New member, girth question

Hi Guys,

New member here. I’m 5 inches long and 6 inches in girth, sometimes 6.25” when really excited. About three fingers thick, basically. And, I love it, but ideally I wouldn’t mind another few inches in length, and about another inch in girth, as I like the feeling of a thick member.

Basically I was about 5 inches in girth and then start jelqing basically in an unofficial way. Basically just a lot of edging. And, I gained to my current 6 inches. I used to think I was small because I’m what they call a grower. But when I read that five inches is actually the average and I always think how “thin” the guys are in porn, I’ve come to realize it’s not small at all at least in terms of girth.

My question is that I would like some gains in length, and to be honest, I wouldn’t mind at all extra gains in girth, which I know seems a bit greedy, but I love how thick it is. So that’s what I’m here for, to learn the proper techniques. As I’m a bit on the heavy side, I suspect I’m longer than I realize, but wouldn’t mind gains in that arena as well.

Also, for mainly pleasure reasons, I’m curious about pumping. My only concern is I don’t want to deform my penis, so does anyone have any advice on pumping and safety, sizes of tubes, etc.?

And lastly, although I really do want more girth, but as a virgin, am concerned about being “too” thick for a partner and am worried about condom sizing and such.

At any rate, that’s all for me, I hope to learn a lot here.

Just stretching will get you more length. I would recommend some light jelqing as well to keep your penis from thinning out from the stretching.

For pumping it is recommended that you get one with a pressure gauge so you can keep from over pumping. I have never bought a pump or used one, but I assume they come with safety guidelines.

Search for some threads by downunderwonder. He is a little over 7 inches in girth. He has actually reported some problems during sex. True there are women who can take and even enjoy 7 inches girth but truthfully, even 6 inches in girth is starting to push it. It’s your choice, but more girth might actually be a bad idea. There are girth specific exercises here if you are interested. They should not be attempted though until you have had time to condition and toughen your unit.

Err….penis does not ‘thins out from the stretching’. :)

But right, do the newbie routine and keep jelqs low and you should gain some length.

Perhaps I was wrong? I have heard somewhere that it could actually thin the penis. Oh well …

Aha, no, it doesn’t thins out the penis. It can happen that it look thinner ‘cause the achieved length, but it would be just a visual effect. :)

Yes thank god it doesn’t thin out.

Okay. Maybe that’s what the person I heard it from was seeing. :-k

I actually see more girth when I stretch. I stretch then jelq. By my last set of stretches, my flaccid is thicker than when I start.

Yeah, I’ve noticed this too. I also stretch before I jelq and my flaccid when finished seems to be thicker.

You have really nice girth right now. Another inch would be monstrous. You could say goodbye to blowjobs and anal.

lol. I actually wouldn’t mind that. No matter how sexy I find a girl, I would not want to stick my wang up her poop chute! :-Q

I would love to anal sex with any girl, but most won’t let me. ;(

My experience differs. I’m over 6” in girth and can only recall one girl who wasn’t able to take it. I’ve also had my share of blow jobs and the occasional anal as well. My wife of five years gives me blow jobs on a regular basis, and when she hangs her head over the side of the bed, I can get my whole unit down her throat, even though at the base I’m probably 7” when really aroused. And when she’s in the mood for anal - which is only a few times a year - she has no problem, as long as she’s relaxed, there’s already been some anal play to open her up, and I use plenty of lube. She does mention being a bit sore the next day, but that’s about it.

How big is your head? that can make a difference in how easy it is to get a blowjob I think.

There is a lot of good advice in the pumping forum here at Thundersplace. Pumper’s Forum

Best to hold off on any devices until you have spent a few months with the newbie routine.

The length I got was from manual stretching and low erection level jelqing.

Summary of the general consensus:

1. get a pump with a pressure gauge
2. choose a tube that fits Selecting Your Cylinder Size
3. pump in the 2.5 to 5HG range for safe enlargement
3. work up the time and sets according to AVOCET8’s plan Vacuum Pumping 101

Most people think of pumping as a GIRTH exercise. Some guys have gained length, but more guys have gotten girth out of it. The girth I gained is mostly from pumping.

I think you are right to want to stay about where you are girthwise. 6in girth is huge. There are a bunch of guys who are shooting for 7inches, but I just don’t think it is practical. I think it would really limit your choice of partners.

(If you have any tips/details for us of how you got from 5 inch to 6 inch girth, THAT WOULD BE GREAT!)

As to pumping for pleasure — I do find it pleasurable, but not in a sexual way. It just seems very relaxing — I get a feeling of calm when I do it. I think maybe it causes the brain to release "feel-good" chemicals.