Is It In Yet????

Dead on.

This guy could have been packing an 8 incher and the bitch would have said the same thing. It’s sad to read that those words in that context had such an effect.

Talking about wake up calls. I haven’t had one. I’m a lot smaller than most guys on here at about 5.75 NBPEL X 5 Girth and have never felt like I’ve had any issues with women at all or feel like I’ve been judged.

The reason for wanting to do this is simply ego. When I watch porn and see a big dick stretching a pussy, I want to be able to look down at my dick in a pussy and see it just like that. And I don’t exactly know why because it’s quite difficult to get it in a lot of pussies as it is.

I can’t recall what led up to the comment, but one young girl told me she had been with a large fellow and didn’t like it. Said it hurt. So following with my 6.5 ‘er never elicited any negative comment. She always came back for more. In retrospect, I guess I’ll take that as positive reinforcement.

You are bigger then most who start PE. You are on the higher end of the average range.

Yeah I’m in the UK too firegoat!

Its true, I did let the comment slide as much as I could, mainly because I knew I wasn’t in the “small” range, I was perfectly above average.

But, I was also going through a pretty tough time suffering with mild depression, I had injured myself bodybuilding, and I knew it would end my future goals as a bodybuilder, so I was in a pretty dark place. I think she knew any sort of negative comment about anything would’ve affected me pretty badly, she most probably could’ve said “there’s less than 2000 tigers left in the wild” and I would’ve broke down!

I did get over the hit of the comment after some time, and I think it really was a wholly mental thing with me, it was a new negative comment in my world of rubbish at the time, and being a bodybuilder, the whole body dysmorphia is real, nothing is ever good enough, never big enough, never muscular enough, but you learn to live within your means. But in the 2 years I took off from everything, I started to feel better about myself, and when I got back on the scene, I met some lovely girls who made me feel good about myself. As I’m actually a nice gentleman to women, it was nice to have all the love and feelings reciprocated by these women!

You learn the type of girls to avoid, mainly psychos, which I have avoided since! Nasty girls are not worth the time!

I’m now happy with what I got, and so is my girlfriend, but I just like the idea of having a hobby which can make something on me bigger! Its quite a nice release to be able to sit down and do some exercises which make you feel good!

Good mentality Bigtony. You’ll do well!

I never had an “Is it in yet?” moment. My wake up call was EQ problems which resulted in a loss of size. It’s amazing how losing an inch an length and having a floppy dick slide out of a woman while she’s on top can just crush a man’s confidence. This, I found, is a vicious circle that can be extremely difficult to beat. It really doesn’t matter how big you are. If your dick doesn’t get hard at 37 years of age (41 now), you feel crushed as a man. So far, I have gained some of my length and EQ back but, more importantly, I’ve learned to go with the flow of life and not worry about my “manhood” so much.

I can please my wife without my penis and I love it when she screams for me to stop fooling around (this, while she’s orgasming) and give it to her. Meaning my dick. She can already tell a difference and so can I. Keep working on your routines, gentlemen, and leave the past behind you.

Its hard to read all these comments about girls destroying men’s confidence like this

I hate the rebuttal that is sometimes heard from woman, saying that “its the same for woman and boob size”. Nah the penis is used to directly give pleasure to the woman from the inside.. Apples and oranges comes to mind.

My calling was a mixture of porn and woman’s comments about penis size.. One woman in particular who was dating a friend at the time. She was experienced for her age (late teens) and older than us, but kept saying how big my friend was and talking about other guys she was with who were big.. Even now she is the biggest slut I have seen to this day (gives me some piece). I actually ended up seeing the guys penis once and it was maybe a little bit longer than mine but a bit thicker, so it was always in my mind to be that size to get girls to like it.. Seen her years later with another friend and in a 20 minute conversation she manged to bring up penis size again..

So a few years after that , (and the porn) I would find myself looking for something that would work, more and more each time I thought to look.. And so after many shitty fake sites later I found the light house in the storm that is thundersplace.. That must have been 6 years ago.. Been on and off but after gaining some, losing some (due to ceasing PE + surgery) and gaining some again I now have gained +1.5 inches in length and at the very least +0.5 in girth

Now I can rest easy knowing I’m a good bit bigger than the guy she was with.. Its awesome.

I saw her one day at a shopping center more recently. Given this was years later and I’m bigger in everyway since she last saw me as a teen, and I could tell she wanted to have sex by how she spoke to me and looked at me.. But I thought NAAAAAAAHHH you have many vinerial diseases bye bye

No need for a woman or man to destroy a guy’s confidence in his penis, I did it to myself. It was not anything anyone really did to me, I gave myself a complex. I am going to try to make this story brief. Of course, it started as a boy, briefly seeing my father naked. My teenage best friend was bigger than me. My first sexual GF and I broke up, and she went out with our local bully. He was an ass, and he whipped out his what looked bigger than mine dick, and told me “this is what she is getting now!” Next, My high school girlfriend and I had been sexually active for two years, I had just graduated and she was now a senior, and she was my third GF that I had been sexually active with. I was eves dropping on her and her sister, when her sister started bragging to her about her boyfriends penis length. She said they were playing with the ruler and it was like “7 inches or more”. (10 years later, I found out her sister was jealous of me and had been giving her sister all kinds of grief about me). Oh, it gets worse, the next month, she broke up with me and started dating a football stud, ( I was heart broken) and then a few weeks later, I saw something I really didn’t need to see. I went over to see my grandparents unannounced, I was in the living room and my grandfather did not know I was there. He came out of the shower showing off, and came into the living room with what looked like a foot long hard on. (Thinking back, he was 9+” if he was an inch! And now I understand why my grandmother put up with him lol). So a few more weeks go by, and a girl friend (Platonic) starts bragging about her new boyfriend being hung like a horse in front of her friends, Well, these are the memories, I was 18 then, I moved away, pretty much destroyed mentally, and suddenly found myself impotent. I could not get any type of erection no matter how hard I tried, for over two years. For five years I was without a GF, but I moved on, got my life together, met a wonderful cougar who made me feel special, (then, as usual, dumped me 6 months later). But, I always blamed my penis size as a major factor in almost every relationship failure in my life. I look back now, and realize all the self inflicted torture I had created in MY OWN MIND. I wish wish wish there was a place like Thunders 30 years ago. You younger guys here have it made!

Nice read LittleDingy.

It would have been an easier read if it was split into paragraphs though. Most guys can’t be bothered to wade through a thick block of text. :)

You still have learned much. Many take such stuff with them forever.
What are you doing now?

Thank you FireGoat,

I agree it would have been better to break it up, I spent about two hours fretting, trying to write it this morning, (condensing it mostly) and was late to work and did not want to leave it on the computer. I just let it rip once I got it close enough. :D

Well there are three things I want to add to my “before 18” post, some I will leave out, and a lot more after 18. My Mother inadvertently made me very conscious about my Penis at age 5. She made me an Indian outfit for thanksgiving, and I put it on and was running around naked with it on. My Dad wanted a pic of me and so I ran behind their bed, then cleared off the sheets so my dick could be in the pic.. Yes I know this is crazy, but she laughed when I did that. Well It bothered me then, and I did not understand why she was laughing, except she was laughing at my dick. :( WELL, don’t tell me now, but it bothered me enough to remember it 45 years later, go figure.

My second “best friend” told me he was “over 7 inches” That did not help, and one of my girl friends who I was not sexually active with, I went to her house to see her, and her step father was laying out asleep where I could see him, naked, with a dick that, limp, laid over his thigh. :O I got married at 25, and my ex wife left me after a year, to a guy who had a HUGE BULGE in his pants, the one time I saw him.

SO, EVERYONE has a dick bigger than mine, from what I have seen and heard at this point. How could I not have a “is it in moment?” :( I should not have dated most of the bad girls (about 35 of them) I did, but I liked sex, and got just what I deserved. I dated this chick who turned out to be an ex hooker, and her best girlfriend was crying one day, because her Boyfriend left her. She wasn’t bitching because her “provider” left her, He just came over and fucked her, but because she ” missed her “big ol dick” not upset, but CRYING for Gods sake lol :O and my GF and their other friend felt sorry for her at the time, but was actually happy Kong dick left her when they were both away from “her”. :(

My ex who has my son, well, she was another ex whore, I was PEing when I was with her, but can’t really give her credit for that, (she kept her mouth shut) that was the guys and me at work who all bought pumps and were working hard at turning our dingys fifty shades of purple lol,

I can go on and on, my life has seemed to be behind the huge penis curve, Even this past year, listening to a neighbors friend brag about how my neighbor is hung like a horse gets to me. . :( I mean, wtf, I am cursed apparently, but you have not heard the most recent.

My wife (In December), after 10 years, decided to “open up” when totally drunk (yes I ask).. Well according to her, she has been with “over 300 men”. Well that’s cool, but to find out her biggest she has ever seen, lives within a mile of us, and a few other things I didn’t want to hear.. Well what I am trying to say is, you don’t have to be personally belittled by a slut, whore, scum bitch, or what ever, to get your feelings hurt. I went out today, walking around shopping by myself., like I HAVE A BIG DICK. (Well cause I do!) I had such a different demeanor and was so proud, I could have asked for 4 phone numbers and got 3 for sure. THE WORLD IS A DIFFERENT PLACE when you are confident, The only reason my Leo ego and me is still alive and didnt get VD, is because I was scared MOST OF MY LIFE, but, I HAD NO REASON TO BE. You can’t make this shit up, nor the terrible hurt that all these things have caused me. :)

I have felt this cruel mistress a few times.. One of the last times was in my collage house and 4 of the girls had gathered in the kitchen all listening to one of them (who recently broke up with a long term bf and was meeting random guys) talking about the one night stand she just had. (I was washing my dishes so heard it all)
She was telling them how he was enormous “like the size of the tap” pointing to the sink where I was which I was washing all my dishes from. I am sure it was not that long.. I certainly hope it was thicker for the guy, but I am soooo sooo sure the more I meet woman that they can’t judge the size of anything. But this just really annoyed me and I had to go around with this thought the rest of the day and years after. On a positive note the 3 of the other girls are not like this and would much rather a nice person

Well I have not had an “is it in yet” moment, but I always felt a little small. I’m 6.2x5.2 now after some PE I did 7 years ago. Before that about 6x5. Anyway I know that’s not small but comparing myself to guys in porn, yeah I know, I felt if it was bigger I can satisfy a woman better. But over the years I worked on technique and fucking as passionately a possible. My sex life has never been better. I’ve given a only handful of vaginal orgasms with my penis so I wanted a bigger one to hopefully get past the cervix and really please the women. Obviously I’m not there yet since I just started PE again. But using my finger and my dick, I make most women cum 3-4 times during sex. So it doesn’t need to be huge to please women. I’ve heard from many without me asking that I’m the best they’ve ever had. But probably not the biggest. Being big helps, but learning how to have passionate sex with good foreplay and only worry about pleasing the woman. I don’t think about myself at all during sex. I guarantee when you feel that pussy flutter during orgasm, it’s gonna make you want to blow. So now I’m on to a 7x5.5 dick just to see if I find women get more pleasure. But even if they don’t I know I’m doing a great job.

I never went through this “Is it in yet?” situation because I had sex a very few times (two ladies only, one of them, also the first time, It happened with a professional). In my first time, at 25 years old, I had everything to happen the worst, the “Is it in yet?”, because not only was a professional, with around 50 years old, with kids and because I was so nervous, my EQ started and remained around 6 (from 1 to 10 scale). Lucky it was enough to have the intercourse. Back them I used to porn and masturbate alot so my stamina used to be sky high. Manage to stay “strong” for about 30 minutes.

This meeting drives me into PE, because my goal was to provide to this lady one unbelievable night (lol). When I finished, I saw in her face that was no big deal. That bother me for a week, got really sad and start to search about enlargement. Landed here on Thunders and on the competition, but stick here.

Second lady wasn’t professional, but aswell with around 50 years old, 2 kids. She liked but still my EGO is saying: Its not enough (size-wise). But this lady, it was all about feet fetish, we’re both fetishist. Sex is second option.

Has plenty of water to go through under the bridge, alot to be changed and the most important is to become a better person. Need to drop the idea that I’m starting my PE carrer at advanced age (I think that 26 years old is too late).

2 cents.