarcity mindset, a scarcity mindset will only make you seem needy. If she walks, she walks.

In cold approach if you want to be good, you should have zero fear of rejection.

When you approach a girl try not to be so polite and don’t give her compliments and validation. Be calm, smile, hold eye contact and brainstorm her with questions: where do you live? What do you study? Where are you working? Where are you from?. Just focus on what you say and don’t give a shit about her reactions.

Try to say something over the line especially with very attractive girls to get her attention on you. Something like: you have a great ass, you are too bitchy..
Otherwise you will be just an another guy.

In my opinion it’s all crap! Be yourself. If you have to game them to get them, you have to game them to keep them.

Be a good conversationalist and take it from there.

Been out of the game way to long to remember anything. I was just myself and when I felt a lady deserved a compliment, I would give it her. Never really had any “game” whatever that is. But then again, I was never really looking.

I believe success lays in being natural and understanding every woman and situation is different. Be respectful, intelligent, funny, confident. Personally, I have a dog and a good sense of humor. I wouldn’t trade either for a big dick or cheesy pick up line.

This.

My game consists of just being respectful and just starting a random conversation. I’ll use my sense of humor and they love it. It doesn’t hurt that I learned to dress the part with a “more sexy” fashion sense, thanks to all you guys here. After my wife died, for a long time I was afraid to approach women. Even though she was gone, I still felt like I was cheating. I also lost “the game” that I once had in my 20s after six years of marriage. I still consider my 20s to be when I was at my best. I can say at 40, I regained the self confidence I once had. I once again have been able to attract attention from women. I’m not afraid anymore. I have gotten off online dating sites and have been going out to converse face to face. I haven’t felt better about myself in a long time and have reaped some “benefits” along the way as well. I am just hoping to make my 40s somewhere close to what my 20s were like. Wishful thinking, maybe?

And for the hell of it…

“Get this lady a drink. It appears to me you'd like a good stiff one?”

I appreciate the feedback gentlemen.

When I say game, I more so meant conversation starters. Game encapsulates all of it. I’ve tried it all, from bs lines, to methods I thought worked. Of course this was before I found confidence in self. This was a thread more so meant for our younger, less experienced guys who may need a little guidance in that department.

I personally love to make women laugh. No, I’m not the most attractive guy on the planet, but every woman loves a sense of humor. If she doesn’t crack a smile once, RUN!!!! She’s not worth the trouble.

I’m not the smoothest guy either, but somehow I manage to use charm. Hidden things like smiling while they’re talking. Making some form of contact briefly.

Now, if you’re genuinely trying to get to know them, then I agree, be yourself. If you’re just trying to one night them, then you must have a go-to tool in your arsenal right?

I read The Game about 3 years ago and me and some buddies where discussing it, trying stuff out in the wild etc and we had a blast! Having said that the pick up stuff is nothing more than just for fun. The ‘inner game’ material though, is very interesting and worth of your time. If you are consistent, and develop yourself you WILL get to a point where you are out and you can fucking go up to a hot chick and improvise your way to at least having a good laugh out of it no matter what happens.

I mean, the lines, the cold pickup etc for me is not worth it because no matter how good you can become the time and energy you will need to invest on it.. Is just not worth it. It’s all ego. A theoretical 20 hours of pick up for 1 lay is a fantastic number. If you invest that time to get a higher paying job that 20 hours = money that buys you at least a fucking 3some with 2 barely legal asian twins with perky tits lol.

Anyway, for me the real value of studying and testing this stuff, apart from just improving yourself as a human being, is to be able to organically work your way to the the best girl that you will randomly meet at work, from friends etc.

Amazing feedback lol.