Using a desensitizing gel before sex?????

I hear this stuff works. You rub a small amount of gel around your glands before sex, and you’ll last a lot longer. My question is how long do you wait before you have sex, after rubbing it on? I wouldnt want to numb her. Would too much of this applied at once cause limp dick/

I can’t say from experience because I’ve never needed it, but I’ve heard some bad things from other guys. That the gel made it so they couldn’t get it up and stuff.

If you want my advice, do a lot of edging and kegels instead. Better to train yourself to solve the problem than rely on a product.

It helps but you really can’t feel anything, so you need to use the right amount of gel and the right amount of time.

After 15-30 minutes you need to clean your penis from the gel with soap and water.
I’ve used it on all of my penis and not just on the glans.

Use it 10 minutes before intercourse. Use a very small amount. I normal 3oz tube can last you 100 sessions or more.

The cream is great for sport-sex. You can also desensitize by using a spray. Make sure libido is high enough and that you haven’t had an orgasm for a long time. “A long time” depends on the person, to me that is more than a week.

The cream desitizes your penis but your horniness will make your penis is rockhard. If you want to be sure you can combine it with libido forte. Or take ginseng/ginko/muira puama each day. That will have other mental and physical benefits also. That could compensate if you have put on just a little bit to much of the gel. If you have put on way to much you will have a numbed penis in your hand either way.

Yes you will feel less on your penis during sex, even if you put on just a little bit. But it still feels great and you get to enjoy your woman longer and see her freaking out. And an orgasm remains the same experience, even with the gel.

ok, but will the gel numb her?

Those gels work, but for what it is worth, it is better to learn control. No more numbing yourself, or risking numbing her.

More fun for you, more fun for her.

Start here:

Follow the section for men. Once you can go 30 mins by yourself, you can go as long as you want with your girlfriend. PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICE.

Yes this works. Trust me. Get started today.

There is a more advanced course by Cheeva when you are ready for it:

Dick Control: A Primer

ok, i must be doing this wrong. I thought before i bust, i was suppose the squeeze the pc muscle to stop it was edging. I didn’t know i’m suppose to push instead of pull. I’ve never tried this. I been doing it wrong this whole time?

Bro, if you really want to de-sensitize a bit, don’t use that expensive leg numbing gel! 5-10 minutes or so before your gig, spray about 3 or 4 good shots of chloraseptic all over the old glans. Let it set a few minutes then wipe off. It won’t numb your gal, won’t burn, won’t stink and won’t numb you to the point you can’t feel your legs. Not to mention that it’s cheap and not embarrassing to buy.

All my buddies in the good old USMC used it with hookers to get their moneys worth. I have turned other guys here onto it over the years and they have had great results. In the meantime, work on control. Recognizing your breathing patterns and your PNR (point of no return) is critical! I don’t have especially strong muscle control, but cum when I’m ready to cum because I know these two simple things.

what if she’s going to give me a bj? How does the chloroseptic play there?

It will be far less shocking than the strong benzocaine gel they sell at the sex shops. Plus, if she has a sore throat, you can kill two birds with one stone! LOL

Gonna try it out. A while back i experimented some mandalay i got at riteaid for $5, and used it with a fleshlight. I lasted a long as time vs without, i would get ready to bust a nut after 5 strokes in the damn thing

Hey man, I cannot master the fleshlight. IT WILL GET YOU NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO. :blue:

Super-Ribbed especially has no mercy. Perhaps that is the one you have.

I have a wonderwave too, it is pretty good for practicing control. I do not have stamina training unit, which I guess is designed especially for learning control.

If the gel is dried up on your glans I don’t think it will numb her. There is more change she would taste it while giving head. I don’t have any experience with numbing her while penetrating, because I always use a condom. I use the spray wich is similar and have gotten head without condom, but haven’t got any comments on the taste. The spray will probably work the same way as the gel. It also dries when you put it on.