The Big Why?

Sucks that her comment bothered you when you already know your length is above average.. It also sucks that your wife would even say that.
Best of luck on your journey bro.
We’re here to help with the PE stuff.

Drive on,
SVP

Guys would do well to understand their wife or girlfriend has always had someone larger. Is this fact, no! It’s just the way it works. Once you understand their thinking it frees a guy up to be comfortable in his own skin.

You can’t bet your ego on anyone else’s opinion. That is the golden lesson here.

She’s like her mom. She says things without a thought behind it sometimes. I am driven to punish her with the help of PE!😏

A lot of women are clueless regarding just how much guys obsess about the size of their penis, and just how closely that is tied to their sense of masculinity.

Pretty much all women are clueless about it. Even though they have the same exact feelings regarding how ‘tight’ or ‘pretty’ their vaginas are. And the women who aren’t clueless about it usually abuse the information.

Seldom is the woman so enlightened that she understands how you feel about your size and how this can affect your self-esteem and isn’t using it to manipulate. These are the rarest women, and… it isn’t realistic to hope for, even if you got lucky enough to find one.

Well, my wife isn’t clueless, as we’ve discussed the topic. She has never abused this information, or tried to use it to manipulate, yet once in a while she says something that ends up making me feel self-conscious about my size.

My own view of my size fluctuates on top of that, and the interaction between that fluctuation and her sometimes help to cancel each other out, but other times, they end up adding to each other to make me feel pretty low.
Kind of constructive and destructive interference in regards to waves.

It’s a very annoying situation and makes me wish that my sense of masculinity weren’t so closely tied to my view of my own size.

I honestly couldn’t imagine being with a woman who purposefully used that information against me.

I have been there. Part of that harried me into the size i am now. I’m glad you’re fortunate though.

I’ve got a pretty large fat pad, which has a lot to do with my view of my size.
It makes my statistically above average length look like it’s below average, and my girth makes it appear even shorter.
I understand that this is a position that some other guys would feel lucky in, because everyone knows that although difficult, losing weight is 100% proven to be attainable, whereas increasing one’s penis size is still shrouded in mistique and largely seen as unproven.

I’ve been trying to lose weight my whole life, and I find myself currently the heaviest and most out of shape I have ever been, with zero energy left by the time I come home from work with which to better myself. But enough of my personal issues.

A fat pad is a HUGE ‘why’ for the decision to get bigger. My fat pad is up to 1.25” and it’s kinda sad. But…I know it ain’t as bad as it could be. But that in and of itself is enough reason to do PE. I mean the 8” NBPEL is the new ‘8 inches length by 6 inches girth’ so…yeah, the penis you see is most of what matters to many of us. But as PE’rs we also know better. That’s the thing.

Stay motivated. That in itself is a splendid reason to continue PE but also the crafting of the rest of the body in tandem.

At least you have the support structure for mostly good feedback from the one you love. This is extremely important.

I saw a gif once of a girl jerking off a guy at a train station. The guy might have been a true 8x6 or close, but he was extremely lean, and God damn the effect of being lean is like a “wow multiplier” when it come to dicks. Like this guy gets to enjoy every inch of his cock right down to the hilt. Why is getting shredded not my first priority???

When I first began P.E. I was probably around zero fat pad. Now I’ve gained a few pounds and miss the “too the root” effect.

I’m getting rollers for my road bike next week and the quest for my blurred 6 pack begins in earnest.

Because PE is one of the best teachers of delayed gratification I have ever encountered. It’s not so long term that it takes a entire lifetime, but not so quick that you don’t appreciate every goddamn ounce of effort put into the practice. Teaches you to put in good work, and pace yourself.

I am a new boy here. I honestly don’t want or need a bigger penis as I think it is okay for me, and I don’t care about other men’s penises which I find rather ugly, best kept hidden, at least from me. I just like my dick.

I am here to see whether all these exercises work, if I will get an extra, average 2 - 3 cm. If it doesn’t work I am okay with it. I have to say I feel like a dill doing all those stretches, especially the ones that you sit on or pull between your legs towards your buttocks, but I am doing it. I even jerry rigged one of those leg ties. So far so good, just one tiny bruise near the circumcision scar. That scar is a sort of bottleneck to the full stretch.

Anyhow I will just keep doing the exercises as a test. I don’t like the pubic bone measuring thing as it seems to overestimate size by pushing back the fat pad over the pubis. Erect I am something like 16 - 17 cm, rather thick, anyway it looks quite big to me.

The why. What a question. For me, it’s a combination of several factors. Growing up seeing a guy or to in the showers that had a huge flaccid. I didn’t realize then that their dicks probably stayed the same length while erect. I thought every penis got bigger when erect because that’s what mine did. I also have very significant downward curve. I didn’t know that this was unusual until one of my girlfriends, years ago, asked me why it didn’t ever get straight. I felt like something was wrong with me. That was a blow for sure. I stumbled upon pe and this sight looking for a way to straighten the curve. I had no idea that I could actually make it larger. I still have had no success with straightening the curve. I have pretty much accepted my shape. Lastly, I also want to have the big swinging dick. Selfish and egotistical I’m sure, but it is what it is.