A question for the "natural biggies"

I am currently using a modified handi-clamp and don’t hang more than 12 pounds, but I hang 120 minutes a day in six sets.

I find that most days I’m stripping weight off toward the end.

a-unit — where are some good places to look for high quality hanging equipment?

There are people selling here and some good kit instructions ad well, but I bought my handi-clamp at home depot for six bucks.

It really doesn’t surprise me at all that very well endowed guys PE and have a desire to be bigger. I mean I know individuals who are by all accounts filthy rich that are still insecure of their financial situation and are jealous of those who are richer. I know drop dead gorgeous women that swear they are completely unnattractive. More personally I was an elite distance runner in my teenage years, better than 95% of my competition, but all I could think of was the guys who were faster that me and it made me feel inferior. Us humans will always be unsatisfied in one way or another!

Jaylough

an interesting observation, and I think there is a grain of truth in it. I do not feel in competitive mode for PE, but I was athletic in my youth too an it is true: one does only look up to the guys “above” him.

Maybe I should re-think my motives…

Comparing PE to athletics may be less than fruitful.

For me PE is a solitary endeavour, making it a sport, though amusing, fails to provide motivation for me.

You can compare it to a lot of things, sports included. I think it (PE) is more akin to a golf course and playing a round. In the grand scheme of things, it’s really not about beating the other players, but it’s about mastering the course. It’s a solitary effort and it’s just you and your clubs (your tools) against the terrain (in this case, your own body - your cock). Master the course and beating the other players fall in line, if that’s your goal.
Yeh, it may be a stretch, but for those that need the sports analogy, I think this fits perfectly for PE.

I think, after the fact, you can be competitive if you wish.

I like to see the Zen aspect promoted more, especially to noobs, simply because they then get that its not a race or a competition where there are winners and losers.

a-unit

What I was referring to was more sparks of remaining spirit of competivity. Although I definitely know I range in the top percents, this does not stop me from still wanting to go further.

I agree that comparing PE with sports is not fruitful, but I think Jaylough helped me in discovering a little part of the “why to PE”. At least for me it helped.

And yes, I don’t favor PE to become Olympic discipline. :-)

I see. My comments were not meant to contradict or negate anyone’s points of view.

My position comes from my field where motivations are a critical insight into behaviours and the likelyhood of success.

If we are to succeed here we need to be clear to ourselves about why we are here and what we need to do.

We all need to know precisely what motivates us if we are to be successful here.

It is good that you did discover a little about what makes you tick.

I know my initial motivation here was to overcome the abuse I got from the mother of my children regarding penises and her desire to sing about big black dicks, etc.

Once I dealt with that I had to find different motivation, and found it in the form of aiming for 8x6, which I’m well on the way to achieving.

That is the great thing here: you launch a question and get back a treasure of answers.

We may be freaks after all, but at least we are thinking and supportive freaks.

“My” thread is getting better every day 😉

I would never have got anywhere near this far without Thunders.

What is motivation?

Whatever allows you to keep going.

First off I started off with PE an average sized guy but a little on the thick side of average. I don’t care about the pyschology behind me wanting to be bigger. I never thought about having to have a bigger cock until my wife fucked my head up with making me feel I was inadequate. (small and not needed)

After my cock was bigger and she first winced because I nailed her uterus I started feeling better about myself. That I could cause her some pain with my tool revitalized me. I still have issues with ED from her stupid comments that were never intended to hurt me. She thought she was just joking about my size. And when I started getting ED during sex and would give up in frustration she thought she made me feel better by saying sex wasn’t important to her and who needs it. She was married to her job and for the past five years I told her she needed to be home with me more. I told her if she didn’t want to have sex I’d find it elsewhere. I told her I jacked off whenever she has turned me down and after 36 years of marriage she never knew I jacked off! Hell’s bells - I’d roll over and beat my meat and she never once knew? She doesn’t lie so I knew how observant of my needs she had been. Finally I had an affair. I got caught. I don’t feel guilty. Now she puts out like the girl I married and is attentive as you could want a mate to be. Yeah she’s hurt but I feel in ways that she deserves it. I know she won’t be so quick to write my needs off again. After 36 years she even gave me my first blowjob and sucks me regularly. She hadn’t let me eat her out in years and now I can do it anytime I want. She is multi orgasmic now and loves my “BIG” cock. She voices that and knows you “never” tell a guy he has a small cock or that sex is not important. If I knew it took an affair to wake her up I would have done it years ago.

I still want a bigger cock and I’ve told her that I grew my cock because of her and now I can’t quit! I guess I’ll just call it penis therapy! Along with the marriage counseling. haha

@MM, It’s a shame it got to that stage at all.

I can sympathise though as I had the same issues and eventually left for someone else. I have never understood that you can tell your SO about really important issues that they will, (for the most part), dismiss out of hand.. Then realise they screwed the pooch when it goes pear shaped.. I’m glad you’re still together and are able to have worked it out..

Oz

Yeah! I think I could have just gotten us into counseling but in the long run this may be the best part of our lives. The second honeymoon of sorts and rebuilding as though we were just married. Attentive to each others every need. And the communication is much better. (She admitted that her older brother sexually abused her from 1st grade on until he got married. He used to rape her and beat her into submission. Make her suck his cock and lick his ass. I don’t know how I’m going to react to seeing him again. I hope I control myself. Right now I feel he deserves nothing better than death! Bastard! I don’t like being that way so I hope to get some counseling before I see him again!

I too was going to just abandon my marriage for my college days ex-fiance’. I couldn’t do it when I got caught. Too much love for her and the families!