The Big Why?

Oddly enough, my motivation was a “Why not try this?” moment. I first found out about PE from that Slate (or Salon?) article about DLD and thought the whole thing sounded depraved. Once I got over that (and discovered Thunder), I thought I’d give it a swing. I’m way past school locker days, so it’s all between me and my lady. It’s a tremendous confidence-builder.

I do it for my big ego.

I’ve tried to think about the ‘why’ for me and I think it simply boils down to confidence. It wasn’t how I started it but it’s where I’m at right now.

Confidence in the bedroom, confidence in the locker room, confidence when chatting with my peers or even confidence talking here in a forum.

I’m continuing to grow and I don’t have a goal (I’m sure I’ll top out at some point) but until something changes it simply gives me confidence.

(Great thread Kavemonster!)

Why ?

I wasn’t happy at all with my size. I found thundersplace a while ago, it was the best option available and the website looked serious enough to give PE a go.
After the first few millimeters of gains I was hooked, I loved the knowledge people were sharing here, the respect, the camaraderie and being part of some underground magical solution too a lot of men’s primal insecurity.
And at the end it’s for having a little secret worth being proud of and for doing something just for me.

I started doing PE because I figured, if I build up my body and mind, why not my penis. I started at 7x5 and didn’t feel the need to do PE. As I got a bigger frame, 7x5 looked like a pencil on me.

I am very modest man, I am not asking for much nor my goals are set high. All I want is to overcome my insecuritness (does this word even exists) and start enjoying truly in sex, without any fears of failure. I am very good on the other fields in life and I can get deep inside woman’s head, I want to go deep inside her vagina aswell.

I am in no need to be their biggest, their best or in general to have bigger dick from all the people around me, as long as I reach my humble goal to make myself satisfied, that will be my “Why”.

We will see what will happen after that, maybe I will get hooked as most of guys around here.

Why? A crazy woman deriding my confidence for 14 years.

AII better now. Heading for 8x6 and gratefuI every day for so many things, incIuding a much bigger dick!

Confidence

Pretty much. Was originally looking for tips on kegels. Site didn’t look like it was trying to sell me anything.

It started because I have an addiction at trying to be the best when it comes to health and my mind and body. Why iam so into nutrition and fitness.

I also wanted a bigger cock. I always knew I was at least average if not above average (definitely for length) and never had confidence issues in that area but I knew having a larger cock would be lovely.

I love sex and I care more to please my partner then myself. In result my cum in a sense, is when they cum. So a bigger dick may help.

Then I learned about the penis health side of it, and the vitality it brings to the table for men, and I was instantly in love with the idea.

Now it’s part of my lifestyle, just like my workouts, or my chicken breasts. Iam in no hurry, iam not begging for drastic results from the cock gods, iam just enjoying it. Gained a half inch? Suhweeettt. Gained some girth, awesome.

Life is good.

A confidence booster! I’ve never had any issues in the length department but could use some extra girth. I’ve passed up on a lot of sexual encounters based on that reason alone . I remember this one girl saying to me many years ago “I just wish it was fatter” and that stuck in my head like a pin to a bulletin board! Lets be honest who wouldn’t mind whipping out a weapon of mass destruction and leaving a women in awe!

When I was a teen I wrestled. I was chubby, just worked out really hard and was weighing in after practice. I accidentally flashed a kid my dick when telling him why I loved the style of of underware I had on. (I tugged on the wasteband and it exposed my dick). And it appeared small. He made fun of me for it and told other guys. This one stupid thing really fucked me up. I mean really fucked up my life. Porn for comparison didn’t help. Enter alternating denial, size anxiety, and sexual numbness. This happens to lots of boys and we never hear about it. The bear the pain quietly. Who wants to talk about their small dick???

Funny enough I actually had an above average dick and ‘nothing to worry about’. But my shame kept me in a cage, perverted and twisted my sexuality, made me abstain from alot of sexual opportunities close to me lest the community of girls finds out about my ‘tiny dick’.

So I was a kid who thought he had a tiny dick. Later learned he had a rather big dick, and now wants to live the rest of his life with a spectacular cultivated huge dick and rich ever unfolding sexuality and squeeze every ounce of sexual passion out of his remaining years. it is my belief that many never realize this and just decline over time.

I have reflected on the simple traumatic experiences I have had. It’s amazing how a thoughtless comment can shatter a boy so thoroughly. Harried by these things I did PE for closing on a decade now and still feel the mental scar tissue on my subconscious.

How did they not know the golden rule of all males… never say anything about another man’s junk regardless if it’s small or large?

Hmmmm.

In high school we had swimming. We all saw each other nude every other day and there were a lot guys that were small (probably not done with puberty). No one said a word because they knew if they did, the other boys would pound on him.

Perhaps. This is just a NY thing.

PE has truly liberated me. Its like I was sentenced to a horrible fate without chance of escape, learned that I wasn’t sentenced at all, and that my prospects in this area (penis size) were actually quite good!….

For me it has been a combo of

1. Learning what is really out there and where I stand… I used to REALLY believe that there were 12” dicks in every 10 or 20 men.

2. Finding that the possibility of possessing rare and fantastic size is totally doable! Being a practitioner, I feel I have a 8” dick already!

I am and will always be grateful to the practice, and to Thunders for the rest of my days. Through PE, I transformed my misery into confidence. I learned what I already have is truly adequate. I also know have the power to be outstanding as time goes on (to posses a healthy powerful unit in the area of 8x6).