65 days without ejaculating

I don’t know why I feel the need to say this out loud. I’ve read alot of threads speculating on whether or nor masturbating affects gains. The general consensus seems to be” no way am I going to stop ejaculating”. So at first I wanted to keep the fullness not cumming gives me. Now it’s more of an exercise in self control, a spiritual journey. I remember in my youth feeling so alive and connected to the universe until I whacked off and then I just wanted to recover. Anyway the first time I measured was soon after ejaculating. I can’t remember if this was bone pressed or not,6and 2/8EL. I ejaculated a week later and the following week I measured 6 and 7/8sBPEL. I haven’t ejaculated since. I’m pretty sure I’ve cemented a gain of 1/8 in length as I never measure smaller than 7BPEL although I’ve measured as much as 2/8s longer at times. Last week I took two days off in a row and my girth was larger than it’s ever been. I didn’t measure but usually when I wrap my thumb and index finger around my shaft there is overlap. Both days my fingers wouldn’t close. I read a thread where someone said they measure as much as a half inch smaller after masturbating and I know the only way to be sure of my gains would be to orgasm. I just don’t want to. Does anyone else practise this kind of restraint? If so, do you edge? I do and I also do testicular stretches and massage. I’m wondering if after edging is it better to wait for some time before stretching the testicles? I don’t want to damage my epididymus or vas deferens. Any feed back anyone?

Ummm this thread is turning back to Dr.Lin’s ballooning theory again. P.E experts from Thunder’s, I’d like to know your opinions.

Sorry but I just couldn’t read that. My eyes are getting old. I chopped it up, here is a repost:

I don’t know why I feel the need to say this out loud. I’ve read a lot of threads speculating on whether or not masturbating affects gains. The general consensus seems to be “no way am I going to stop ejaculating.” So at first I wanted to keep the fullness not cumming gives me. Now it’s more of an exercise in self control, a spiritual journey.

I remember in my youth feeling so alive and connected to the universe until I whacked off and then I just wanted to recover. Anyway, the first time I measured was soon after ejaculating. I can’t remember if this was bone pressed or not. 6 1/4” EL. I ejaculated a week later and the following week I measured 6 7/8” BPEL. I haven’t ejaculated since. I’m pretty sure I’ve cemented a gain of 1/8” in length as I never measure smaller than 7” BPEL. However, I’ve measured as much as 1/4” longer at times.

Last week I took two days off in a row and my girth was larger than it’s ever been. I didn’t measure but usually when I wrap my thumb and index finger around my shaft there is an overlap. Both days my fingers wouldn’t close. I read a thread where someone said they measure as much as a half inch smaller after masturbating and I know the only way to be sure of my gains would be to orgasm. I just don’t want to.

Does anyone else practise this kind of restraint? If so, do you edge? I do and I also do testicular stretches and massage. I’m wondering if after edging is it better to wait for some time before stretching the testicles? I don’t want to damage my epididymitis or vas deferens. Any feed back anyone?

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Anyway, my answer to would be “that’s 64 days too many without an orgasm.”

Of course I’m tempted to post lots of pornographic things to break his resolve.

More than two weeks you might be doing some damage. You are going too far.

I’m with you One.

Many people do not understand the value of white space.

Hmm, that’s pretty neat.. However whats the point of gaining size if it won’t stay after ejaculation?

john,
if you do get the technique of “having the orgasm but not ejaculating”, you’ll relieve the stress at the testical area.

But at the same time you’ll get all the great benefits of not ejaculating: health, youth, PE benefits, and much more.
I for example, generally orgasm at least 2 times a day by masturbating but don’t ejaculate. It is much more pleasurable than ordinary masturbation, too.
To get it better, you may want to have a look at “Mantak Chia” ‘s books about Taoist Sex.
Good luck.

It’s not your gains that some of us might be concerned about, but the health of your prostate gland and your seminal vessicles.

I’m not going to look them up (again) to post them here, but there are numerous studies indicating that men who do not ejaculate “frequently,” -whatever that means and it sure doesn’t mean waiting 60+ days - exprience higher frequencies of prostatitis and prostate cancer later in life.

Do what you want if that reassures you and builds your gain confidence. However, at 60 yrs old, no matter what size your cock is, you may wish you’d blown your loads more regularly.

:) Two opposite views..

The people observed at the studies avocet mentioned were most probably not practicing the multi orgasmic techniques. So the results obtained at those studies may not be valid for everybody. I think a study on guys practicing the multi-O techniques would yield the best results: middle or old aged guys for example. If they are doing the techniques , and they are much better (not just the prostate, about everything), then the thesis is true.

And according to Taoist principles ejaculating frequently means a great energy lost for men: hence the situation may not be so bright at 60 :) What do you think zane?

zane rules

Depends totally on how you do it, kaan. If you are multi and not ejaculating backward - retrograde - also, little fluid leaves either the vessicles or the prostate; they just get stirred up some, so to speak.

Zane is multi-orgasmic in a totally different manner, being female.

I get stickypants (tee hee I’m so witty) in the morning if I go for more than a week without busting a nut. I say let the cum fly.

I trust xenolith on this one. I haven’t done a formal study and all I know is the female side of things. But I do think two weeks should be the max, and I STRONGLY believe that if the man is in a relationship that the ejaculation should be done with the woman. Because we need that energy.

I doubt there is a thing called “backward ejaculation”
You either ejaculate or not. If you don’t, it stays at the balls.

Of course zanes’s orgasms and everything is different :) What I meant to say was that her opinions contradict taoist or tantric teachings. In those teachings, “men shouldn’t ejaculate” is like “chapter-1” :)

Ejaculating is the “inefficient” way of yin-yang exchange between partners. Because women get very small amount of what they need , in exchange of very high physical energy cost for the man. The result is most likely to be fatigue for the man, and dissatisfaction (or obssession) for the woman :)

The aim of the techniques is to make that yin yang exchange much more efficiently , without men loosing his power. Ejaculation isn’t a “must” here, I thought you knew that zane..