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Rethinking how much size matters to women

just adding my 2 cents on the never-ending discussion… ( no, im not talking about the origin of god…for now)
Based on everything I’ve read ( goddam I already read a lot about this ) it really sounds that women usually like a bigger penis, the same with men preferring bigger tits and bigger asses. Most men like to talk about how women “only choose rich, tall, and well-endowed guys”… but we forget that most men will also choose based on their preferences

Of course, talking about a relationship, the lack/presence of a few cm is probably not the most important thing ( plus the very famous trope of how women are terrible at measuring things ). Relationships are not 100% based on sex, though, sex is important too ( duh ); but talking about the full-pack ( stamina, $$$, good shape, how to fuck, preferences, etc ) plus the…other important things in a relationship, I would say the lack of 2-3 cm is not that important as guys think - if the other stuff is good too
The well-endowed guy will probably attract more attention, the same with the women with huge tits and a fat ass… but there are much more factors in this equation ( most guys if asked would like to make their GF’s boobs bigger, the same with girls if asked would like their partners pp bigger; but if they are happy with the actual state of things…so it’s fine. )


Actual: ~5.5 Non-Bone Pressed Erect / 5.5 Girth Middle

Goals: +1inchNBPEL (6.5Inch NBPEL)

My question is: what percentage of women feel 8 x6 NBPEL is too big for them to enjoy?

I’m shooting for exactly this length btw :-) . the story with the dildos here confirm my own thoughts.

I’m just wondering for how many women the size will be unenjoyable or even painful.


[before PE] Start BPFSL: 17.6cm (6.93 inches) start BPEL: 16.7cm (6.57 inches)

[currently decon until aug 2024] latest BFPSL: 21.2cm (8.35 inches) latest BPEL: 19.5cm (7,68 inches) latest NBPEL: 17cm (6.69 inches)

Click here to see my amazing US progress report (always updated!Kyrpa's methodology) ;-)

Originally Posted by CBateman
My question is: what percentage of women feel 8 x6 NBPEL is too big for them to enjoy?
I’m shooting for exactly this length btw :-) . the story with the dildos here confirm my own thoughts.
I’m just wondering for how many women the size will be unenjoyable or even painful.

That should be easy just look at some of the surveys of women using models. So 8” NBP skills be about 8.5” BP.


Start: BPEL: 7” MSEG: 5" | Current: BPEL: 8.25” MSEG: 5.75" | Goal: BPEL: 8.5” MSEG: 6"

1st Goal: 7.5" x 5.5" | Achieved: 01/15/2021 | 2nd Goal: 8.25 x 5.75 | Achieved: 05/19/2021

Progress Pics: Road to 8x6 | My Log: Daros PE Notes and Progress Reports | Routine: Hanging with FIRe

Originally Posted by damianromante
That should be easy just look at some of the surveys of women using models. So 8” NBP skills be about 8.5” BP.

Do you maybe have any studies at hand? I don’t know any who research what I was asking and would be delighted to read about that :-)


[before PE] Start BPFSL: 17.6cm (6.93 inches) start BPEL: 16.7cm (6.57 inches)

[currently decon until aug 2024] latest BFPSL: 21.2cm (8.35 inches) latest BPEL: 19.5cm (7,68 inches) latest NBPEL: 17cm (6.69 inches)

Click here to see my amazing US progress report (always updated!Kyrpa's methodology) ;-)

Originally Posted by damianromante
This site references a study that I’ve read about. https://persona llifemedia.com/ … ize-preference/

The study is great and I already know it but it doesnt answer my question.
I will do my own research, but would be great to know for how many women 6 inches of girth is "too big".


[before PE] Start BPFSL: 17.6cm (6.93 inches) start BPEL: 16.7cm (6.57 inches)

[currently decon until aug 2024] latest BFPSL: 21.2cm (8.35 inches) latest BPEL: 19.5cm (7,68 inches) latest NBPEL: 17cm (6.69 inches)

Click here to see my amazing US progress report (always updated!Kyrpa's methodology) ;-)

Originally Posted by CBateman

The study is great and I already know it but it doesnt answer my question.

I will do my own research, but would be great to know for how many women 6 inches of girth is “too big”.

I will say almost non. I have 5,7-5,8 in MSEG. I have been with around 50 women in my life. When i was around 20 i had sex with two petite virgins 14 and 16 years old and there were no problems at all with them or any of the 50. I have had both deepthrote (only a few) and anal without trouble. After pumping and with cockring on my girt is 6+ and there is still no problem with my girlfriend but she gets sore the day after. And she is tight and haven’t had children. I even had anal with her without trouble. So I guess 6 inch girt will be no problem at all for most women.


190416 Bpel 16,5 Bpfsl 16,5 Meg 14,2 Beg 15,0

210312 Bpel 19 Bpfsl 19,6 Meg 14,5 Beg 15,3

___Gain Bpel +2,5 Bpfsl +3,1 Meg +0,3 Beg +0,3

Originally Posted by Patrik_16
I will say almost non. I have 5,7-5,8 in MSEG. I have been with around 50 women in my life. When i was around 20 i had sex with two petite virgins 14 and 16 years old and there were no problems at all with them or any of the 50. I have had both deepthrote (only a few) and anal without trouble. After pumping and with cockring on my girt is 6+ and there is still no problem with my girlfriend but she gets sore the day after. And she is tight and haven’t had children. I even had anal with her without trouble. So I guess 6 inch girt will be no problem at all for most women.

Very interesting, Patrik!
You were very helpful in multiple posts, that is greatly appreciated :-) .
When I have arrived at 7 inches NPBEL, I will try pumping and experiment a bit with girth myself.
But I set my max girth at 6 inches to stay versatile and hopefully I will never let my ego go beyond that in
terms of permanent gains :-D.
Maybe pumping session before sex with a size queen could prove useful.


[before PE] Start BPFSL: 17.6cm (6.93 inches) start BPEL: 16.7cm (6.57 inches)

[currently decon until aug 2024] latest BFPSL: 21.2cm (8.35 inches) latest BPEL: 19.5cm (7,68 inches) latest NBPEL: 17cm (6.69 inches)

Click here to see my amazing US progress report (always updated!Kyrpa's methodology) ;-)

All chicks are different brother.

I’m starting at 5.75’” with a relatively small girth (updating measurements for progress soon), have had sex with over 40 girls, and never once had anything less than great sex.

I’m looking to get bigger simply because I enjoy improving all areas of my life. Having a bigger unit would improve confidence as well as Improving sex.

No point in ever stressing about it. If you want a bigger unit, you’re in the right place. For sex advice, I highly recommend the “sex god method” most of sex for women is in their head. Being able to create a powerful dom/sub dynamic will work wonders for you and your partner/s

Size does matter but not only for a man. Size of a vagina is important too. If she is loose then even a horse is not much.

Originally Posted by Burgsch
Size does matter but not only for a man. Size of a vagina is important too. If she is loose then even a horse is not much.

True, there are some enormous vaginas out there, not soo common, but they exist. It would take a titleist or shane deisel to even achieve “friction” on one of those “huge vaginas”.

Having a larger cock won’t increase your “cock confidence”, you already have it in the sexual mastery that your are providing with your 5.75” unit. What it does have the capability to do is cause you to over think your cock. Try to think as you do today, because some guys start thinking too much about their cocks as they grow.

Originally Posted by djrobins
True, there are some enormous vaginas out there, not soo common, but they exist. It would take a titleist or shane deisel to even achieve “friction” on one of those “huge vaginas”.

Having a larger cock won’t increase your “cock confidence”, you already have it in the sexual mastery that your are providing with your 5.75” unit. What it does have the capability to do is cause you to over think your cock. Try to think as you do today, because some guys start thinking too much about their cocks as they grow.

Do you think that men assume that they must please every woman? Maybe that’s the thing that continues to eat away at “cock confidence” out there. It’s okay to walk away from an enormous vagina.

I’m sure there are some women out there that outright doesn’t enjoy sex huge guys. So while being larger is an acceptable aim, being the largest may not necessarily be ideal. I wouldn’t trade options for bragging rights.


Start: BPEL: 7” MSEG: 5" | Current: BPEL: 8.25” MSEG: 5.75" | Goal: BPEL: 8.5” MSEG: 6"

1st Goal: 7.5" x 5.5" | Achieved: 01/15/2021 | 2nd Goal: 8.25 x 5.75 | Achieved: 05/19/2021

Progress Pics: Road to 8x6 | My Log: Daros PE Notes and Progress Reports | Routine: Hanging with FIRe

Originally Posted by damianromante
Do you think that men assume that they must please every woman? Maybe that’s the thing that continues to eat away at “cock confidence” out there. It’s okay to walk away from an enormous vagina.

That’s what i was saying. If she has a HUGE vagina, and you have a good size and just don’t make enough friction to please either of you, it will erode the mans confidence and the woman won’t be pleased. You HAVE to move on and find someone more compatable, there’s nothing to feel bad about.

Originally Posted by damianromante
I’m sure there are some women out there that outright doesn’t enjoy sex huge guys. So while being larger is an acceptable aim, being the largest may not necessarily be ideal. I wouldn’t trade options for bragging rights.

There are a BUNCH of women who think “huge” guys are uncomfortable and want something more average or closer to average. It’s a fact no matter how much we convince ourselves it’s not.

There are different sized vaginas, just like there are cocks. tiny, small, average, large, huge.

Based on my research here on the forum, I have believed that the mythical 8x6 is ideal for most women. This discussion is far from over, but I prefer to believe my conclusion.


BPEL: 19,4 cm

EG: 14,6 cm

:homer2:

Originally Posted by charliehancle10
Based on my research here on the forum, I have believed that the mythical 8x6 is ideal for most women. This discussion is far from over, but I prefer to believe my conclusion.

I believe most women prefer a hard penis over its overall size.


Started 7.75x5.75

Currently: 9.75bpX6.75eg My Picture Thread

Goal:10.0bpX7.25mseg Building a thicker unit, click by click, pump by pump, jelq by jelq!

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