Busted!

It seems my hanging days are temporarily suspended.

I had my wench, wraps, weights all laid out ready to begin a session and BAM! In walks the wife!!

BUSTED! with my pants around my ankles, literally!

I somehow managed to pull my pants up part of the way, but she could still see skin!

Then she walked around my desk and sees all my hanging gear all laid out on the chair next to me!!

I thought “How am I going to get out of this one?!?!”.

“Whats all this stuff?” she asks.

I replied “Oh, its for my knee”

“What do you do with it?”

“I wrap it around my knee and then hang the weights off it. It applies pressure to the ligaments” (I’ve got a bad knee and I wasn’t totally lying!)

“Really? Does it help?”

“Some days yes, some days no. It depends really.”

She then tried to wrap it around HER leg and of course it doesn’t go anywhere near around her leg!!

So she says ” How does it fit you if it doesn’t fit me?”

I though, holy shit, I’m screwed!!

Luckily, I attached my weight with a piece of double sided Velcro fashioned into a loop off the webbing, so I just grabbed the wench off her, pulled off the loop of velcro and then used it to fix it around my leg. It worked!!

I never get embarrassed normally, but she can tell that I am squirming like a cat on a hot tin roof so she asks “Whats wrong?”

“Oh, nothing, I’m just a bit embarrassed” I said.

“Why?”

“I just feel like an idiot trying this thing out from the Internet!” I replied.

“Don’t be embarrassed honey, thanks OK”

And then she says as shes walking out” I just thought when I saw all that stuff and you had your pants down that you hang it off your dick or something!!”

I just laughed and Thank God, she just kept on walking!!

Dude, maybe you should tell the wife. Stand up for yourself and let her know why you want to do these things. Communication is key with your significant other.

It was scary at first telling my wife, and it took the better part of a week to work it out, but now I am very glad i did.

Just ask yourself, do you want her to keep secrets from you that might potential hurt you feelings?

Andrew,

>” I just thought when I saw all that stuff and you had your pants down that you hang it off your dick or something!!”
I just laughed and Thank God, she just kept on walking!!<

Dude, she knows.

SS4

Uh, yea… she knows.

I think your right guys!

I’ve just got to plan an angle of attack. I think I might send her over here to Thunder’s.

Maybe start with quoting the site? She might be a little shocked taking it all in at once.

Panhcrd,

I’ve been thinking about it and really, I don’t know what I’m that worried about!

We have always had excellent communication and always respected the others wishes, even if we didn’t agree 100%.

Besides, there is no way that she cannot understand why I’m doing it….she had a boob job not that long ago so she could feel better about herself.

Well thats why I’m here at Thunder’s!

Whats the worst that can happen? :rolling: I can handle that!

I’m going to tell her tonight in bed. I mean she is having more intense orgasms lately (coinciding with my early gains), so she is enjoying the fruits of my labour. She might as well know whats going on. At least that way I don’t have to tip toe around the house anymore and she’ll give me more space to PE.

Well thats the theory, I will tell you what happens!

What we really need is a “send this page to a friend” button, comes with a funky e-card and a link to your chosen thread.

528

Andrew:

Sounds like its the right time to tell, good luck :) .

Just one point though: She may be bothered that you lied about what you were doing. Perhaps explain you were taken in by shock and that you were going to tell her, but earlier when she walked in wasn’t exactly the right time.

I only thought of this because my girlfriend would be more annoyed that I lied about what I was doing, rather than PE itself.

Don’t tell her that you are doing it just for her though. She’ll either say that she’s happy with you and want you to stop, or she’ll feel like you have to do it to fill her cave.

Just say that you are doing it for your own self-confidence and esteem and that there will be an added bonus for her! I don’t think most girls would have a problem with that. Just say that it’s the same as going to the gym (but don’t mention the boob job unless she’s really comfortable about the subject) and you want to improve your body.

If she has any concerns (like the potential dangers), show her to Thunder’s and get her ask us. You never know, we might get a new female contributor! When I (finally) tell my G/F about PE (and I will) I want to try to get her to join us, I think it’ll be good for her to know what I get up to here and what I discuss. It’ll hopefully show I’m honest with her.

Good luck.

LB

Good for you bro, it’s a lot better that way.

As someone said, remember to say that it is for you and your self esteem. I believe she will come to accept it, even if she is hesitant at first.

So, let her laugh now. She wont be laughing later :)

I told my wife early on. She was skeptical at first (as was I) but she’s loving it now and is now in my cheering section and gives me all the privacy I need. Its great.

Mug

Andrew69,

Just tell her mate and also tell her that you are not the only one hanging. Tell her there a millions of us guys doing it around the world. Even tell her there is one guy across the Nullabor doing it right now as he typed this.

GMJ

Shit, I almost peed my pants when I read the opening post! :D

Reminds me of when I do my manual stretching at work and somebody walks in… I manage to pull up my pants and the rice sock is for my sore shoulder. ;)

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Yeah, she definitely knows and sounds like she’s taking it really good. I’d tell her if I were you. There’s nothing special about it. “Honey, I’d like to talk to you about something…” and remember; for you, not for her.

Millions? I certainly hope not, I don’t wish to become below average again to a bunch of insane jelqers.