A question for the "natural biggies"

Sounds like penis envy?
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I run into these women on a regular basis and since I’m not looking for a relationship of any kind they get angry with me. And much as described in Freud’s theory it’s always "Me that needs a good woman" despite them being single.

Besides the hateful comments I get it’s pretty amusing.

Nice first post. I can identify with your analogy. I want to be the Captain of the team, and the MVP of the league :chuckle: .

I think Sex And The City has a lot to answer for…

Yeah, a big part of it is women who’ve got the idea that being sexually liberated involves talking about sex all the time, how much they want it, how much they love big dicks and so on. In Britain this was known as the ‘ladette’, the female equivalent of the ‘lad’ culture of mid-late 90s. In America you’d say ‘fratboy’ or ‘bro’, I guess.

But anyway, I think you have to look at the possibility of selection bias here. Let’s assume, for now, that say 20% of women do really love big dicks and find average-sized ones a bit disappointing. If those women make up 100% of women who love to talk about dicks, then your experience as a man is that when women talk about dicks, 100% of them say they love huge ones. It’s just that the other 80% aren’t going around telling everyone how much the love average-sized dicks.

It’s no different from men who love to brag about their sex lives, really. When was the last time you heard a loud-mouthed guy drunkenly telling anyone who’ll listen about the average-sized tits on this chick he banged the other night? Of course he’s going to say they were huge - whether they were or not - because that’s the kind of thing guys like that say. But a woman with nothing to go on other than what she’d overheard loud drunk guys brag about might think that all guys have a thing for huge tits and find average-sized ones inadequate.

Wibble, good points.

Sex and the city, jersey shore, etc. Teach women to prattle on like that and it devalues them.

My ex used verbal images of dicks larger than mine to attempt castration, and failed.

What she did manage to do was destroy a family home.

And Jacques lacan, the post modern psychological philosopher is the shit, and so is zizek, if you can get past the sniffing and nervous tics.

And check out toxoplasmosis as a potential reason why some people are irrationally aggressive.

And before the manginas chirp, there are men who act this way also and are equally destructive.

But in this instance we are talking about harpies.

I always knew I was hung ever since I was 16. I got comments from girls all the time. 2 years ago I got familiar with penis size surveys. It occured to me that im well above average (as expected) but it became a shock to me that in girth Im just dead on average. After reading about PE and its benefits on ED, I wanted to try it out and see if Id get well above average in girth.

Haha, I never thought Slavoj Z would crop up here, of all places. Priceless. My girlfriend was quoting him on facebook just earlier today. :)

Dunno if I have much time for Lacan, wasn’t he the one with all that crazy pseudo-mathematics?

Lacan was trying to synthesize the real, symbolic and imaginary via mathematics into a meta-theory of psychonanalysis.

Personally, I think his Gallic pride got the better of him trying to outdo ze chermans.

Zizek would have to laugh at the symbolic nature of our endeavours here mind you.

Uncomfortably ironic, if you think about it.

We’re trying to submit women by growing larger genitals.

Well, that’s the feminist view, to which I don’t adhere.

To the capital F feminist, any penis is oppressive.

Lacan, and zizek would say we are trying to live symbolically via our view of a huge penis, much like bodybuilders are trying to be Zeus as portrayed in the Greek statuary.

Nietzsches superman.

This why I say that its critical that we do this for ourselves as men and not for the approval of a woman, even the one we love because the best she can do in response is to question our motives.

For her, she preferred to know we we fine before and without PE.

For me it was simply this, I woke up one day and at 48 yrs old realized it had shrunk. When I was 18 - 20 yrs old I was 9+ inches long and ok thickness but not really THICK. At 48 I was 6.5 inch. I started doing research as to why. I found out ligaments, weight gain (consider where that thing is mounted and how much of you cover it up) and general tissue changes does lead to shrinkage. (And you all thought it was just the cold)

So now about a year later I am back up to near 9 and like most of you pervs I am wondering if 10 is doable.

I have to admit the only negative to all this is, I am thicker then I ever was and tend to leave my woman a little bruised and beat up after rough nights. Consider when I was long but thinner I had the best of both worlds, most women could take it in every way they wanted, I just touched places they had few ever touch. Now they try to wrap that mouth around it and the first thing that goes through their mind is the NO LIST.

Anyway good luck with all your goals

advcrazy

I well know what you mean :-)

Yeah, mid-life…

And it’s already the second “primeur” we have from a lurker. Welcome to the posting side, advcrazy!

advcrazy — Your story on shrinkage is interesting.

My story is the opposite. First off, I’m on the slender side & don’t have much of a fat pad to speak of. At 18-20 years old, although I never measured, compared to today, I would say I was quite a bit smaller. Now that I’m middle aged, I think that all those years of masterbating to peak erection levels wasn’t some mild form of PE. I haven’t read anywhere about this possible correlation. If anyone has read any studies, articles on the topic, or have similar experiences, I’d be curious to know.

Long before formal PE training I edged daily and never saw any gains from that, though I may have been smaller without the edging.

I was able to last a while with the girls because of the edging though, which I’m grateful for, even now.

I am thinking that most of my losses were due to tendon issues, I gained back an inch pretty quickly, I first found an article on PE gym and started stretching, when I found thunders I started looking at hanging, I have never hung more then 20 pounds and have tried many ways to attach. Most seem to have the same draw backs, they slip, or they hurt like hell when you take them off, they are bulky, in the end I use a modified captains wench, made from a neoprene wrist wrap.