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It comes from the ubiquitous “does size matter” topic and from our relationships with our mothers, our need to satisfy/please them from our childhood.
Reading Freud isn’t going to help with self acceptance. Heck it won’t help for any other matter either. :)
Instead of trying to be better then the next man, just be the best you can be. This is what I do and I’m finding it helps, occasionally I have a lapse and start comparing myself to others but then I remember there’s more than six billion others out there and there’s something I can do that perhaps half of them can’t.You sound really frustrated and if rambling here helps then go right ahead! I don’t know about anyone else but I’ll be here to listen.
Thanks! I agree that it would be pointless to try to be better than I could ever be (and playing guitar is probably not what I should be doing, maybe I should be a scientist since I’ve always been interested in physics and chemistry), but I haven’t even max’ed out my potential. With guitar I just need lots of practice and some guidance, but every failure discourages me :/ Some day I will either become better or quit it :)
And just read the lyrics to Better Than - feels just like my situation. In pursuit of perfection I am wasting the best years of my life, when everybody is out having fun and being careless for several years I am dwelling on my flaws. I don’t even know how they do it! It seems that I can never just let go and socialize properly. I might go see “yes man” and see how it worked out for Jim Carrey and try the same tactics. I must confess that I haven’t been to a nightclub for about 6 years D:
Hang in there mikebrahmin, cause you’re good enough, you’re smart enough, and dog gonnit people like you!!
Thanks, will do, I will pull through it and make something of myself :)
I didn’t actually read your whole post, just the top part about your thoughts and stuff.I have similar issues which I won’t go into which basically all come back to irrational thoughts.. Thinking there’s something wrong with me when there actually isn’t. I really really recommend you go see a psychologist. I see one regularly, and it really really helps just to talk to someone who understand how I think and why I think like I think.. Then explaining it and reassuring me that there’s nothing wrong with me. I really like my guy, hopefully there’s someone as good near you.
I tried a local psychological society database of psychologists (or something like that, I think they have most of them listed) and found a few that I liked and picked the ones that deal with my array of problems. I just have to make an appointment (and figure out how to afford it :) ), but it feels like a big step. Besides, I have somebody visiting me, so my routines are already off, and I wouldn’t want to explain that I am visiting a psychologist and why I’m doing it. I still haven’t decided though which one I should visit (the cheapest one? Heheh), or if I should try the free counseling sessions we have at campus. I hope to find somebody who could also offer some advice and guidance and tell me which doctors I should visit to fix my speech and what else I might need.
Starting (Aug 2008): BPEL 5.5 x 4.50, BPSFL 6
Current post-workout (May 2009): BPEL 6.5 x 4.55, BPSFL 7, NBPEL 5 :( Weird string girth measurements: MSG 4.75, BG 5.25
Wonder if those are gains or if I just learned to push the ruler into the fat pad :/
Buuuuuuuuurn!
Buuuuuuuuurn!
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Thanks! I agree that it would be pointless to try to be better than I could ever be (and playing guitar is probably not what I should be doing, maybe I should be a scientist since I’ve always been interested in physics and chemistry), but I haven’t even max’ed out my potential. With guitar I just need lots of practice and some guidance, but every failure discourages me :/ Some day I will either become better or quit it :)And just read the lyrics to Better Than - feels just like my situation. In pursuit of perfection I am wasting the best years of my life, when everybody is out having fun and being careless for several years I am dwelling on my flaws. I don’t even know how they do it! It seems that I can never just let go and socialize properly. I might go see “yes man” and see how it worked out for Jim Carrey and try the same tactics. I must confess that I haven’t been to a nightclub for about 6 years D:
Thanks, will do, I will pull through it and make something of myself :)
I tried a local psychological society database of psychologists (or something like that, I think they have most of them listed) and found a few that I liked and picked the ones that deal with my array of problems. I just have to make an appointment (and figure out how to afford it :) ), but it feels like a big step. Besides, I have somebody visiting me, so my routines are already off, and I wouldn’t want to explain that I am visiting a psychologist and why I’m doing it. I still haven’t decided though which one I should visit (the cheapest one? Heheh), or if I should try the free counseling sessions we have at campus. I hope to find somebody who could also offer some advice and guidance and tell me which doctors I should visit to fix my speech and what else I might need.
I’m lucky I found my guy. I went to him originally for career counseling, then happened to get into all this other stuff. He’s just a really really nice guy, very understanding and had a good sense of humour.
Anyway, good luck finding a good one.
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Who exactly burned who? I don’t see anything.
Just reply:
Yeah well you’re a big c*nt!
LOL
In college I had a teacher whom made each student go to the school shrink as part of our psychology class. So the day before I decided to fuck with the shrink. So I did some research and conjured up a few issues which really got the shrink interested. I fucked with the shrink so much that my psychology teacher had to tell me to stop fucking with him. So the second time I went to the shrink I had to tell him how it was all bullshit so he didn’t go overboard on the psycho babel.
Ha!
Just reply:Yeah well you’re a big c*nt!
LOL
Ha-HAAAA!
Going for 6 inches of girth, wish me luck.
My wake up call was my senior year in high school with a discussion about my prom dates. I had three of them to choose from but my friends girl was there helping my decide. Then the topic of my ex came up from here to see what I would say and the fact of hearing her name upsets me. She had been talking to her in a class they had together and my ex said that I didn’t have enough cock to do certain positions. This is coming from a girl was a virgin and couldn’t take my cock he first 6 attempts we tried having sex. Not to mention she has even squirted on me during sex, so I have been searching for anyway possible to enlarge myself instead of stooping down to her level and arguing with her. But When I reach my goal of 7.5 inches or higher, Ill just pull my pants down and tell that this sure wasn’t enough for someone who can’t take a 5 inch cock.
Never had the “is it in yet” comment. But, one of the worst lays I’ve ever had was so loose, I could barely feel her. (and I’m 5.5” in girth) She just laid there as if nothing was happening. Earlier that same night, I asked my dad, who has 8” or so, (the lucky fucker), if he had a condom, he said “you need a condom for your little six incher?” Maybe that one stuck with me in my subconscious.
** by the way, she got pregnant that night.
My wife kegels, so it’s as tight as she wants it to be, but I still want a bigger tool anyway. All of these women talking shit about the size of a dude’s junk should kegel and do their half of the fucking equation.
Paraphrased: It is not the critic who counts: The credit belongs to the man in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, who, at the best, knows the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat.
Never had the “is it in yet” comment. But, one of the worst lays I’ve ever had was so loose, I could barely feel her. (and I’m 5.5” in girth) She just laid there as if nothing was happening. Earlier that same night, I asked my dad, who has 8” or so, (the lucky fucker), if he had a condom, he said “you need a condom for your little six incher?” Maybe that one stuck with me in my subconscious.** by the way, she got pregnant that night.
My wife kegels, so it’s as tight as she wants it to be, but I still want a bigger tool anyway. All of these women talking shit about the size of a dude’s junk should kegel and do their half of the fucking equation.
Dude, that’s rough you dad dissed your dick that sucks. But you guys sound like you have a friend kind of relationship going on because you even talk about dick size, so maybe he was trying to be funny.
I haven't failed, I've found 10,000 ways that don't work. Thomas Edison (1847-1931)
My wake up call was my senior year in high school with a discussion about my prom dates. I had three of them to choose from but my friends girl was there helping my decide. Then the topic of my ex came up from here to see what I would say and the fact of hearing her name upsets me. She had been talking to her in a class they had together and my ex said that I didn’t have enough cock to do certain positions. This is coming from a girl was a virgin and couldn’t take my cock he first 6 attempts we tried having sex. Not to mention she has even squirted on me during sex, so I have been searching for anyway possible to enlarge myself instead of stooping down to her level and arguing with her. But When I reach my goal of 7.5 inches or higher, Ill just pull my pants down and tell that this sure wasn’t enough for someone who can’t take a 5 inch cock.
Just use it for PE motivation bro, than bang one of her friends:)
I haven't failed, I've found 10,000 ways that don't work. Thomas Edison (1847-1931)
Girls can be pretty heartless. My 1st real girlfriend in a fit of rage mentioned “my small penis” and then after I broke it off with her a girl I messed around with jokingly said I had a small one.These things bothered me but their not what really got to me. My current girlfriend has had sex with 1 guy before me and I found an old conversation where she was talking about how big his was with another person and how she couldn’t take it. I don’t know why but there is no worse pain I have ever experienced than loving a girl and feeling like I can never make her feel the way that other guy did. I wish all of you the best luck in your pe journey, I don’t think anyone should have to feel so miserable.
<If you do not change direction, you may end up where you are headed>
Dude, that’s rough you dad dissed your dick that sucks. But you guys sound like you have a friend kind of relationship going on because you even talk about dick size, so maybe he was trying to be funny.
:) Unfortunately, no, we do not have that kind of relationship. The dumbass was drunk, and probably didn’t think twice about it. I’m not sweating it though, cause he’s on his fourth wife, and was cheated on by the first three. So, maybe it takes more than a big dick to keep a woman. (I’m going on 14 years with my only wife, and I’ve got a meager 7.1 x 5.5) tongue in cheek.
I’m only guessing about his dick size, cause flaccid, I remember it to hang pretty low. (etched in my brain forever)
** the lame ass lay miscarried by the grace of God, Allah, Budhha or whoever the fuck
Paraphrased: It is not the critic who counts: The credit belongs to the man in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, who, at the best, knows the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat.
Just use it for PE motivation bro, than bang one of her friends:)
That more than enough motivation for me damn it and I will be glad to see her regret what she did to me and besides I’m tired of always subconsciously thinking I’m too small when I measured at 6.45 inches fully erect yesterday and began training for my goal of 7.5 or longer.