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How long do you stay hard after finishing?

How long do you stay hard after finishing?

Question for everyone about this. I have average to low EQ from porn, which I need to quit totally. I can get a normal erection, but after I finish, I am mostly soft by 15 seconds afterwards. It is a bigger hang but I wouldn’t be able to insert if I wanted to.I am also only 25.

Those of you with good EQ, how is this for you? How long do you stay hard enough to penetrate after finishing?

You shouldn’t worry, every man is like that, it is called refractory period. After you ejaculate your penis begin to lose erection until it is flaccid.

Ask any man, the feeling of hardness go away in the moment you are ejaculating, they may stay with some blood in the penis making it look engorged after orgasm, but it is temporary until it becomes flaccid.

For me I never calculated the time of loss of erection after ejaculation.


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The only thing that affected my refractory when I was young was taking Viagra. I stayed hard after an orgasm. Sometimes I had to mentally make my erection go down because a few women were suspicious about the continual erection.

I used to be able to take a shower and still have some where to hang my towel! Now days being a bit older, however its still up in the shower.

In my twenties I could just pause for a few second to wait for the sensitivity to go down after orgasm and keep on thrusting. Two orgasms were normal back then.

It’s actually possibly to learn how to stay hard. Can’t say if anybody can do that, maybe person needs predisposition for that. But I did after some practice.

Idea is simple, once body feels it’s enough, dick goes limp. The only thing you need to do is to stay horny. And I mean some inner urge, because there is huge difference between “I want MORE!” and “would be good to stay hard”. For sure, I’m not expert in this area, but I’ve noticed few facts during self exploration which helped me:
1. Way to cheat is half-orgasm or dry orgasm. Amount of cum plays important role, because if your balls are empty then it’s going to be hard to convince body to continue. Don’t forget, reason for sex is reproductive instinct.
Technique isn’t very hard. You just stop stimulation right before you feel it’s impossibly to stop. As result you get orgasm without both physical and emotional finishing, but full contraction process. After some time you ll notice pleasure and orgasm are different things. Without a doubt, peak is ejaculation, but you can feel pleasant for hour or hours without finishing. Or you do double half-shots and sensation is going to be even stronger. Two things here is stockpile and getting used to staying hard after contractions and that’s already half of your goal.
2. Sensitivity. As I remember, long time ago after orgasm I was quite sensitive. Once I just noticed I don’t feel anything unpleasant if I continue to masturbate in slow tempo, I got curious about that and actually got my dick hard again. Was surprised, because didn’t expect that at all. I even could ejaculate after 15 minutes, but it was a bit tricky, because few times I got half-limp. For sure, it’s important step, because stimulation should be completely pleasant. Find way for that. Maybe tempo, maybe type or stroke. Maybe something else like water, temperature or simply train it for hours to reduce sensitivity, but get other source for desire.
3. After that you need to start to think about first ejaculation as small hill in climbing mountain. Not as something disturbing, but on the contrary as springboard.

Can’t say much about multiple shots in single day. Maybe it can help. There are many other small tricks too. I just focused attention on most important steps in my opinion. Fake double shots, true double shots with hard-limp transition and proper double shots. Despite that’s way how I got that, I’m quite curios if it’s possible to learn directly. I assume should be the way for that. Not to break and recreate process, but overcome with something pleasant. But that’s already a bit offtop with just wild guesses. Also at the end don’t forget, person has 2 refractory periods. How long to make it hard again and how long to get desire to do that at all. Sometimes person just needs to take few days or week break to refresh whole body and build feelings up.

Yes. I can do mini Os. So right at the edge for just a little cum to come out. Four or so times and then the final release. So it looks like 4 mini orgasms with a big 5th finish.

Originally Posted by qweqweqad1
It’s actually possibly to learn how to stay hard. Can’t say if anybody can do that, maybe person needs predisposition for that. But I did after some practice.

Idea is simple, once body feels it’s enough, dick goes limp. The only thing you need to do is to stay horny. And I mean some inner urge, because there is huge difference between “I want MORE!” and “would be good to stay hard”. For sure, I’m not expert in this area, but I’ve noticed few facts during self exploration which helped me:
1. Way to cheat is half-orgasm or dry orgasm. Amount of cum plays important role, because if your balls are empty then it’s going to be hard to convince body to continue. Don’t forget, reason for sex is reproductive instinct.
Technique isn’t very hard. You just stop stimulation right before you feel it’s impossibly to stop. As result you get orgasm without both physical and emotional finishing, but full contraction process. After some time you ll notice pleasure and orgasm are different things. Without a doubt, peak is ejaculation, but you can feel pleasant for hour or hours without finishing. Or you do double half-shots and sensation is going to be even stronger. Two things here is stockpile and getting used to staying hard after contractions and that’s already half of your goal.
2. Sensitivity. As I remember, long time ago after orgasm I was quite sensitive. Once I just noticed I don’t feel anything unpleasant if I continue to masturbate in slow tempo, I got curious about that and actually got my dick hard again. Was surprised, because didn’t expect that at all. I even could ejaculate after 15 minutes, but it was a bit tricky, because few times I got half-limp. For sure, it’s important step, because stimulation should be completely pleasant. Find way for that. Maybe tempo, maybe type or stroke. Maybe something else like water, temperature or simply train it for hours to reduce sensitivity, but get other source for desire.
3. After that you need to start to think about first ejaculation as small hill in climbing mountain. Not as something disturbing, but on the contrary as springboard.

Can’t say much about multiple shots in single day. Maybe it can help. There are many other small tricks too. I just focused attention on most important steps in my opinion. Fake double shots, true double shots with hard-limp transition and proper double shots. Despite that’s way how I got that, I’m quite curios if it’s possible to learn directly. I assume should be the way for that. Not to break and recreate process, but overcome with something pleasant. But that’s already a bit offtop with just wild guesses. Also at the end don’t forget, person has 2 refractory periods. How long to make it hard again and how long to get desire to do that at all. Sometimes person just needs to take few days or week break to refresh whole body and build feelings up.

Very good post.

Sometimes i can get another erection right after i finished but it reguire 3 things:
1)visualition, try to stay horny
2)continuous and maybe intense stimulation
3)kegels

Originally Posted by c3ifador
You shouldn’t worry, every man is like that, it is called refractory period. After you ejaculate your penis begin to lose erection until it is flaccid.
Ask any man, the feeling of hardness go away in the moment you are ejaculating, they may stay with some blood in the penis making it look engorged after orgasm, but it is temporary until it becomes flaccid.
For me I never calculated the time of loss of erection after ejaculation.

I agree there is no need to worry, refractory period.
However, not every man loses his erection after orgasm, some lucky guys can stay hard and orgasm again, I used to be one of these guys, however age has taken its toll and haven’t been able to do it for some time.

I beleive that PE improves EQ, it certainly has for me, after doing a routine, finishing with AM 2, as long as I keep stimulating myself and thinking sexual thoughts, I can stay erect for up to 30 minutes. However, this is without orgasm

Originally Posted by qweqweqad1
It’s actually possibly to learn how to stay hard. Can’t say if anybody can do that, maybe person needs predisposition for that. But I did after some practice.

Idea is simple, once body feels it’s enough, dick goes limp. The only thing you need to do is to stay horny. And I mean some inner urge, because there is huge difference between “I want MORE!” and “would be good to stay hard”. For sure, I’m not expert in this area, but I’ve noticed few facts during self exploration which helped me:
1. Way to cheat is half-orgasm or dry orgasm. Amount of cum plays important role, because if your balls are empty then it’s going to be hard to convince body to continue. Don’t forget, reason for sex is reproductive instinct.
Technique isn’t very hard. You just stop stimulation right before you feel it’s impossibly to stop. As result you get orgasm without both physical and emotional finishing, but full contraction process. After some time you ll notice pleasure and orgasm are different things. Without a doubt, peak is ejaculation, but you can feel pleasant for hour or hours without finishing. Or you do double half-shots and sensation is going to be even stronger. Two things here is stockpile and getting used to staying hard after contractions and that’s already half of your goal.
2. Sensitivity. As I remember, long time ago after orgasm I was quite sensitive. Once I just noticed I don’t feel anything unpleasant if I continue to masturbate in slow tempo, I got curious about that and actually got my dick hard again. Was surprised, because didn’t expect that at all. I even could ejaculate after 15 minutes, but it was a bit tricky, because few times I got half-limp. For sure, it’s important step, because stimulation should be completely pleasant. Find way for that. Maybe tempo, maybe type or stroke. Maybe something else like water, temperature or simply train it for hours to reduce sensitivity, but get other source for desire.
3. After that you need to start to think about first ejaculation as small hill in climbing mountain. Not as something disturbing, but on the contrary as springboard.

Can’t say much about multiple shots in single day. Maybe it can help. There are many other small tricks too. I just focused attention on most important steps in my opinion. Fake double shots, true double shots with hard-limp transition and proper double shots. Despite that’s way how I got that, I’m quite curios if it’s possible to learn directly. I assume should be the way for that. Not to break and recreate process, but overcome with something pleasant. But that’s already a bit offtop with just wild guesses. Also at the end don’t forget, person has 2 refractory periods. How long to make it hard again and how long to get desire to do that at all. Sometimes person just needs to take few days or week break to refresh whole body and build feelings up.

A good Post.

I noticed that I can orgasm without ejaculating when I’m near the PONR I clunch my PC muscles and everything goes smoothly not ejaculation at all.

I can go for 2 hours and 15 minutes actually with ejacularing if I wanted to.

I used to be able to stay hard for a minute or so after but that’s changed with age.

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