When is penis size too big & counterproductive?

One of the questions that really just makes me shake my head. I understand this site and PE is mostly about getting big; however to think that’s all its about is taking a limited point of view. Don’t mean that as an attack on you cause surely the majority of guys here might think the same.

I’m nearly 52 years old wake up with rock hard wood sometimes in the middle of the night, have increased my cum loads, can have daily sex and yes go bigger, which some can be attributed to good genes, working out but mostly to this site/PE.

Reason I started here is from the active sex life wife and I have and I had been getting small cuts/abrasions on my penis for years. Sucks when wife wanted to have sex and I was hurt and couldn’t go cause was healing. Thought maybe skin on my penis was to tight or thin. Searched net and found this place and if you look up how to cure scar tissue (found this out after been here few years) stretching and massage (jelqing) can help/cure. Been injury free since doing the exercises here. Not only that but PE also opened doors for me and wife in terms of sex. She gets on my ass if I start missing workouts and helps me PE. Amazing how a lot of things revolve around it.

Funny that I’ll be PE’ing for the rest of my life as long as can get it up, but not really for size. Stopped going for length cause was bottoming out the wife but she can take more girth, so working on it. Still do maintenance stretching and just got myself a pump for girth.

Not to make this too long a winded post, but also having 2 sons didn’t realize how messed up porn and the big penis thing has fucked up the internet generation. Certainly as a dad this site helped keep my eyes and mind open to things.

I made a girl squirt with my fingers on Friday and I also fucked her like a champion with no inhibition, which works fine with my size. She’s now officially addicted to me and said that she had NEVER experienced something like that, referring both to the squirting and the way I fucked her.

In fact, I asked her how I compared to other guys in the size department and she said that she had been with bigger guys and that I was around average (I’m 7,1-7,2 BPEL and 5,0 EG), but that she never noticed that I was ‘smaller’ during the sex.

I felt that this girl could have easily taken a 8 BPEL, but I’ve been with girls who struggle with 7 as well, so it’s fine with me. My girth needs work though.

Sorry wawawuh for the late comment and I deserved the tough guy comment, I didn’t take it personal, no worries. I started PE because I personally wanted a bigger dick but not as big as I got, I just wanted it to be just a bit bigger. I never got any complains and ms tnt was fine with what I had and our relationship was so fine to the point she started helping me PE because she was so amazed the size I would get while clamped, but before PE we were doing just fine. I got to 7.5 x 5.5 and should have stayed there and that was when she asked to stop because she was starting to few a slight discomfort, but my ego continued
and she stopped helping me. I gained over 8 x 6 and all shit hit the fan. Hard times for years. I share my experience here. Go back several pages and read my story again, in-fact, this story is on so many threads. Just do this right for you and whom ever your with. Like I mentioned, counterproductive regarding penis size is a double edge sword. This is all in my thread.

I am 52 years of age and I am so on the same page, but you are a lot smarter than I was. You realized your wife’s concern, and I did not listen to my wife. My hat is off to you Brother. I didn’t
know your wfe helped you PE as mine helped me. Wow! Made things a lot easiler and faster growth didn’t it?

Take care Brother Kent

I’ll go back and look through your posts. I’ll try and find some of your posts on technique too. In my mind I’d like to have your problem of too much gain but in reality I can see the issues. Hopefully I can get to 7x5.5 then evaluate whether or not to continue. 8x6 sounds awesome to me but if my SO can’t deal with the size that would be a bad thing. Thanks for the insight.

I find it interesting the number of individuals here who comment that being above a certain size is of no benefit. I do not want anyone to take my following remarks the wrong way. I am not meaning to be coming across as bragging. Many of us have what we have, and learn to adapt accordingly.

As I have said in other threads previously, my current size is not much bigger either in length or girth than I have experienced since my late teens/early 20s (8+ x 6+). Granted I have only been with 10 women sexually in my life. So I guess that this is a very limited exposure. The women with whom I have had sex range from quite petite to plus size in body frame. Only one ever refused me sexually. I was 22 at the time, she was a younger prostitute in San Juan, Puerto Rico. One woman was about 5 foot 2 inches tall. She was capable of accommodating me quite comfortably. That was a rather interesting situation to say the least. She was married, her husband heard about me from a mutual friend. He inquired of me if I would be interested in a three-way with him and his wife as he was interested in her having the experience of being with a man endowed larger than he was. She had already agreed to such an arrangement. The three of us met several times over a period of 2 1/2 years. She never had any negative comments about my size or my technique. I have always put the comfort of the female I was with first, engaging in foreplay until they asked for me to process with slow penetration.

A couple ways in which I adapted to my size is giving up on anal sex which does not appeal to me anyway. I have also not experienced that much fellatio. That is the price one pays for having the girth with which I have been endowed. I have however nearly always been capable on going total shaft deep.

I know that a couple times in previous threads I have been chastised for commenting about my size. I have what I have. My biological father was also a man of size. My step-father was not. I know this because of some early teen experiences.

I hope that I have in not way come across as bragging or putting anyone down. That is not my intention with this statement.

I think the fact that you were refused sexually is interesting as that pertains to the thread.

That was in one situation out of 11.

That is nearly 10 percent of the time. I’d rather have a dick that gets action 100% of the time.

restored91 did you notice you keep repeating almost the same things in every fucking thread? It’s alzheimer or something?

We all repeat ourselves occasionally.

Chill dude.

The fact that some people with 8x6” cocks to start with are on this site tells me that for them, pe is definitely not about trying to please a woman and it is really not about making themselves happy. When will it be big enough for you? It makes me question why I’m on this site. I want to be slightly above average, but my wife is happy with what I am now. So maybe it is a dick measuring contest to make me feel more masculine or superior.

Part of this site is exactly that, but that’s OK by me.

Thunders meets the needs of the insecure male ego.

Name one other place that does that.

I have gained much in the way of erection quality. Sorry but I have mentioned this before also. PE is not just about increasing the size of ones unit. It is also about stimulating better health and circulation. The jelqing and kegels have helped in these areas. Some of you who are younger will someday realize what I am talking about, and be thankful that you are knowledgeable about PE. It would have been nice to have been aware of these exercises years ago.

Sorry to be repeating myself, but I am not that much into increasing size as I am in getting to the point where my penis functions properly. I have found that I no longer find it necessary to rely on the meds such as Viagra or Cialis. My wish is to maintain this situation in the foreseeable future.

The comments were designed to hit your pride and joy. She wanted to hit you where it will hurt. The comment just may not have been true, but she knew it would affect you like it would almost any man.