I’m back already. You moderators have been really generous so I want to tell you my experience with the new newbie routine.
I haven’t ever done any kind of PE before, and I did 2 sessions of the new newbie routine.
I had planned to do the routine one day on and one day off like that - I scaled it back even more than what was suggested.
5 minutes hot towel, 10 jelqs, then shower. I wasn’t sore at all after the routines, but the night after my first routine I got undressed to have some fun with my fiancee and we saw my dick was curved to the left as it was getting hard. This was definitely A CHANGE because of the jelqing. It was unmistakable, and it scared the shit out of both of us (she knew I was starting these exercises).
I couldn’t get hard for a bit after that, and even when I did, I felt different. Didn’t feel sensitive at first at all, just felt like dead skin. I know it was because I was scared out of my mind.
After I came - my cock went back to normal. I took a break the next day and then did the routine again, trying to concentrate on doing more even jelqs and not putting too much pressure on one side of me. Last night it was all curved again!
For any new people reading this - after these experiences of mine I know these guys are for real, and this shit really does work.
What do I think for me? Well I am writing early because I am stopping the PE for now. I am really in tune with my body on many levels and I am noticing a change in me, that I’m not sure enough of and therefore am uncomfortable with. I worry that when I get to where I want to be with this shit that my cock won’t really be ‘mine’ anymore. My girl said to me she won’t love me anymore if I break my cock.
I know this shit works, but the impression I have so far is that it is a drastic thing to do to yourself. Does anyone disagree with me here? It must be drastic, because you know if it wasn’t, then everyone would be doing it.
I am being extremely careful because I like myself and I like my sexual chemistry with my fiancee (my dream girl) the way it is and I want to make sure that doesn’t change. I got the feeling that this stuff will change that, and I don’t want to take the risk it will change it for the worse.
There’s another reason I stopped too - because I talked to my girl. The main reason I got into this is because I make my fiancee crazy in bed, but for some reason I always thought that other, bigger guys used to make her crazier than me.
Well the other night she asked me why I felt such a need to do PE and I said to her “because I know I hit your g-spot and make you cum like crazy, but I want to hit your cervix and make you even crazier like other guys used to (I always guessed they did).” Know what she said to me?
“Fuck! The g-spot is a myth and you DO hit my cervix! Other bigger guys only hit it sometimes, and smaller guys don’t hit it at all, but you hit it EVERY TIME! Why do you think I cum all over you all the time! Stop making all this so clinical, it makes me not want to have sex with you at all!”
She’s a short girl, and she talks about her tiny pussy, and I always thought she meant width, but now I get it.
So tell me if I am wrong guys:
Unless it’s easy for a woman to make herself sopping wet on command and it’s easy for a woman to voluntarily gush multiple times over my cock, I think I am all good. She does that every time I put it in her when I am on top - sometimes even squirting when I finally pull it out. Can that be faked? Besides, even if your answer is yes, she’s a wild one. If I didn’t satisfy her, she’d not be with me. I just lost perspective somehow along the way. I bet a lot of you understand where I am coming from. I sometimes worry about what I might NOT know.
As for the PE, I dunno, I might try it some more someday. It’s not a priority anymore though.
Thunder’s Place indirectly helped me a lot. Thanks guys, you do great work!
I’d love to see comments and will answer questions.