Originally Posted by Phyriel
Man I am uncut and hate to be that way, I want to ask, why do you want foreskin and what’s the advantage?
The penis was meant to have foreskin. I was cut as an infant. As a teen and older erections were very tight skinned. Masturbation usually resulted in chafed or torn skin. Using fake lube was mandatory. The worst consequence is substantial loss of sensation due to relentless exposure of glans and inner skin remnant, leading to sexual performance troubles becoming apparent in my 30s. When restoring a few years ago I enjoyed a substantial increase in sexual sensation in my inner skin and frenulum remnant, and to a lesser degree my glans. That increased feeling was more intense than anything I had ever felt before, even as a very horny teen. The foreskin contains the greatest concentration of sexually dedicated enervation in the penis (not the glans). It serves as a secondary form of lubrication during vaginal intercourse. Being cut never saved me from premature ejaculation. It made me unable to know where I was in my own sexual response during intercourse. By the time I could tell I was close to cumming, it was already way too late. My dick basically has little feeling until orgasm, and it has always been this way. It seemed remarkable to me how involving and complete female orgasm was compared to my own.
You’re entirely welcome to get circumcised if you cannot stand your own foreskin. As an adult you can consent to the surgery—I was not given that chance. You can discuss with your physician the degree of cut, which structures to spare, and so on—I was not given that option. I’ve lived my life with a scarred, numbed dick. I see absolutely no good in that. Cut dicks look like damaged goods, because they are.
Infant circumcision is not the same as when done in adulthood. The infant penis is not fully developed; it’s foreskin is physically attached to the glans surface and must be forcefully peeled off. The foreskin itself is then typically crushed, severing numerous blood vessels and nerves. The adult intact penis has had the benefit of maturing in it’s natural state, the glans completely protected and the vasculature and enervation intact throughout adolescence, puberty, and into adulthood. Getting cut as an adult you at least won’t suffer any immediate glans damage, but you will permanently loose an enormous component of your sexually dedicated nerves. Although some men come through circumcision satisfied, many go on to greatly regret the procedure due to loss of feeling, some to the point of inability to orgasm. Some who were cut as adults, and who went on to successfully restore, reported that while they regained considerable feeling, it was a mere shadow of what they had known as intact. Circumcision is not benign.
I’ve had a taste of the kind of sensations I should be feeling during sex when I was first attempting to restore. That feeling is gone now as I was not able to grow enough new skin to get coverage. I want that feeling back—it was the best I had ever known in my life prior to my restoration efforts. It’s already beginning to return to a small degree, and I hope to see the process through to completion. If you desire to get cut, educate yourself as fully as possible about male sexual anatomy before consenting to it. That way, you’ll have no one else to blame except yourself if later on you find it was a great mistake. There is absolutely no way to know how it will turn out for you over the long term except to have it done, so in that sense it’s a crap shoot. I have over two years of struggle invested in FR already, and anticipate a minimum of two more to get reliable coverage. You can see that I’m extremely unhappy being cut. It wouldn’t do me much good to get a larger dick from PE, only to have it be a numb, nearly useless dick.