A question for the "natural biggies"

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Well maybe some bearing.

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I’m thinking, as long as the woman is over 4’ 6" you get a pass on that. *laughs* I mean, 8x6" is 1/3 of her body height! That isn’t how it is supposed to work!

Reasonable postulation…but luckily we did not evolve that immense of a variety in physical sizes for hers to be a significant or even mentionable distribution in the population.

I’d say I was naturally around 7.75 X 5.6 or so and eventually lost some size in my late 30’s. All through my late teens and early 20s I had many partners. I never thought I was exceptionally big.

I grew up as a white kid in a predominantly black urban community. In fact the first white girl I was ever serious with is my current partner and we got together when I was 39. I had quite a few partners in my 20s that I was the only white dick they’d ever had. Back in the day I ran with a crew of guys and we were all athletes and man whores. (I was the only white guy in the crew) We’d have a lot of freaky chicks and did a lot of “running trains” and double teaming and would frequently all have sex in the same room. We were pretty cocky and weren’t shy to walk around with our dicks swinging after banging some females. There were a couple guys in my crew that were in the 9”+ range and a couple in the 6” range. I was somewhere in the middle. I used to get a lot of comments which were girls not proclaiming my dick was huge, but rather being shocked that it wasn’t small. There was a pretty common stereotype in my neighborhood that white guys had tiny dicks. This was before internet porn.

I only bring up race because in terms of culture, not really race itself. I think dick size and the stereotypes surrounding it was something always ingrained in me from my teenage years on. It was always something I was conscious of. I always wanted to be bigger too. My first serious girlfriend and first true love, cheated on me with a guy, who was also my friend and I knew he was packing some heat (9” and girthy). She specifically told me she did it because the sex was better. That always stuck with me. I’d also see my boys who were packing have females bending over backwards for the dick. They had reputations and the girls would line up, boyfriends or not. I was always a little jealous. I can’t even begin to tell you how much I wish I knew about PE back then. Man O’ Man.

Fast forward to my current relationship and I hadn’t really thought much about my size in years until we got into a fight she called me “little dick”. I thought it was humorous at first until she admitted to me that her first boyfriend, the one who took her virginity was packing. She says 9” but on the skinny side. I guess hearing that brought back a lot size anxiety from my early days. That really got in my head and I couldn’t shake it. It started to affect my erection quality and destroyed my confidence. I came here specifically for better erections, but once I realized I could grow, I was determined to get bigger. It was out of spite at first, but now I’ve come to realize that there is something a lot deeper and life changing about PE. I’ve gotten my confidence back and then some. In the first few days of PE I said I would be bigger than her ex. Now I don’t care about that. That’s not my goal and not what I do it for. I do it for me. To feel like a man. It’s self love.

Great post.

I can identify with a lot of what you said.

I started at 6.75” BPEL and 5.25” MSEG. I never thought of myself as big or small, just average. Like you I sowed my wild oats over the years and, thankfully, was never told I was small or made to feel inadequate in any way. I never brought up the size of exes with anyone I was dating because, frankly, odds were that some of them, maybe most of them, had been with someone bigger, and I didn’t want to open that can of worms.

Over the years, I’ve put on an extra 20 to 25 pounds and as I hit my mid-fifties I noticed my EQ wasn’t what it used to be.
I met a great gal over three years ago and decided to do something about my EQ and luckily I found this place.

I came here wanting to improve my EQ, which I have, but I also added some size.
I’m now 7.75” BPEL and 5.75” MSEG and I’m definitely enjoying the increased size. So is my girlfriend.

Also, I seem to be gaining some length recently, I’ve been getting measurements just shy of 8”BPEL. Not cemented yet but working on it.

And, like you, with the added size and better EQ my confidence has really increased. I’m really enjoying where I’m at right now as you seem to be.

Keep it up Groundswell, I’ll be following your journey….

I started at almost 8 inch BPEL and a big flaccid. When I realized my dick was big I really wanted it to be even bigger. I would probably not have started PE if my dick hadn’t been naturally big. I saw adds for penis enlargement that doesn’t work, pills and such and I was thinking that there might actually bee some PE that works and if there is my dick can get really really big. I was thinking that I am big now, if I get bigger I can get gigantic and that’s why I searched for PE that really works. My motivation was not to get big, I wanted to get gigantic. That is still what drives me, having a abnormally large penis. I would love to have a 10 inch flaccid and a 12-13 inch erect dick. I can’t really say why I want it but it was probably because I felt satisfaction knowing I had a big dick and that made we want to have more.

For me, as my name suggest, it started as a quest for girth. I was self concious of the fact that my penis appeared, at least to me, very skinny. I started the PE process to try to become more proportional a quest that saw almost immediate success as I have grown at a 1:1 length to girth rate since I started PE which meant the girth was closing the proportional gap. After I met my now wife I got the notion that her hand shouldn’t make it around my cock and that became my new goal. My goals started of silly and vain and I know that now. I continue the process because it is the best meditation I know of and I enjoy it. As many others have put it, it is self care.

Amazing gains Thickambitions.

Thank you! They have taken a long time, there have been injuries along the way, but listening to the pros around here has gotten me through it. I am currently at a plateau and have been for about 5 months but I am confident with time I can bust through.

I’m only 7.6x5. Not really that big. 8 NBP is more along the lines of big and that’s what I’m working for. Just want the extra attention, confidence, and pleasure that comes with a really big dick. 5” girth seems skinny to me to. Your standards for naturally big are a little undersized lol

Not about topic’s theme, but about interesting idea, that one only looks at the guys “above” him, which was on 4-5th page.

I could say, that it is likely typical for western mindset. Being russian, I can’t either name myself eastern-person, as I dreams to move to USA or Australia and as a whole dreams about Star Trek future!))
BUT - I never think about somebody above me :/ At all. I don’t care about other guys of my wife/GF (she says I’m the biggest), also in my morals - girl/man more attractive if they are experienced ones. So, most of horny stories for me - very epic stories, which I like to listen any time, cause they involve good grade of fun for me xDD

In other fields it is same almost. My BIG trouble currently that I can’t find work for 4 years already and government fucks round, but still I only having some small talks with mates from University, who works, about interviews and improving some “policy questions” (as all others I know way too good xDD). So, I can’t say that I look at them with any kind of emotion, just collecting experience to improve myself and my human capital.

As a whole can’t figure out why or how I can look at somebody above me… I mean it is either - completely strange person to me, who I don’t know good, or it is some kind of friend for me, who widened my knowledge and experience. So, I mostly recall experience, not person.

Well, this is my first post!

I never thought I was big, like many others, looking down at my penis, I was thinking “is it big enough?” I must have been about 7” BPEL with a big glans. One girlfriend said, “you’re not sticking that thing in me.” Later she named me “doorknob.” Another woman said, “its like you have one of those french ticklers on the end of your penis!”

But of course I just sort of ignored the comments. Strangely enough, I’m just starting to realize there was alot of confusion surrounding my penis, I was a little afraid of my penis because a couple times(not many) I couldn’t get an erection, whether it was anxiety or that hair medication that killed my libido!

Despite these comments, I never thought I was big. Flash forward to now, at the age of 58, my penis seemed to be shrinking and in the pump tube that I just recently bought maybe 6.3 or a little under. Some days it turtles so much I was fearfully anticipating my next relationship. I hadn’t had sex for 5 years. And I felt like George Co-stanza, “shrinkage.”

But recently I met a woman who seemed to think it was big, and within a few months of pumping my penis was bigger than ever. Back over 7” and much thicker. After a month, she said, “either my vagina is shrinking or your penis is getting bigger.” My glans is still big, and my girlfriend has never had kids, so she is very tight. We take our time putting my penis in her and we joke about how once my glans does slide in, it feels like popping a cork, but sort of in reverse if that makes any sense. Whenever a cork pops on a wine bottle we look at each other and laugh—and no one understands what’s so funny

Even so, I would like to get to 8”.

I’m 60 and can identify quite a bit with your situation.

I started out 3 and a half years ago, a bit under 7” BPEL. Like you, I got the occasional compliment about my size but it didn’t happen very often. I also have to say I never got any negative feedback about my size either. For almost my entire adult life I considered myself to be average in the size department.

I started a new relationship about 4 years ago and, like you, my girlfriend never had children. At the start of the relationship I hadn’t had sex for about 5 years prior. I was 56 at the time and started having some occasional ED issues which brought me here.

To my surprise, my PE regimen noticably helped with my EQ, and resulted in a size increase. I’m now approaching 8” BPEL with a MSEG just under 6”. My starting girth was 5.25”.

What really struck me the most about your post was the similarities with our respective girlfriends. About two years ago my girlfriend said exactly the same thing as yours, either “she was getting smaller or I was getting bigger.” When we have sex she always says at the start, “take it easy”. But the sex has been great and still is, even four years later.

This whole PE experience has been great for me in so many ways, life changing in fact. Size wise, I was actually above average in both length and girth when I started PE. Of course, I had no idea that was the case until I started reading some of the posts here about average size. And now, I know I’m big, certainly not huge, but big nevertheless.

Having the knowledge that I’m a good size, and having pretty darn good EQ at my age has done a lot for my confidence in the bedroom and just in general. It’s been great, so glad I found this place.

I plan on doing this for life.

Welcome to the club! I think you’ll like it here.

I know that for me, while I was decently sized as a young man, I suffered a pretty bad injury to my member that left me impotent for a long while. After some rehabilitation, I was able to get back my functionality, but during that time I read a lot of stories from men that were not so lucky. Moreover, I saw that a lot of these men were very desperate and afraid like I was at the time. Just like me, they were suckered in by shysters trying to make a little blood money off things like pills and the like. For me, my injury happened when I was 12. It.well, it made any sexual encounters.”interesting”. I’d say it was somewhere around 14 that I committed myself to finding an answer for not only myself but others as well. The human body is an incredible machine capable of all manner of miracles with a properly applied stimulus and diet. Towards that end, I put my nose to the grindstone for around 14 years to seriously come up with a viable solution which could be easily used.

Lastly, I was always a little disgusted by “gifted” guys. I thought it was a bit cruel that some were just blessed and others were screwed before they even left the gate. I wanted to level the playing field and make it about personal effort and perseverance—not lopsided favor by some deity or the like.

Life is a bitch brother, but God bless you for trying.

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