I got my wake up call about 12-13 years ago when I was 20.
I had a girl trying to get my attention for a few months at college, she was a friend of friends in different classes so I had never seen her before, but she was hot, so I thought why not take her out etc. We got on pretty well, she was half french, and had a bit of a weird temperament.
So we had been together a while and she joined my gym with me, it was all going well, then she disappeared off the radar for a whole month, I couldn’t contact her, her mum wouldn’t let me talk to her, so I just left it for a while.
I found out after about a month that she had become anorexic and pretty suicidal, so I tried my best to be understanding etc, then she told me that in that month we was apart she had slept with 2 guys from my gym, guys I didn’t really know, but hated them after I found that out!
Anyway, she proceeded to tell me how the sex was, one guy had a small penis and the condom kept falling off, so I wasn’t too fussed, but the other guy was pretty well built, and she said she had sex with him twice that night.
I was pretty devastated, but I had never had any hang ups about my own penis.
Then about 3 years down the line, I decided to break it off as it seemed she just kept cheating on me. I never realised how much of a doormat I was being and allowing her to do it, but I got some guts and told her it was over. That was when she said those dreaded words:
“You got a small dick anyway”.
I walked away and pretty much became a hermit, I had never ever questioned my own stature in that area, I was always happy and confident, never worried about my penis, but those few words, said once in my lifetime, destroyed me to the core.
I became a bit introverted, and I decided to not have sex or even meet a girl/girls until I really needed to. So I abstained from any sort of sexual activity for 2 years.
I measured my penis there and then and found I was above average, which I was happy about, about 7” erect with at least 5” girth, and it was good looking aswell! Lol!
I found some PE exercises, got a pump, and proceeded to start exercising my penis, but I never stuck to it, seeing as any girl I was with after those 2 years was more than happy with it, even if I wasn’t particularly confident anymore.
Come to now, 2015, I have a wonderful girlfriend who wants to stay together forever, we are very well matched, and I introduced her to my now new PE routine, she said she doesn’t want it any bigger, currently 7.3” x 5.3”, but if it makes me happy then I can do what I like! So that’s what I’m gonna do, I’m gonna try and stick to a routine of stretches and Sizegenetics extender, with jelqing and pumping, and wrapping for ADS, and see how far it gets me!
I just really wanted to show you how those few words can destroy a mans confidence in 2 seconds, but the right woman (or man) will boost your confidence and make you feel 100% happy!