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When is penis size too big & counterproductive?

Win/loss time.

While I was working the other day, my wife just decided to surprise me with a random blowjob at my desk. I noticed there was a LOT of teeth. Like a lot more than usual and it was becoming slightly painful and she goes mid blowjob, “I feel like I’m just biting you” and I go “You are, let’s try just the head”. She wasn’t really able to finish me off by sucking the head only so we had to do an impromptu bang session.

So I think I have officially hit the point of no more blowjobs. It sucks, but it’s a win as far as girth gains go!

By the way I just measured at 5.75 circumference at the head’s thickest point.

My wife hates my size. She says it’s too long and thick, I’ve been clamping for many years and I’m around 6 inches thick and 6.5 inches long.
As much as she doesn’t like it I keep clamping and edging and dry jelqing whenever possible, it’s a habit and definitely more for me and my ego than anything to do with mutual sexual satisfaction.
I guess that makes me narcissistic and selfish which is far from what I am in daily life so I figure this evens things out.

She would flat out refuse the gold standard goal here of 8 inches and even my size she needs plenty of convincing.


6.5" BPEL 6" EG, shooting for 7x6.5, 7x7 would be cool but I doubt practical or probable

Looks like I lucked out fellas. My wife just took down a new 8.75 insertable length x 7.75 circumference dildo last night and loved it. I have the green light to get as big as I want.

Originally Posted by Vegita88

Looks like I lucked out fellas. My wife just took down a new 8.75 insertable length x 7.75 circumference dildo last night and loved it. I have the green light to get as big as I want.

Wow thats a big pussy. Do you feel anything when you fuck her?


190416 Bpel 16,5 Bpfsl 16,5 Meg 14,2 Beg 15,0

210312 Bpel 19 Bpfsl 19,6 Meg 14,5 Beg 15,3

___Gain Bpel +2,5 Bpfsl +3,1 Meg +0,3 Beg +0,3

Originally Posted by Patrik_16
Wow thats a big pussy. Do you feel anything when you fuck her?

What an inappropriate comment and question. Clearly shows you don’t understand how a vagina works.


Initial: 7” BPEL; 6” NBPEL; 5.25” - 5.5” MEG

Current: 7.75” BPEL; 7.25” NBPEL; 8.5” BPFSL; 6.5” MEG; 6”x5” Flaccid.

Goal: Improved/consistent EQ while managing ED. Secondary: maintain current stats.

Originally Posted by 32quarters

What an inappropriate comment and question. Clearly shows you don’t understand how a vagina works.

Some can take real big items and some can’t.


190416 Bpel 16,5 Bpfsl 16,5 Meg 14,2 Beg 15,0

210312 Bpel 19 Bpfsl 19,6 Meg 14,5 Beg 15,3

___Gain Bpel +2,5 Bpfsl +3,1 Meg +0,3 Beg +0,3

And some can take big items and quickly tighten back up. Size capacity is related to arousal level and tightness is related to muscle tone.


Initial: 7” BPEL; 6” NBPEL; 5.25” - 5.5” MEG

Current: 7.75” BPEL; 7.25” NBPEL; 8.5” BPFSL; 6.5” MEG; 6”x5” Flaccid.

Goal: Improved/consistent EQ while managing ED. Secondary: maintain current stats.

Originally Posted by 32quarters

And some can take big items and quickly tighten back up. Size capacity is related to arousal level and tightness is related to muscle tone.

I hade my share of pussy from +35 year old women and most of them were lose and I didn’t feel much. I guess they were really horny and wet then?


190416 Bpel 16,5 Bpfsl 16,5 Meg 14,2 Beg 15,0

210312 Bpel 19 Bpfsl 19,6 Meg 14,5 Beg 15,3

___Gain Bpel +2,5 Bpfsl +3,1 Meg +0,3 Beg +0,3

That’s one potential answer.


Initial: 7” BPEL; 6” NBPEL; 5.25” - 5.5” MEG

Current: 7.75” BPEL; 7.25” NBPEL; 8.5” BPFSL; 6.5” MEG; 6”x5” Flaccid.

Goal: Improved/consistent EQ while managing ED. Secondary: maintain current stats.

Elasticity and age, At 57 my wife feels very tight on my above average thick dick. She still has a noticeably dilated vagina the next morning. If a man with smaller girth was to screw her within 12 hours he would probably be disappointed, if he needs more stimulation. I by no means have experience with many women at my current size, so it is a very limited observation.

Originally Posted by Patrik_16
Wow thats a big pussy. Do you feel anything when you fuck her?

Perfect way to get people to stop sharing. What exactly did you get out of this comment?

Originally Posted by Vegita88

Perfect way to get people to stop sharing. What exactly did you get out of this comment?

Sorry man! But I thought that we all know that a women that can take a dildo that is 7,75 girt has a big pussy.

Did she take the hole thing easy or did it take a long time for here to adjust?


190416 Bpel 16,5 Bpfsl 16,5 Meg 14,2 Beg 15,0

210312 Bpel 19 Bpfsl 19,6 Meg 14,5 Beg 15,3

___Gain Bpel +2,5 Bpfsl +3,1 Meg +0,3 Beg +0,3

Originally Posted by Patrik_16

Sorry man! But I thought that we all know that a women that can take a dildo that is 7,75 girt has a big pussy.

Did she take the hole thing easy or did it take a long time for here to adjust?

The point is we all dont “know” that so by stating such, especially when referring to a member’s wife or gf is just poor behavior.


Initial: 7” BPEL; 6” NBPEL; 5.25” - 5.5” MEG

Current: 7.75” BPEL; 7.25” NBPEL; 8.5” BPFSL; 6.5” MEG; 6”x5” Flaccid.

Goal: Improved/consistent EQ while managing ED. Secondary: maintain current stats.


Last edited by 32quarters : 03-08-2022 at .

I started PE about 15 years ago. After 18-24 months the wife insisted I stop as she didn’t want it any bigger (started at 5.5 BEPL/ 5.5 Base Girth; ended at 7 BPEL/6.25 Base Girth). Fast forward a decade, I measured and noted I had lost some of my gains so started back stretching and pumping. It took about 8 months to get back to where I was. But the wife, now 67 tapped out pretty quickly, spread leg k9 gave way to closed leg k9 very quickly.

Then I found the Silk’n Tightra, an RF intravaginal device made in Israel. They aren’t cheap, but she was gung ho for me to buy one. Then it took a few months of reminders to get her to actually use it.

After the first use I noticed a nicer fit and better lubrication (she’s on hormone replacement and has used the NuEve product line for years which is also great). After the third use, SHE noticed a difference. Last night I got her to use it about a half hour before sex for the first time… the results were amazing for both of us, she took it all with excitement and enthusiasm. This pushed out her tap out time by at least 30-50%.

Just passing this along and hope it helps someone.

Originally Posted by Determined2Gain
Not all in one place. I’ve had posts here dating back to 2008 and then posts on the Phalloboards (the site I run for transparency’s sake) off and on about my experiences. I suppose if I can look back a decade here’s what I’ve gathered:

3.5” MSEG is undeniable thin. Sorry but not sorry, whether by surgery or manual penis exercises, I was never happy with it. If I didn’t have maximum 100% erection quality, even SNUGGER FIT condoms could occasionally slip. Imagine the embarrassment. Then when I came to this place and other PE forums (MyNewSize for the throwback vets who might remember) around 2008, no matter how sincere the welcome, people couldn’t help but admit that in the end, they would never reveal themselves to a woman/man if they sported my girth. Talk about a punch to the gut. I suppose my length was what kept me sane, 5” BPEL, and 6” BPEL (non-cemented) after months of wet-jelqing & edging.

So I began digging. Pumps, clamps, you name it, I learned it. Mostly here really (which probably explains why the Phalloboards shares a similar template to this site, kind of pays homage). But I couldn’t get this nagging realization out of my head that even the BEST CASE scenario, I’d maybe crack “average” in girth. Remember, I’d have to reach close to 5-ish in girth and I was starting with a wee-3.5! Even more disheartening was the realization that I could spend months, years even, with no guarantees. The guys who started with 5inchers who wanted 6 didn’t have it so bad, and I totally got their motivations… at least it was within reach!

Then came phalloplasty. If women could get bigger boobs, whey can’t guys get fatter cocks, I thought? And when I’d bring up the topic, it was almost always met with hostility… AND RIGHTFULLY SO. Phalloplasty from the 1990’s through the early 2010’s were abysmal at best. Highly invasive procedures wrought with complications and butchery, who in their right mind would consider such a path? Well, a 3.5”er might just crazy enough to.

Around 2007 there was another forum called MyNewSize.com (you can use the WayBackMachine if you’re curious) that was basically the surgical penis enlargement forum of its time. It didn’t take long for it to turn into a shill-factory for a Doctor I won’t name here but let’s just say he’s attempted suing Thundersplace in the past and still somehow performs these insanely risky procedures. Every time there was a negative post about the “good doctor”, it’d go missing. However, all the SUPER HAPPY users wouldn’t show a shred of photo evidence. What was I to do when the information I needed so bad was being sold to the highest bidder?!

(Oh, and there was also the Yahoo Phalloplasty Group and if you remember that you are REALLY A THROW BACK VETERAN!)

So I said F*&% it and created my own forum. Somewhere guys who were either hard-gainers or genuinely under-average, could exchange news & developments in medical penis enlargement without stigma or censorship. It was me, and like 20 other guys, many of whom are/were Thunderplace veterans. This was late 2010 and for me, a last ditched effort at finding “my holy grail.” It wasn’t a commercial entity, it was almost like a self-help blog with other like-minded guys at the time.

2011 comes around and there resurfaces a topic that never gained traction on the MyNewSize site. It was a dermal filler called PMMA that was in use around the world, most notably butts and pectorals/biceps. It was a real wild wild west, when guys started to post that they’ll be “taking one for the team,” traveling to Tijuana to get a material injected into them in what can be crudely described as “micro plexiglass in your dick” (although this is far from a practical description I would later learn). Like a snowstorm into an avalanche, it trended like wildfire on my tiny PE site, with guys reporting 0.75”-1.5” gains after a number of treatments. I knew long-term risks were unknown, but the costs were a fraction of American implants, and so I too said F&#$ it and underwent my first round. Local anesthesia, mild prickly pain, and an hour later a new man. I will say though, I thought 4.5” MSEG (final result, your initial result is swelling AND DOES NOT COUNT) was actually thick. Maybe I was so used to 3.5” that I couldn’t believe men needed more than 4.5”.

Then between 2011 and 2015 I underwent a few more procedures, layering myself up incrementally in size. I retired at 6.3” because any thicker and I’d lose any semblance of “naturalness” that I barely had having gone so big (your glans don’t change size, so there happens to be a dwarfing effect. Men with large glans are very lucky). 6.3” at the base, tapering as best as possible to the glans, and it hasn’t been questioned since (which includes double digit partners). I found women with multiple births having appreciated my girth the most, and non-mothers in early-to-mid 20’s causing me pain, even with lube. I’ve heard comments that my 3.5” would have never heard, like “you made me cum 5 times” etc. I’m over 10 years out from my first injection and I’ve experienced zero complication.

After 2015 it was quite clear. Fillers can and do work. They are not without risk and not every result is picture perfect. The Doctor matters, and the quality/type of filler matters. In this time, PMMA has been joined by arguably more efficacious alternatives like Hyaluronic Acid (HA), Radiesse, Renuva, CMC, and Ellanse. We know a lot more about this stuff then ever before. My forum continues to monitor progress reporting in this regard. Around this time, I also decided to transition the site from a “personal blog & forum” to a commercial entity that sticks to its core mission of providing the most relevant and transparent information on the topic matter.

I do have Sponsors, but not at the expense of my readership. I’ve blacklisted Doctors, and turned down Clinics multiple times. My forum and my readership can vouch for this and the content is all there to see.

By the way, avoid silicone in and around the penis. It might have perfectly valid applications in other areas of the body, cosmetic or otherwise, but I’ve seen too many “bad news posts” to faithfully endorse it.

Crazy to think that when I created my username here 15 years ago, I wasn’t lying. And that’s my story for as concise as I could make 10+ years. Thanks for asking CBateman, I got a chance to go down memory lane :)

Very interesting stuff here.

Your gains were permanent? I thought these injections/fillers were temporary? How has it effected your penile sensitivity?

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