When is penis size too big & counterproductive?

Yeh. You have to consider that guys really have no means of comparison.

We are regulated a top-down only view of our units and unless you are gay or shower with other guys as part of some sort of sporting team, you don’t have opportunity to see other men outside of watching porn. And you cannot get a true measure of size from a video or an image.

Furthermore, taking the words of a woman is dicey at best. Many have no concept of true size, and most just say things to boost the guys ego.

So, being limited as I was in means of true measurement and comparison, I simply figured and I still see myself as just a little above average, not huge as “the numbers” dictate. I have my own concept of big. And that’s why I PE.

I’ve been toying around with the idea of buying a dildo of my goal size so I can always have a true means of measurement in front of me for that visual stimulation for my goals.

“I’ve been toying around with the idea of buying a dildo of my goal size so I can always have a true means of measurement in front of me for that visual stimulation for my goals”

Oddly, I did that, and the thing looked massive! Also, my wife has a dildo that is a 6” x 5” and “to me” it looks bigger than me until I actually put them side by side. Self perception, dysmorphic perception, is quite skewed.

PMMA is a dermal filler that is being used for girth gains. This is being done primarily by a popular phallo doctor in Mexico to a great extent. You can gain quite alot of girth manually if you are patient and consistent, but for those who still seek phalloplasty, this seems to be a popular trend at the moment.

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“I’ve been toying around with the idea of buying a dildo of my goal size so I can always have a true means of measurement in front of me for that visual stimulation for my goals”

My ex hand a dildo of a well known pron star. He is known for shooting lots of cum. I forget his name. That dildo was the same size and appearance as my cock is. I do believe he goes by several names. I am not sure.

Peter North? Isn’t he the big cumshot guy?

I wish I had to ponder this topic.. But those of us in the average endowment range its not even a thought that crosses my mind.

Yes, Peter North is the one. My cock is about the same as his. That is if the dildo was a true rendition of his unit.

Just checked “MattersofSize.” They list North as 8 x 5.5, then I guess I am just a little bigger than he is since I am 8.6 in X 6.5 in mid-shaft. At the base my unit is 7.5 inches.

Yeah, from reading other posts of yours, I immediately thought he should be smaller. But I think most porn star molded dildoes are made bigger. If and if he’s 8”, it at least has to be bonepressed, IMO.

They are most certainly made bigger than actual size. My gf and I were in an adult store goofing around a few months back. There was this Sean Michaels dildo that was very thick (Sean’s cock isn’t that thick). His dick is pretty long, but comparatively thin relative to the dildo in the box, yet the box boldy stated that it was “molded direclty from Sean’s penis!” Yeh, right.

I’ll probably get two: one at my current size (so I can gauge just how I compare) and one at my goal size. I actually should have done this years ago …

Speaking of porn star dildo’s you should see the Shane Diesel one!!

He’s super thick and quite long but the dildo is a monster that is definitely ‘bigger’ than his actual size.

So what do you think is considered to be the best size, so that you can cover the biggest percentage of woman? I mean at what size you can satisfy a very tight petite without causing her great amount of pain and at the same time to be able to satisfy a size queen? I now it’s impossible to have the dick that fits perfectly all of the vaginas, but let’s say at what size you will be able to pleasure let’s say 99% of the women?

Rechner, I would say 8” nbpl and 6.5” girth.

That seems to be a golden size that will satisfy a huge percentage of women, even most size queens. Trust me when I say this 8” nbpl looks HUGE! The girth is purely for pleasure as it plays such a huge role (more so than length) in sexual satisfaction for your partner. Of course this is purely on a physical level, emotional areas just as much, if not more.

As for 8” NBPEL, I will one day acquire this and the 6.5” girth too (currently 6” meg)

To me that sounds on the larger side of a good ‘all-round’ size. I’m sure quite a few women will absolutely love that size, but I think plenty of more petite girls will really struggle with it, even send some screaming out the door. As for more middle of the road women, I’m not sure that size is something they would want everyday, although it can probably give many of them an exciting experience. This opinion is based on ‘reading around’, btw.

Personally, I’m not sure there is such a size, which is a little frustrating. Even when disregarding the most extreme cases on both sides of the spectrum, I think maybe the gap between what is good for a tiny woman, and what is good for a size queen-ish woman is too big for any one size to cover both. (If we’re talking long term relationships, it seems like a smaller girl will often gradually get used to a size that was initially too big.) If your main goal is have a nice size for the largest amount of women (and not build a big dick for yourself), I don’t think I would stray that far away from average. What about something like 6.75” NBP x 5.5 EG?

6.75 NBP x 5.75.