SOME ONE HELP, can't jelq the right way

It’s embarrasing, but, every time I try to jelq, I can’t hold my cum. It used to be that I couldn’t keep it up long enough to jelq, but now that I managed to over come that problem, I have a premature ejaculation prob to fight. About 5 minutes into it, it will let the load off on it’s own, even though I’m trying to hold it back. On top of that, durring the 5 or 10 minutes that I’m jelqing, I have to stop every 30 seconds cause if feels too good, and I’m affraid of cumming and ruining the jelq session. Stoping like this alone messes up the jelq session, cause it needs to be consistent and non stop. THIS IS RUINING MY JELQ SESSION. WHAT DO I DO! I last longer when having sex with my girl, so why can’t I hold it back for more than 30 secs. When jelqing or beatin it. It’s a lil frusturating. Is there any method proven to perminantly end this type of problem?

Maybe you’re jelquing too fast? Try with 4 seconds strokes and see how that works. If it doesn’t work then do some Kegels to control premature ejaculation.

Thanks, ill try that. I’m reading a site on pre-mature ejaculation too, saying it’s due to overstimulation and anxiety. To relax and think of other things. Ill do the kegels for a few weeks first.

Thank you

Get a 50% erection.

Grip the base with one hand.

With the other hand circle the shaft and pull from base to just below the glans. Medium grip.

From base to glans it should take 3-5 seconds.

You shouldn’t be in danger of coming from this.

It sounds like you are masturbating.

Kegels are the way to go. It takes practice, but you’re golden once you get the hang of it. It’ll also make your erections harder, unlike thinking of other things, which tends to debilitate it.

Thinking of something else can definitely work if you don’t mind working out physics problems in your mind and not enjoying sex as much, nor the occasional “are you there?” from the women you have sex with (in my case anyway).

If the only times in the past you have had your hands on your penis has been to masturbate, it may not have worked out the difference yet, and thinks you are just trying a new mastubation stroke. Your penis should get used to the fact that you are jelqing, not masturbating.

The other tip is to make sure that you are stopping before you reach your glans (read this as “don’t touch your head”). Especially if you’re using the overhand grip, your hand or non gripping fingers can be grazing your head which could be causing you to stimulate to ejaculation point. Check out the wet jelq video.

And you are only Jelq-stroking away from your body, correct? As slow as you should be going and only pulling, not to mention the amount of pressure you should be using, shouldn’t be getting you off.

Could it be the lube? Have you tried Dry Jelqs instead?

The difference has to be comprehended between the ears, not between the legs.

Isn’t that s squeeze jelq and dangerous to a newbie?

Nope.

Damn! You mean I’ve been thinking with the wrong organ all these years? ;)

Actually, that explains a lot.

I don’t know if my brain can get any bigger! :-k

I think that depends on what, exactly, you are trying to comprehend.

Tell me about it.

That sort of swelling is always dangerous.

I jelqed successfully for the first time today! No fatigue of erection during the jelq. I was able to do almost a full 200 today in intervals of 50. I know for a fact it has something to do with the condition that your PC muscle is in. I’ve been kegeling a lot and suddenly I’m able to hold my erections for longer and stronger and my jelqing seems so much more intense. I actually noticed some girth gains after the work out which is probably due to the fact that I just finished jelqing, but none the less, this is how it starts! So to all those guys out there that are having trouble keeping it hard during jelqing, here’s my word of advice: “condition that PC muscle!”

This also seems to save me on time. Before it used to take me 1 to 1 1/2 hours to do a jelq session, now, doing it straight, it only took me 5 minutes to warm up, 7-10 minutes to jelq, and 5 minutes to warm down. With in-between times it took a total of about 25 - 30 minutes of my time from warm up to warm down. This means I can start to incorporate my exercises into my morning schedule before work and school, more effectively without having to sacrifice sleep time to wake up all early.

One thing though. Today, at about 180 jelqs it started to feel too good. I admit.I blew a load. I’m wondering what this does to the effects of the jelq session. Does it completely ruin the jelq session cause the blood flow relaxes and isn’t as strong? Does it help the jelq session by allowing the dick to heal while in rest mode? I just don’t know.

So someone who knows, please let me know, is it OK to cum while jelqing or right after jelqing?