Big girth doesn't mean a big penis?

Of course it is big. With that kind of girth you are big. At any rate, I am not sure what the problem is, since your girlfriend is happy.

Size anxiety is a huge waste of time. Especially at your size.

I would be the farm that if you showed your unit (fully engorged and erect) to a bunch of women and asked them how big they thought it was, that you would hear a lot of stuff like: “It’s huge!” “8 inches for sure!” etc.

You have a nice big johhson, buddy. Seriously.

Every girl I know always says girth is better than length, so big girth would equal big penis (at least in my opinion)

Hey I was wondering “Invisible” was talking about volume. I guess volume can be a good way to measure gains but isn’t surface area more practical. I mean a woman doesn’t feel the inside of your erection when your having sex only the outer surface area. So wouldn’t surface area be a better scale for growth? I have read many talking about volume and I have yet to read someone bring up surface area. Maybe I missed it. What would be the formula for the surface area? Just length times girth, I’m imagining a piece of paper rolled into a cylinder (penis shape). Obviously girth varies along the shaft, so it wouldn’t be exact but could give a rough estimate.

The volume will contribute to how “full” a woman feels, whereas surface area will measure how much of her is covered. Both give different views of growth. I think most women will respond more to that feeling of fullness since nerves aren’t uniformly spaced out inside her. Regardless, let’s take a look at surface area.

The formula for surface area will depend on how we model the penis. One simple way would be to treat it entirely as a cylinder. Another, more realistic, way would be to treat only the shaft as a cylinder and the glans as a hemispherical cap.

Cylinder Method

The formula for the surface area, S, would be S = G*L + G^2/(4*pi) or about S = G*L + G^2 / 12.56. The first component of G*L is the surface area on the side of the penis. The second component of G^2/(4*pi) is the surface area of the end of the cylinder, corresponding to the front surface of the head. The argument could be made that only the surface on the sides should contribute and not the area of the face. If you agree with this view, then just drop this second component from the formula.

Cylinder with Hemispherical Cap Method

The formula here will be S = G*B + G^2 / (2*pi) or about S = G*B + G^2 / 6.28 where B is the length of the shaft (this does not include the glans). We are assuming that the glans has the same radius as the shaft (homework exercise: generalize this formula so this restriction isn't necessary).

If we look at the latter formula, we see the important role played again by girth even in the case of surface area.

Haha. Ha.

Anyway.. surface and volume are correlated.

Oh I wasn’t saying girth was not important, I can and do see how as far as volume and surface area it is more important than length. As far as thread topic goes I wouldn’t know whether or not girth is (or by how much) a determining factor in whether or not a woman considers you big. As it has been stated a thousand times before girls are really bad at estimating size, so it seems.

I got some stories re-guarding penis size you might be interested in hearing, however lame they may be. It seems everyone chips in to the whole “one time a girl said this about penis size.blah.blah.blah”.

I remember asking a girl I went on a few dates with if she thought bigger was better, she said yes. Then I asked her what to her is big, she replied 6.5 in. She was model thin and about 5’6” and 110lbs and has a kid. Whether or not she knew what 6.5 in actual was, who knows. My guess from knowing her was that she had a good idea of how big that was.

Oh by the way I never slept with any of these women, none of the have seen my penis.

I remember asking my ex girlfriend lots of size questions. Probably thought I was a freak for it too. This girl was about 5’5” and 125lbs, gym rat really shapely body, no kids. Anyways when I told her my size (6.25NBEL/6.75BPEL * 5.375EG at the time) she thought that was big. Whether or not she was being truthful I don’t know. To help her understand the size I measured her wrist in front of her which was the same size as me and her response was “Holy Shit”. I once even made a cylinder out of paper and showed it to her she seemed to think it was big. Actually when I did this she was standing, then she squatted ever so slightly and placed the paper cylinder down by her crotch as if to see if it would fit. Once she brought up the issue out of the blue when I was using hand grippers and said that the girth of the coiled spring was perfect, it was only about 4in. In circumference. I asked her about length and she said that about 5in. Was perfect. All this after she knew I was bigger than that.

Another girl a good friend of mine, one kid, about 5’6” and 115 lbs, in good shape works out sometimes. I asked her to estimate the size of a disani water bottle she said about 5in tall and about 4.5 in around. It was actually 8in tall and 8in around. Hows that for size estimation! That’s discouraging in, she estimated in the wrong direction. She was laughing the whole time cause she knew what I was trying to do. I told her the average size was in the 5in range and she said “I don’t think that’s the average”. For some reason she was uncomfortable talking about it. When I asked her if bigger was better she said sometimes. Out of the two partners she had she said the one with the smaller unit was the better lover.

What’s what?

A big dick isn’t only about length!!

When a female says you have a big cock, she often is referring to girth also.
6x6 may not be long, but it definitely isn’t small.

That’s a fireplug of a cock, so be proud of what you were blessed to be born with.

I think your gf knows better then you do, she knows how it feels and you dont.

Both 6x6 and 6.35 x5.8 are about 17 ci which is big

Yes, most definitely, big girth does matter.

it took me a while to realize that I was blessed with excessive girth when I was still (unrealistically) paranoid about length. I had absolutely no idea…

Pre-PE, I had a true “square dick” at 5.6” x 5.6”. There were some clues that I had more than I realized…

+ At a nudist camp intro meeting, an average-looking mom-type couldn’t keep herself from stealing glances at my goods. It was very entertaining watching her.

+ I flashed my mostly flaccid meat at a college female friend of mine on my last day at my job. I later learned that her report to her girlfriends was, “It was big.”

+ At other nudist resorts, I got a few admirable glances from different women. One of these was with me trying to hide an accidental woody — she had a pleased expression that seemed to be saying, “I approve of THAT!”

Post-PE gains…

+ My wife gasping and busting out a deep throaty laugh when she caught sight of my 7+” x 6” hard-on bulging under my jeans and along a good length of my leg. Ah, thank the gods for boxers.

+ Now I *do* realize that these women were getting paid, but… A couple of strippers were very adoring over my rock hard shaft that thrust out along my left leg. One whispered into my ear, “I bet that has allowed you to have lots of fun, huh?” “No”, told her, “I’ve been too clueless.” She replied, “Ooh, that’s a shame.” At the end of a private dance in a back area, I whipped out and waved my mostly erect wanker at another of these strippers and then tucked it away before a bouncer peered in. She shot back “I would have sucked that cock.” Later on, I realized that she probably meant “… had you left it out.” Live and learn.

+ Recently, I flashed a female running friend of mine during an isolated stretch of trail. This was in payback and in escalation from a few bra flashes she’s given me in the past. Despite shrinkage from running, “You’re big!” was still her instantaneous exclamation.

Well, I could be wrong about this. I may need more input on this. I’ll get back to you…

-n

^^ dam you flash alot :chuckle: :flash:

6” inchs of girth and length is more then 8.5” inches of length and only 5” inch girth

Volume wise, sure. But tapping that cul-de-sac requires SOME length(depending on the girl.)

I won’t lie, I would trade an inch of length for an inch of girth(currently at 8.25 bpel/5.25 mseg.)

Also, not ALL girls like being prodded with a long cock.

But some do:)

Tell you what, we’ll trade. You can take my 7”x4” measurements and I’ll take your 6.35”x5.8” measurements and we’ll call it good, yes? :)

Though most girls prefer girth, like us, they mention length to indicate overall size of penis. A 7” length is easier to visualize than a 6” girth. Nonetheless, for girth qualitative indicator such as, “thin”, “thick” or “fat” is used and rarely the dimension.

there is a good correlation between length and girth too.