Do I need PE for my situation?

Hey, I am a new user from Australia.

I joined this forum with a somewhat specific goal in mind. Being the sexually curious man I am, I want to be able to reach a woman’s posterior fornix during sexual intercourse, specifically from behind. However, I believe the length of my penis is not long enough to be able to do this. Am I reasonable with my insecurities and desires, or am I fine the way I am? And if you recommend I pursue PE, what exercises (jelqing, LOT stretching, etc.) would you recommend I start off with first?

For reference, my BPEL is 14.5cm (5.7”), and I’ve read on online forums that only men with 6”+ penises are capable of doing this.

The fornix from behind isn’t something I’ve achieved. It’s primarily due to you having her butt limiting penetration.

No one needs PE. We do it for various reasons, but need isn’t in the equation. That said most of us are looking for personal improvement.

If someone with your length is saying that, then maybe I might be barking up the wrong tree.

Try missionary with her knees at her ears.

The funny thing is I’m single and haven’t had sex or had a relationship with anyone. This is all in the future for me. I guess I’ll see how I go when the time comes.

Take your time and learn how to be a good lover. Explore and take your time with her when it happens.

It’s not the first time I’ve seen that advice, which means it must be good advice.

I just need to cement my goals outside of women, relationships and sex, like career and personal maintenance and PE. I believe I will become a more secure person, and in turn, a better lover for someone I connect very well with, as I will not compromise my integrity of character.

Good man!

I like the last paragraph you just said. Very insightful and a rewarding perspective. You do that. Like Titleist said, no one needs PE. But if you have the time, and your finding a healthy balance of energy projected towards it in your life, you can reek some good benefits from it. Besides size, overall penis health and performance is the most important.

If you are a virgin, I would recommend developing technique and passion before the posterior fornix treasure hunt. Every woman will not appreciate deep penetration and every canal has different dimensions, angles and cants to it. So how you hit the posterior fornix in one woman may not work for another.

You need a baseline of skill and devotion to be a good lover and those will serve far better than simply poking specific parts of her guts. Sex is far more multifaceted and keep your mind open to absorb them all.

Thanks guys!

I am open to different positions and techniques, but I feel like I would miss out on this particular one due to my length.

Also, can PE help straighten a curved penis? I have minor fears of Peyronie’s disease at the moment.

Another point to consider is that for most women the posterior fornix is not accessible until they are aroused to an adequate degree.

In my experience, how deep it is is dependent on the woman in question, as it’s how much pressure they enjoy. My wife has to have had an orgasm or two already before her cervix lifts enough for me to begin stimulating her posterior fornix, and while I’m able to do so with my penis, I’m also quite capable of reaching it with my fingers, which for her puts it no deeper than 5”.

I don’t say any of this to dissuade you from trying to develop your penis, but my experience has been that technique is far more important. So is the woman in question. One of my earliest long term relationships ended in primarily because we didn’t have the right sexual chemistry. The sparks were all there, but I was too large (thick) and she too tight, and we just didn’t fit well anatomically. I was quite ambivalent about my size at that time. Bigger isn’t always better.

Then again, here I am trying to get bigger, so what do I know?

Do you get humiliated when you’re told your penis is too big? I would feel very embarrassed if I was told mine was too small or insufficient, so I’m interested what it’s like on the other end of the spectrum.

Being somewhere in the middle.. Above average, but not what I’d call big really, I’ve actually been told both.

The majority of partners I’ve had over the years haven’t commented about my size one way or another, but I have had more than a few who have. Most of those comments were generally positive, and in reference to my girth, but a few essentially said it was fun to have something thicker than they were used to, but wouldn’t want it every night. Hearing those things when I was young wasn’t great for my confidence, and didn’t make me feel very good about myself.

On the other hand, I’ve had one girl make it clear flat out that she was disappointed in my size, as well as another who alluded to it when she wasn’t aware I could overhear her. I won’t deny that it’s a horrible feeling. It’s the sort of thing that lurks in the back of your mind for a long time.

The thing that helped me most through both of those scenarios was just to form new relationships, experience more things, and discover all the ways I could to please each girl I was with.

My point with all of it is that yeah, there are absolutely women out there who are really focused on size. There are also going to be girls out there who would find greater pleasure if you were a bit smaller. But for every one who worries about your size one way or the other, you’ll meet ten who just want a guy who’s interested in being a good lover. Your desire and willingness to discover what brings her the most pleasure is going to be what makes her go crazy for you, and that will boost your confidence more than anything. It did for me, even at my lowest point.

Only if it isn’t in fun and results in loss of sex. With one partner this happened several times before being a pivotal factor in the breakup.