Penis Size: The True Average

I’ve run into quite a few who think there is such a thing as “too big” :D

But I can probably count them on both hands.

http://onlineli brary.wiley.com … /bju.13010/full

An interesting study, note that they used BP measurements also .

what about black cock measure? thanks

I am starting a new thread called ten thousand penises that does a very thorough analysis of the statistics gathered by this site.

Look for it in the next weeks.

Interesting. So 15/76 felt that 6.5"+ was "average" length. And 17/76 felt 6" length was average. And mind you, these are exposed(no fat pad), so this would be NBPEL. And 40% of the women are Asian or Hispanic. This pretty well jives with what I’ve suspected about the various studies. I think Thunder’s data and the Lifestyle SB and Kinsey’s surveys are a lot closer to the true average than a lot of the recent studies involving obese elderly men suffering from ED.

Exact "average" breakdown(of 76 women):
8" 1
7.5" 3
7" 3
6.5" 8
6" 17

Looks to me like you’ve got a lot of white and black women listing 6+ and maybe a few listing 5.5. While you’ve got most of the Asian/Hispanic women listing 4.5-5.5.

What I also find interesting, is that women who listed 6.5x5+ as average, mostly didn’t want a bigger one for ONS or relationships. But women who listed average as < 6" mostly wanted a bigger dick. Often by more than an inch. Same deal for girth. If she listed average girth at 5.5", she didn’t want a bigger one. But if she listed average girth at 4", she wants at least 4.5, and usually 5 or even 5.5. One girl who thinks 4" girth is average, says she wants 7, lol.
The guy in the relationship with the girl who thinks 5x2.5 is average, needs to wife her up. She gets out into the field, and she won’t come back, lol

Pretty much every woman either said "What I’m used to" or "More than I’m used to". I saw like 4 women saying they want shorter than what they consider average. And 4 women requesting thinner than what they consider average.

Delicious Tacos,
So basicly the woman who had dicks on the “upper end of the average range” didn’t want bigger ones.
The ones who had dicks on the “smaller end of the average range” did want dicks on the “upper end of the average range”.
No surprise here and fits somewhat out intentions.

Sounds like a nasty ganbang movie ;)

Thanks for the details. Appreciated and motivating! Don

A lady’s honest thoughts on penis size : sex
Very interesting. Those who would like to know what women think about size should give this a read. Especially those of us who are in the APPARENTLY "average" range.
I’m no allstar when it comes to penis size, but this explains a lot thinking about how women have reacted to my size in the past, and I was actuallyy smaller at the time. Slightly I might add.
Guys, don’t be too discouraged if fall within the range of 5-6 inches with girth of at least 4.
The vast majority of women would prefer to have a penis of what we say is average size and although some more size, 7 in. 5-5.5 girth can fill them a little more, this is not the determining factor when it comes to how well you have pleasured her.

There are women with fetishes just like men. But if you’ve had bad experiences where you have been abused for the size or appearance of your penis, Do as much research as you can, especially here on Thunders, and realize that you are just a guy like the rest of us, with a penis that WILL satisfy a woman sexually, no matter what you’ve heard, or seen, or felt.

That can be hard to believe.
But take it from me. Someone who has always believed they have a small penis, has tried just about everything within the past 2 years to increase the size of it, endless hours of research from the time I was in my teens lol, and I’m just beggining to understand that this big penis thing is really just for our egos.

Sometimes a woman can really hurt a man’s ego. Sometimes as humans we say things that are irrational or hurtful. We’ve done it to women too.
But there are those in this world who feed off of the division and pain that is caused by hurtful ideas like these. That the one most programmed need we must fulfill cannot be enjoyed. Having sex. Simply because your penis cannot pleasure a woman?
I saw someone on this thread say something very profound.
Sorry for not remembering your name. But they said We were made as men to fulfill women’s sexual desires with our penises. This is how our creator formed us, and regardless of size we can fulfill our partners needs.
If your woman is telling you she needs something bigger, then there is most definitely something else you both can try in order to fulfill her.
FulFILL her. Lol. A penis of 4 inches in length by 4 inches in circumference is much larger than your finger or even both of them, and a finger can give great pleasure. NO reason to believe your dick can’t.
In fact, when a woman can sense you believe this about yourself, it causes a strain in the relationship sexually and neither of you are as fulfilled.

Women are made as compliments to us. They naturally seek our gratification. Just like we do from friends or family. But the man and women can share something sexually and it is powerful. So MAKE THE BEST USE OF THIS GIFT. Regardless of whether or not you believe in God or are on the other end of the spectrum completely, women can be pleased greatly by men with penises.

As with your PE, continue to reasearch, read, write, analyze and keep digging until you feel you have found some truth and then once you know it don’t stop. Continue to improve.
Be a Man. Women will love you and your dick for it. Guarantee it.

That being said. If you are very small, very large, or average. You can please a woman with the penis you have. So WHY NOT MAKE IT BIGGER? Lol
Continue to support Thundersplace and explore it. You’ll find interesting information, and realize there are people who are just like you. Our struggles are not so unique as humans. You’re not alone!

I learned something very encouraging from a member here who is very active and has much experience. Thoughtfulgold
He explained to me that the size I’m at right now is actually slightly larger than what most women prefer when they pick a toy. Never knew it!
After further research I found this is spot on. I’ll keep searching!

Good link Bambeeno. I fell down a reddit hole when I followed it, but eventually found my way out safely.

Lots of preferences stated for average and slightly above average. Maybe it is true that true women truly prefer the true average.

Yeah I almost didn’t find my way out. But when I did it had to be shared what was found!
Thanks to the gentleman who originally posted this link.

It sounds like the same thing we always hear, which doesn’t sound right to us because we constantly hear we’re supposed to have huge penises too, BUT
What we hear is. That there are so many other factors to consider besides penis size when it comes to pleasing women. And yes for true women it is very low down on the list of attractive traits men possess, if there at all.
The bottom line is we want validation that we’re desired as mates. It’s within us to seek that naturally, but someone along the way took penis size and made it a problem. A normal penis is the ideal penis for a woman and they come in different shapes and sizes because each partner will receive a different feeling from their mates penis. Some like it to fit “just right” others want it to “hurt a little” and some just want to feel “a stretch”
Bottom line is their all getting penetrated and if you can’t make a woman cum it most likely doesn’t have to do with your penis size. It’s cause you need help learning how to prepare her for penetration. And we could all improve in the area of communication when it comes to the point we have relations with a woman. That will make it much more exciting, if you try find what she likes, rather than ramming something inside of her like we’ve all been shown thousands of times.
Really damaging to the psyche.

I think about this sometimes while reading threads and I guess this is as good of a place as any to mention it.

It seems that most guys on here are starting at my goal girth of 5”. I was wondering if they view their penises as shorter due to the girth? In other words a skinny penis looks longer sometimes.

I know in my case it looks thin to me, which I think is mainly due to the length.

That’s my short term goal right now, Keep training! I challenge you to a girth gaining competition! Lol

I wish it were so easy! Girth seems a bit more technical to me for some reason. I also have the notion that I’m a hard gainer. Overall I’m taking it extremely slow anyways. I in no way want to injure myself. For now I’m just seeing how my penis reacts to various exercises. Right now just simple fulcrum stretches and a few c grip jelqs! Girth is absolutely my goal. I’m fine with my length.

I think that’s an excellent way to approach it.

Girth is the way to go. I believe most girth exercises will increase the length of the penis naturally as well. Increasing overall volume is much more important than trying to achieve a certain number.

I just want mine to look nice and big when I whip it out! Lol