10 Tips for PE

8x8’s anecdote provides a good point to make the distinction between ejaculation and orgasm. Both can be had independently of each other, and both have different effects on the penis. Ejaculation is merely the release of fluids, which as many people who edge can probably attest to, if you get too close to the edge and hover there at the point of no return then you penis can pump and release fluids as if you were ejaculating from orgasm. However, the feeling is significantly different and often the erection can be maintained and so can the need to “cum.” orgasm is much more physiologically and psychologically involved, as orgasm stems from the release of hormones and changes your body chemistry briefly. The release of several different neurotransmitters has a huge a effect on smooth tissue contraction. This area of neurobiology is receiving more attention (because sex is pretty friggin important), but is surprisingly bereft of solid research. Whether cumming is good or bad for PEing is completely personal, and you just gotta do what feels and works best for you. However, most of the evidence that I’ve seen suggests that edging and not cumming while masturbating will aid penile growth and EQ.

Personally, my EQ is so much better when I PE and edge, and save up my orgasm for when I’m enjoying the company of my lady friend, that I don’t even feel a strong need to cum while masturbating. It just makes me more excited for the next time we are together.

*Puts ThunderSS in an ankle lock*

And when I do not ejaculate, my brain does not release these chemicals. But man, I’ve got to admit, I don’t really know the science behind this stuff. I offered my guess at an explanation!

I disagree with this. For me, the pressure does indeed build over time.

I am not really interested in trying to convert everyone. Rather, I’m trying to show that there is something that may be worth experimenting with that could have great benefits. Through my PE career I’ve tried all kinds of things; some have worked, and others have failed miserably. For me, this has been the single most powerful tool to bolster my cock. That is a simple fact!

8x8, I see what you are saying. I actually ooze and squirt that same fluid in small amounts and ignore it altogether. It won’t impregnate a woman for one thing (not to open another can of worms). But I agree with you that it has to do with something that happens during a ‘normal’ ejaculation process, whether it’s particular muscle contractions, or pressure to particular areas. One thing, if you can’t have stimulation around the head when you ejaculate, how do you deal with that while you’re inside a woman?

Can we all agree that edging is beneficial?

If I recall correctly, that poll does in fact demonstrate that people who ejaculate do not see themselves as having trouble with their penises. I still believe, however, that there could be some additional penis strength that some could gain by practicing non-ejaculation. It’s not for everyone though, and they always say Don’t fix what isn’t broken! :-)

Of course. It is called blue balls. :chuckle:

I absolutely DO! :thumbs: I have for many years BEFORE I joined Thunders. I didn’t know how I was doing it, I just was.

I remember, that within the first few months in my relationship with my wife, I would sometimes get too excited, and have to stop and do oral or something else. Usually, I would be on the edge of the PONR, before I stopped.

I’m just better at it now, and I have learned what muscle(s) control ,…… the control. Now, if we’re having a real hot session, and I’m on the edge, I slow down but do not stop.

I’ve never been a two pump chump, or even close. ( thankfully :) )

Do my nails while you are down there.

At the very least, I believe it helped cement the gains I got with PE exercises.

Now this is decidedly interesting. Stimulation of the glans is not very…stimulating for me. I always masturbate by grabbing the shaft near the base and stroking. Also, during sex or oral, it is deep penetration, with base stimulation, that I crave. Stimulating my head will not make me cum at all. I wonder if there is a connection, there, between my lack of a refractory period, and base stimulation? I do cum bucket loads, even the third and fourth orgasm in a row.

Oh shit! I am SO glad you brought this to my attention 8x8. I have often wondered why masturbation causes me to turtle like hell, but sex does not.

I am intrigued. My only question is: how do you achieve orgasm without touching your glans? I must know…

Looks like we’re on the verge of a scientific breakrthough here at Thunders. This is what happens when thousands of people, over years and years, state their experiences of a common theme in one place. If you’re into penile health and penile growth, like so many of us here are, then this place is priceless!

Wow! Thunder’s has been here for thousands of years. I did not know that. How did you guys post on the blogs before the advent of the computer? LOL

Seriously, though, you are right. This discussion has taken an interesting turn.

Before you make sarcastic comments, why not try reading exactly what I said.