Finally learning to jelq

I have been a lurker here for some time now. After all this time, I have finally learned the feeling of a proper jelq. Since I’ve started doing it correctly, I have noticed an amazing difference. Wow, after all the time pulling and tugging, just one month of real jelqing and I can see a real difference in my dick. My stretched flaccid has increased a .5” to 8.25”, with a similar increase in EL. Also, my girth is noticeably thicker.

I can’t stress enough to the new guys how beneficial jelqing is. Read and re-read the tutorials and try to master that one move. It really is the foundation the rest of this stuff is built upon.

Yeah I hear you, jelqing is awesome, I will always incorporate it to my routines. Btw what are your NBPEL and BPEL?

Jelqing is great, but it some of us a while to figure out how to do it correctly. :) I had the same AHA! moment a few years ago. Congrats!

My EL is 20.5cm, just a smidgen over the 8” mark. My EG is 5.8”(6” base, 6” mid and 5.5” below my glans)

I wish I had taken the advice of others and taken good before pics, and accurate measurements. At this point I do not know my gains precisely. I just know that I’m bigger and the response has been vocal. The last three new women I’ve hooked up with all used some variance of the word “huge” :D

That is awesome man! One of my goal is to get a girl saying I am big, hehe :)

Jelqing is an art. :D

I swear it is. Or it could be like those old 3D cross your eyes magic art from the 90’s. Either way, once you “feel it” you’ll never do it wrong again.

I think this thread has the potential to be very helpful to newbies ..

Provided the OP and those who responded in the affirmative chime back in to explain

Exactly what

It is they realized about the jelqing process and then possibly spend another few sentences each specifically talking about what you perceive as the differences between “jelqing” and just rubbing your dick “wrong”, how you learned to recognize the difference between the two, and the specific mechanics and feeling (as you perceive them) of a proper jelq.

I’m well aware of the search function, and I’ve read tirelessly here.
As someone who sometimes wonder how many of his jelqs actually “count”, I was just trying to be constructive.

I’m also interested in hearing the proper ‘aha!’ technique for jelqing.

I started the newbie routine today, and while I think it went well, I’m not sure the jelqing was done correctly or as effectively as it should have been.

I’m on the newbie routine as well and stretching seems easy but jelqing is just weird for me. I don’t think I’m doing it properly and it irritates me. I wanna learn the proper technique for my dick. I’ve heard great things about jelqing

Yeah it’s also a concern of mine that maybe I’m not maximizing jelqing time due to my technique.

I find that overhand jelqing is easier to do, but predominantly works the sides of the shaft.

Standard OK grip is harder to control; and it feels as though the side on which the index finger jelqs, takes much more pressure than the other side.. But I guess it evens out by alternating hands.

Does anyone else find this?

Imagine dipping a smooth stick in runny honey. Imagine using your jelqing finger and thumb to squeegee the honey off the stick. Transfer feeling to penis. Keep trying to imagine that as you jelq.

Hey man, I definitely feel that and it worries me a bit. Because even though I am a beginner for discretion reasons I only do dry jelq, which in the tutorials I don’t remember they mentioned alternating hands. I always do it anyway, I don’t want to get uneven girth.

But yes, you are right I always feel all the pressure goes to the tip of the finger.

A new tutorial video for wet jelqing might be in order then. That guy has such a firm death grip on his member that you can see his arm shaking as he does it.

I think the “feeling” is like when I use the o-ring. It seems to massage it to the core all the way around instead of just this side or that side like the hand method. The problem with the oring is that it does not work with an erection and with my unit having grown I feel it is more of a warmup to the clamping I do. But I really think that is where I got my initial gains. I wasn’t doing any stretching back then and just a little hand jelqing. Maybe it was just beginners luck. Whatever. I won some gain at the get go and now it seems like I’m gaining even though the measurements don’t show it. Weird. Maybe it’s just the mind finally liking my dick size. (Or my wife who is really enjoying the hell out of it)