The Big Why?

Any response to Ponto is a waste of time.

Enjoy your day gentlemen!

PE is just something I do these days. I’m not desperately seeking gains, but dilligently making progress towards them. The practice itself is enjoyable. Every jelq, stretch or session in the tube FEELS good. Ive developed a better relationship to my ccock.like I’m more one with it or something. My flaccid is growing (which I may want even more that EL)

I am restoring my foreskin as well. I SEE the skin growing!

I am so excited Inna year I’ll be leaner, have a bigger flaccid, and have more foreskin that I do now. It’s fun to have this to work on myself.

If more people here had this mindset, more people would grow. Enjoying the journey and stop focusing so heavily on the destination. That’s when I started to grow. I put away the ruler and enjoyed the time doing PE.

You’re in a good place!

Damn i cant put the ruler away.

I agree completely, your attitude is on point kavemonster.

This I noticed very much with the gym and my goals. The moment I stopped being so OCD about my workouts and how much weight I was putting up and how much chicken breast I ate and spinach and this and that, and gave myself some peace of mind, I started gaining constantly and faster. Its crazy how that works.

Now I use this tactic to PE, although hard at first being a newbie I was a bit overzealous at first but quickly came to notice I needed to change my ways just like with the gym. Now only being a bit over two months in, the ruler is whatever to me. Just going with the flow!

I’ve always gained when I don’t touch measurement tools.

Being numbers driven and a researcher does not help this. But lately, since I’m getting sex and have someone to vent to, I don’t have that need. Filling your life with things that can override your compulsions is key.

I have started PE because of the way I was treated by a woman last year. She didn’t treat me badly, quite the opposite. She really liked me and wanted us to be together. But her lack of interest in sex with me bothered me deeply for some reason, despite me knowing her legitimate reasons for low libido and her personal trauma with sex and with former partners.

Nevertheless, I can’t avoid responsibility and I don’t know how to ‘move on’ without addressing failed things and mistakes. I believe my behavior was the cause of this failed thing with her. Also in this case more size could have helped (but I’m not sure yet). My response to this is to feel constantly angry, to try to change my behavior and to pursue a huge size (as a kind of overreaction). I don’t believe I’m being reasonable, but that is normal for me.

Back in high school, half a life ago, there was this girl I was hitting on now and then, outta my league. Absolute knockout. Later she got really overweight. A damn shame. Anyway, she must have liked it because one day she leaned over me while I was sitting, with her enormous boobs hanging in front of my face and whispered to me “you have a big dick don’t you?” I had no idea, I told her she’d have to find out. As it turns out now I know I didn’t have a big dick at all. Well, subconsciously I’m sure that experience has driven a lot of my PE.

Girls like that are cock teases. But karma eventually catches up to them body wise as you seen.

I am back. I am not a true believer, I am experimenting. I accept your bona fides, I just need my own proof which has nothing to do with any of you. I have learned a lot of techniques here, so thank you.

Beating my own drum, I am a good lover, I can last for ages, never had ED or performance anxiety, and my EQ is great. My size is not an issue with me or anyone else. I just want see gains for myself, and because of my body size compared with my height, a flaccid penis of 7” x 6”, I am 5” x 5”, will still look small on my body. No amount of gains will change that issue. Anyhow I am doing the manuals, use a water pump and have made an ADS which works fine, and will continue doing so whether I am here or not. Good luck to you all in your goals, and may you be better lovers with or without a bigger EL penis.

Funny I have not felt the desire to measure. I think I’ll measure again in a year.

I started PE just to have a larger cock :)

It’s one part of my quest to be a legend in the sack. A big tool is one part. Cultivating Passion. Technique. Stamina. Energy. Compassion among others.

It’s always been a pure confidence issue with me.

I’ve slept with a decent number of women, and almost all of them have commented that my cock is small. Statistically, though, it doesn’t seem small - I’ve always been a bit over 5” and of seemingly average girth. Maybe *slightly* smaller than average. A few of those women, though, went to GREAT lengths to shame me and make me feel horrible about it, so I’ve developed a pretty crippling complex over it and it affects almost all aspects of my life. My current partner (who will hopefully be my wife someday soon) says it’s actually a little painful for her, especially now that it’s slightly larger than average in girth from jelqing. Nevertheless, I still have massive anxiety taking it out in front of her or anyone else (she would like to have threesomes and group sex in the future, and while that sounds amazing I almost instantly get a panic attack thinking about it) or even in a public restroom. I also compete in wrestling overseas, and I’ve had a locker room full of guys laugh at it when I weigh in naked. It feels less like an attack on my body part than me as a human.

Even though my partner assures me that it’s enough for her, and sometimes too much, I can’t shake the feeling that she’s just telling me that to make me feel better, and I know that she has been able to have vaginal orgasms in the past with better-endowed lovers. I just can’t stand being second-best in the things I care about. If I was more confident in my cock, I’d be more confident in other aspects of my relationships, have less trust issues, feel more confident even in fight competitions, etc.

So I’m pretty competitive by nature. I don’t realize it at all when I’m interacting with people and during day-to-day workings but for example many times I find myself doing 90h+ workweeks.

If I end up in a situation where I can’t progress forward(or compete with someone/something) in some way I find myself sad and depressed. I never really realized this when I got depressed. When I got divorced I started a long self reflection period where I started to get my #### together and figuring out why I really got depressed. I was never competitive with physical prowess so I decided to fight myself in that regard, 50 lbs down in 1 year, woo. Maybe I’ll see my abs for the first time in my life within 2 months.

I live in a society where we spend time in saunas so I’ve had some comments thrown at me about my small flaccid piece by men. Maybe this is a way some people get back at me for having (relatively) great success at what I do. I’ve known that PE works for as long as I’ve had this account but I’ve never really bothered myself with it because I was average sized guy erect and was satisfied with it.

So I started PE because I had to start competing every physically possible way. I’ve gained an inch in BPEL and half an inch in EG in 8 months. I’m making consistent gains now. I found out that I like PE as an hobby and really, you have to if you hang minimum 14 hours a week and 21 hours if you count warming up time.