Are people really constantly checking out my junk

Hey guys,

Been away for about a month, but I’m back on my routine and I’ve got yet another “cock psychology” question for you.

I’ve mentioned in a few of my first threads that I have a serious turtling issue. With my cock shrunk into my fat pad, I walk around feeling like everybody can see the little mini-bulge that my dick/scrotum form, especially in my athletic shorts. I’m working on the turtling issue physiologically with my PE program, but I’d like to get over this psychological issue in the meantime.

I’ve got pretty big balls when they’re hanging and not retracted halfway to my stomach. And, having learned how to measure properly, I know I fall within the “normal” range for BPEL and EG (see stats). Given the functionally important stuff, I shouldn’t be complaining, but for vanity’s sake I can’t get over this idea that people (both women and men) are checking out the shrunken package and thinking/talking/laughing about me having a small dick.

I’m obviously hoping to hear that I’m way too paranoid, but I want to know if people actually go around analyzing crotch bulges.

You’re way too paranoid. Do you do that to other guys? I think they only look if it’s really noticeable like when you pop a boner through your clothes. It happened a few times and girls can’t help but look.

Nobody is looking unless they are interested in you.

People only tend to notice ‘noticeable’ bulges. If you don’t have a noticeable bulge most people don’t think “he hasn’t got a big bulge”; it just doesn’t really register. Big bulges do register, and usually get checked out several times. So no, it’s unlikely people are judging your bulge. They will if it gets big though. ;)

Yup. You’re way too paranoid.

Draw attention away from your bulge by styling your hair in a massive, multicolored afro.

It’s not that people are looking at you and your bulge, it’s that you are looking at them.

You are scanning their faces to test whether they’re noticing your retracted manhood. They detect your insecurity and start scanning you to figure out the reason. If their eyes glance at your unit, that’s all the confirmation you need that they are checking out your junk and finding it wanting.

But it’s important to remember that you started it! By looking at them.

Suggestion: When you’re feeling paranoid, try to control your expression. It’s hard to do when you’re feeling anxious, but really try to smile approvingly at other people. They will respond in kind.

You may unwittingly be giving off hostile vibes—anxious people often do that. Others may simply be mirroring your emotions—sending back what you’re sending them.

This appears to confirm your worst suspicions, but I’m sure you would get a very different reaction from people if you managed to smile at them. I’m not talking about a stupid grin, but just a pleasant, benign, approving expression.

Work on your feelings toward others and their feelings toward you will come into line.

Too paranoid.

I only start getting uncomfortable, if they are continuously staring for a extended period of time.
Then I will put on “Aggressive body language” 99.999% of guys will be on their way, once they see my bulging veins on my arms. If females stare I do not care at all.

I tend to analyze my day, at the end of the day of course,while I am watching TV & relaxing. It makes it much easier to fall A sleep later on.

Yep, you’re probably just crazy. Although if everyone is staring at your package, that isn’t a bad thing. Maybe you just have intense pheromones that are making all the ladies interested and the men start to turn gay for you. Just don’t watch them and you won’t know if they’re staring at you.

I never used to be a crotch observer. And mainly I still do not except maybe you see the comical thing like a young guy with a sudden boner that pulls out his shirtail ad turns away, But since I started PE eight months ago, I have to admit, that celebs get my curious attention. On the golf course, for instance, I cannot help but notice that Sergio Garcia is probably huge. So you tend to keep strange scores about who is big and who is probably bigger.!

Howardson

Those damn basketball shorts show pretty much everything, I find it annoying. They used to make athletic shorts with a better material.

Yes.

Yes they are.

Thanks for the words of reassurance, guys (except iamaru. I hate you.). It is comforting to know that I’m just a paranoid, insecure nutcase and that my junk probably doesn’t register with the world as it exists outside my warped mind.

Rationally and objectively, I’m sure you guys are right. I guess it’s a similar situation to walking into a party with a zit on your neck, and, because it’s all you can think about, you just assume everybody else is fixated on it, too. Also the actual physical sensation of having extremely retracted cocknballs is not comfortable and draws my mind to it.

In reality, even though I don’t have too much to be overly proud of, I don’t have anything to be ashamed of either. I feel a lot more confident when what I do have is dangling freely down there. I’m hoping the PE will help keep the turtle out, and at least with the heat wrap, I can look forward to spending more time with my balls in pendulum mode.

For now, when my cock shrinks from average to small, I’ll just ignore it and remember that in due time I’ll have a huge dong under any condition .. (Insert more encouragement below, thanks)

I actually do know a few women that go to the gym just to “cock gaze” through sweats and athletic shorts. But I would say that isnt the majority. I also doubt that many are doing it during their every day lives. Most people are too pre-occupied with their daily activities to worry about what is happening in some guy’s pants that walks by them in a hallway or on a sidewalk.

Either way man, just make sure you’re happy with who you are. I’ve gained nothing from PE so far, but it’s just a novelty man. Sure there are benefits from it sexually, or mentally (assuming success) but it’s no big deal. It’s only a “small part” of who we are, and only a “small part” of life. Just my two cents.

Just got back from a road trip over the weekend.

Went to Carolina. Checked out PStar’s junk. Drove home.