Is It In Yet????

Especially as there seems to be evidence from some studies that there is a very slight tendency for gays to actually be slightly better endowed, on average.
This could actually be related to hormone exposure in the Uterus.

BTW, folks, there are many statements about size on Joyclub.de, a very well-maintained German swinger’s forum with about 1.9m Members and about 300’000 daily logins.
Its a lot of couples, but also many singles, men and women alike.

Of this huge membership base, there are only 4000 members (2% of members or 13% of highly active, i.e. highly sexed members) in the Subgroup “Big Dicks” (couples, men and women), where size queens (single and in relations) meet with their objects of desire…

Also, there was a huge discussion about size when the recent global “meta-study” came out (13cm average), and you had all sorts of remarks -
from absolute size queens/fanatics to those who actually prefer a medium size much better.

=>>> So much about women’s obsessions with big dicks, folks. Look at the stats, and get real!!

Is there a minimum size to be part of the sub-group BigSchlong?

Thanks Didntwanto! I am actually not sure if I started out at 4.8 since I didn’t measure initially, that was my best guess as to where I was, I didn’t measure my girth until I was like 5.2 I think. Also, I need to stop being a pussy and measure my girth again, but I m scared that my girth might have gotten smaller than 5.4, or maybe it is the length gains I have made that make it appear that way.

I have a 4.9 inch girth:P How should i feel about it?? Dont worry,I wish I was 5.2.

Women lie all the time.. They lie even to each other.man.that’ s hilarious.. If any of us has a bick dick probably your woman will tell you it’ s average.. You know.no big deal.. I had bigger.. I have a friend who has a 8.5 cock and massive girth.. He is 5.6 tall. And skinny. Imagine how his dick looks on him. Get this.his new girlfriend said: Ιt’s pretty big but I had bigger.. Yeah right!! As for what made me start PE I would say that I have a lot of good female friends who they always say that the ideal cock size is about 7.0 inches and fat. I am 6.2 inches NBPEL and 5.4 fat, so.. Plus I like trying new things

Haha. Glad you noticed. Shes trying to keep his confidence down.

Now imagine you PEing for years and more years, gaining, elevating you confidence sky-high and then have to deal with this bullshit. That’s why I’m focusing my PE session to myself, not for a women (they are not all the same of course, but I’m very unlucky guy, will land sooner or later again on these piece of shit). Trying to PE for the fun, for pleasure. Been clamping for a while and really enjoying what is felt, the pressure inside. Planing to try pump again since now I had help from Pumpbra.

Does anyone really believe that a group of women talking about cock size is going to admit they could only pull a guy with half of what their friends have had?? It’s no different to fishing, the one’s that get away are always the biggest.

I don’t think women try to keep our confidence down, what’s in it for them? A guy who thinks he is not a good lover?

Women that I’ve been with, tried to boost my confidence all the time and tried to avoid the answer to the question : “What’s the biggest shlong you’ve got?”. Only when I insist they open themselves and start talking openly.

The sad truth -for me- it is that many of them had a big cock in their past, one or more, I always have a question on my lips, but I never ask it “So, if your ex had a 8+ inch cock, what am I supposed to do with my little thingy to you?? Tickle the pussy?” :(

Some feel bad if they perceive themselves as being inadequate but look at the other side of the coin. For example, imagine she says, “John, I’m breaking up with you. I like having sex, but your dick is too big. I just can’t take it anymore”. How would that make you feel? Same result-bad relationship. Or, is that the basis of a relationship at all? It’s all in the mind as it is said.

That is not the basis of a normal relationship, I agree.

Still, if you have a big one it’s not necessary to put it all in, if it hurts, but if you have a small one, there’s nothing you can do.

Some keep folks down its done for control. Power. So yes big cocks have been told they are. “Ok” for this reason.

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Now imagine you PEing for years and more years, gaining, elevating you confidence sky-high and then have to deal with this bullshit. That’s why I’m focusing my PE session to myself, not for a women (they are not all the same of course, but I’m very unlucky guy, will land sooner or later again on these piece of shit). Trying to PE for the fun, for pleasure. Been clamping for a while and really enjoying what is felt, the pressure inside. Planing to try pump again since now I had help from Pumpbr

Right on!

Women lie all the time.. Always keep that in mind.ALWAYS. It’s their nature. Cunning little creatures.Now, I do not want to be misunderstood. I love women. All women. Actually I can’t live with out them. Who can? Considering that all of them are insecure by nature, they all will probably lie if they find a guy who has a big dick and if it happens also to be a great lover they will lie about it even more. Women always try not to boost any confidence in you in that matter.. Which is funny because during sex with a big guy they will make quotes like ” oh baby, it’s so big, give it to me NOW! " Or ” I can’t take it all baby ooooh ! ” Which are pretty spontaneous so probably true and if it happens to ask them, say at breakfast , ” hey baby, how did you like my dick” they will probably say ” I love it” and just where you are about to smile they will continue saying something like “.I had bigger though” or ” ok, don’t get crazy.it’s nice”. They will never say though that they had a better lover than you! Like I said.. Cunning little creatures.. Throw a bone to the dog.” baby you are the best I ‘ve ever had”” but no.no.. Your penis is not the biggest I’ve ever had.. So what if it is 9 inches? I had bigger.. Get the point? :-)

There’s no biological incentive for a woman to stroke your ego. However, if you let your confidence be tampered with over your dick’s size, the woman is less likely to want offspring with you.

Going deeper (heh, pun) it’s to do with terror management theory. It’s not uncommon to, at one point in your life, come to face some sort of existential crisis. Humans seek to remedy this through immortalizing themselves. Men are better at manipulating the world around them; we’ve built civilization, wonders of engineering and architecture. Compare the amount of men remembered by their feats of strength or wisdom compared to the amount of women for the same. Women, on the other hand, can maintain this simply by having children and it’s in their and our species’ best interest to attain the best genetic material. The problem is that selection of genetic stock does often not correlate with the needs of a civilization.

Neither women nor men are to blame for this. But it helps to keep this in the back of your mind when interacting with either sex.