When is penis size too big & counterproductive?

Bullshit, bullshit everywhere on the internet.

Restored91, I’m thinking that you may have been fortunate in the women you come across. To be your size and not have complaints of pain or soreness from any women, seems atypical. Shoot, my unit is probably smaller now than yours ever was and even pre-PE, I had to be careful with some women and positions.

At 8”+ x 6”+, if you sleep with enough women, you’re bound to find a few that are gonna struggle.

Lol…

While the pussy can probably accomodate girth in time, there is actually a physical limit for the length of the vaginal channel. You can’t just handle that issue with “much foreplay”.

Even with my 7,0” BPEL at the time, I was once with a girl that while in missionary, could not take more than 5,0” or so. She was dripping wet and horny, so there was nothing wrong with the foreplay or arousal. In fact, I didn’t understand what happened at first. I couldn’t believe it. It took me a few moments to realize that I was actually bottoming her out with 5,0” of dick.

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The fact that a girl even refused to be penetrated should tell you something.

Let’s take length first.

Are you able to go balls deep in every position with that length or do you need to be extra careful not to go too deep and in general have maybe 1-1 1/2 extra inch of length out in the cold?

If so, what’s the use of that extra length?

Personally, I’m just over 7” BPEL and I’ve had girls I could not go balls deep with, although most can take it. The last girl I was with complained of some pain afterwards because I had fucked her so deep, but she did enjoy it. Since I like going balls deep and not having to calculate the depth of each trust in order to not hurt my partner, I don’t see why I would ever go over 7,5” BPEL. In fact, I’m probably pushing it already. But that’s my personal preference.

Now to girth..

Beyond a certain girth, I’m pretty confident that you will start to get diminishing returns. I’m at 5,0” now and am shooting for 5,5”. I will revisit my goal there though. From what I’m reading from others, at a certain point, girth will also give you trouble. The girls need more preparation/foreplay, quickies are out of the question, anal is not even a question with most girls and blowjobs get harder.

To me, that seems like reduced sexual pleasure? Why would I want that?

If a girl is not pleased by a 5,5” girth, she can take an operation, start with kegels, find someone else or simply go fuck herself. Not interested. :)

That’s why I think that a penis beyond 8X6” or even at that size will be “counter-productive”. Of course it all depends on your own personal goals and your partner. If it’s an ego thing and you simply want to be a beast, then go ahead, but if the goal is to maximize your sex life and have a size that most women will LOVE, the 7,5 X 5,5 seems like a good goal. :)

Renholder, is on the mark again! A women in her 30’s once said to me, “I like a big cock”. “Seven inches is good and anything over eight is a waste”. (She was of course referring to length).

Before having kids, my wife would often have to stop having sex due to soreness after 15-20 minutes . This was a real issue for us because I’ve always been a fan of going for much longer than that. My girth was 5” at the time.

Since having kids, she is quite loose. We can now go for as long as we want and she still has great orgasms and frequently.

Allnighter, after childbirth does your wife suffer less with soreness. I notice you have made recent gains.

Talk about counter productive, read this Reasonable? this guy wants 7 inch girth.

My girlfriend and I play with a 6” by 2” (insertable length by largest diameter) dildo from time to time and she gets off on it like a rocket. It’s dual density so the outside is pretty soft while the inside is hard. This probably makes it more doable for her as she is a small woman. She was intimidated at first but she really gets off on it now. I’m thinking 6-ish inches girth would be awesome. It’s my new long term goal now that I’ve seen how much fun she has with it.

I think if it gets to big to park in regular sized spots you are pushing it.

I drove Cadillacs for years and the we’re a cunt to park.

That’s why I think that a penis beyond 8X6” or even at that size will be “counter-productive”. Of course it all depends on your own personal goals and your partner. If it’s an ego thing and you simply want to be a beast, then go ahead, but if the goal is to maximize your sex life and have a size that most women will LOVE, the 7,5 X 5,5 seems like a good goal. :)

Renholder, is on the mark again! A women in her 30’s once said to me, “I like a big cock”. “Seven inches is good and anything over eight is a waste”. (She was of course referring to length).
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Well, all I can say on this matter is that my natural size before any PE was essentially the measurement I have at the present time. PE has resulted in very little increase in either length or girth.

I am constantly confused by your posts.

The title of this thread was actually quite amusing so I decided to add my 2 cents in. I think penis size can be too big and counterproductive when you need a third sleeve in your clothing to accommodate it. Otherwise, we may need to restart the old practice of sporting cod pieces.

lowtower brings an interesting point. While I was in London. I visited the Tower. Awesome history. But that aside. The White Tower ( Think that is correct name ) was renovated into the armory. The Suits there had spots to hold tally wackers. I don’t think we would be too far out dated :D

Same here.

Just curious how it is that they are confusing?