Chode Chart

You have probably already done this, but instead of looking down at your erection to evaluate the size, look at it in a mirror to get a side view. You get a lot better perspective that way.

4.2 and 8.6

Doesn’t help in my case. I’ve also got fairly big thighs, so in a way it makes it look even smaller.

The funny part is I know a lot of it is perception, as I can take a ruler, mark it down at around 6.5” (my NBPEL) and look at that in the mirror, and it sort of looks big and definitely not small. I guess this is the same way how 8” looks damn big looking at objects or at a plain ruler, but when measuring my BPEL, it doesn’t look all that much bigger/impressive to me, esp since I’m only 0.5” away from it now. Pretty sure the same thing will happen with 9” if I am ever lucky enough to hit 8.5” BPEL some day.

So you are doomed to PE a 10 inch dick OR do Thigh reduction surgery :D .
Alternativly you could not move, under caloric restricion, for some weeks or months leaving your legs like two sticks.

Think I’ll go with option number 1…just need to keep stretching. lol

Or you could try harder to connect your perception to reality. Maybe best thing to do is reject your faulty "perceptions" and accept the reality that you have a PORNO COCK!

Make if bigger if you want for sure. Who here does not want to maximize their cock size? I for sure do.

Not meaning to be hard on you, I just worry you are going to go too deep down the path of Small Penis Body Dysmorphic Disorder.

Bohm put together some good links on that here;

Small penis (Body Dysmorphic) disorder

I’m also gonna quote from an article by a sex therapist, it isn’t on the internet anymore. The part I’m gonna quote deals with

- distorted self-perception
- damage done by size-anxiety

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What’s the average penis size?
by Dr. Petra Boynton
http://www.mans ized.co.uk/answ … -penis-size/a15 (article no longer on the net)

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Men get penis hang ups since they usually only see other penises in the changing rooms or toilets - where they view their dick downwards and everyone else’s front or side on making other guys seem bigger. Or they compare themselves with porn stars, where the actors are specifically chosen for their size - and filmed from flattering angles.

That’s not to say that size worries don’t do a lot of damage to many men. Worrying about your penis can lead to relationship problems, avoiding sex or relationships, erectile dysfunction (not being able to get it up) or premature ejaculation (when you come too soon).

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It’s common for men to have an occasional worry about their penis size - after seeing a bigger guy at the gym, following a negative comment from an ex-partner, or perhaps after reading somewhere you should have a bigger dick. Some gay men also report being under pressure to be big.

Research indicates it’s more common for younger or sexually inexperienced men to have size worries and, with time, these worries reduce. However, for some men it continues to be a problem throughout life.

Guys should start challenging a society that makes them feel they’re only a sexually attractive and functioning person if they have a slightly longer knob.

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I don’t think people with body dysmorphic disorder ever really do see things differently…they just learn to accept what they see themselves is flawed and to not be bothered by it as much. In my case I think I look small at times, but I know I’m not small…if that makes sense. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not worried about my size (well maybe my girth a little), but I’ll still try to gain whatever I can gain, since I want to be the biggest I can be…unless I somehow hit a size that girls try to stop me. Plus if I can hit 8.25x5.5 or bigger, I’ll be confident enough should a girl ever make a ‘small’ comment, I’ll just be able to laugh and call a psychiatrist for them, not me. lol

Still, like the information posted says, not having much experience also means no real comments to back up average, big, or small…so the only basis is these forms and stats from studies. In a way it is similar to when I used to work out more…to me my arms still looked skinny, but I would get comments fairly often I must work out a lot to be that big. Funny how perception differs from one person to the next. I think this is why I always look at size studies and the like, as it serves as more ‘proof’ what average really is, and while eyes can lie rulers cannot.

Haha I wish this worked… between genetics and lifting my 26” thighs don’t do me any good in this regard XD

You guys should be proud of your legs. Biggish quads, hams, and calves here too. Seems like lots of women take pretty positive notice of that.

Okay, STOP THE MADNESS, get out your measursing sticks and tape, believe me, I’m smaller than when I started! "Looking in the mirror” lol unless I’m clamping! Lol :D