When is penis size too big & counterproductive?

Thank you, thank you. I try my best ;) :star:

I don’t mean to be cynical, BUT from everything that I’ve read here, it’s the point at which gains are no longer forthcoming.

I haven’t read the whole thread, but I also haven’t seen it mentioned that the confidence a bigger than average penis brings to its owner is also extremely attractive to a woman.

That was far and away the biggest difference PE made to me and my relationship with my wife.

Before PE, I always felt inadequate, even though I made sure she always orgasmed. Penis size was never an issue for her, only me

After PE, my wife actually said to me that the extra confidence was a huge turn-on for her and made far more of a difference than the extra 2+ inches I was sporting in my boxers

Good to see you’re still about A69! Yep, confidence is always a turn-on.

True indeed, but being able to make your wife moan and beg for your company even more will be always one of the reasons I PE.
Also, if she’s supportive of your efforts it makes the whole thing even better, for her as well. Let her measure you progresses for you ;)

When I started doing PE I was 7.25 inches × 5.3 inches. I am now floating around 7.75 inches × 5.5 inches. My fiancé has only slept with me and her only dildo was 6 insertable × 4.75 inches. She didn’t think she was going to take me for our first time. With lots of foreplay and lube I bottomed out. As I got bigger we found out the A & P spots are REAL and heavenly for both partners. Especially if she is kegeling..

Most issues a guy with a big tool has boil down to not enough foreplay and lube. I found out I was skimping on lube, but I got better at applying it generously and frequently. It made it so we couldn’t have sex as frequently which we both didn’t like. If you make her feel like the most incredible person in the world, build her up in life and you worship her body. There will likely be zero issues. Good luck and hope that helps!

I’m 8” long and bottom out with my girl, if that happens she is in pain, so I just slightly bend forward and the problem is gone. The moral of the story is that it’s easy to change how much your penis sticks out by changing your posture/position so I would worry about length being too much unless you’re up past 9”. If you like being able to go balls deep but she can’t take it all, just change the position and there will be plenty that work for both of you.

Just wondering if you are married or in a committed relationship?

There are NOT “many women” who can accommodate 12 inches of dick. There’s close to none, I’m quite sure. But, if someone was that fantasy length, you wouldn’t have to put it all in, so that’s not too big of a deal. Girth, however, you are stuck with; it’s a definite limiting factor.

For me that would be a very big deal. It’s much more pleasant for me to be able to go all the way in and pounding hard. And I’m sure it is for the women as well.

I have a length of close to 8 inches and a circumference of 6.26. There is a standard for the depth of the vagina, like the penny s-length. In many women, I hit the uterine wall. My 9 inch goal is this length I guess not many women will be able to get it all. It’s okay to leave some out. In thickness, most can take the perimeter if not very young petite. When I pump, there is a circumference of 7-7.25 inches, which is quite challenging for women. They say they have a sore mouth at the border of oral sex

Funny enough, height in a woman don’t seem to influence the size of their pussies, same as height in men don’t determine the dick size. I’ve had sex with a very petite woman (1,49 or 1,50 mt tall) while wearing a massive extender sheath, was able to accomodate all 11 (might have compressed into 10 at the most when inserted) with a literal 7,5 cm diameter. that’s a tad less than 3 inches diameter a giant long fat cock.. She said it felt “super intense” and screamed like fuck in excitement while having sex, came hard really fast. I never could do that on much taller girls. It would just not fit, they’d complain at way lesser diameter and lenght. But this petite one… omg she could take it all and prolly more. .

Then the most compressed tight pussy I ever had, was a girl 1,65 which is more or less normal height in my area, she kegeled or did whatever excercise for her pussy and I’m telling you, fucking her was sometimes like as if I would put my dick on the table and rolled a log on top of it. it was hardcore gripping my dick. Also her sex drive was peaking at a raging “I could fuck you all day long and still want more” kinda girl/nynph. Apparently later she stopped kegeling, long after we were not together anymore, and her sex drive went PLUM into the mud. I had a 15cm dick back then and know she was scared of bigger dick. like frightened and would not even try to fuck a big one.

There is not a human penis on earth that most all women cant take…

I would think PIV only becomes an issue once you get past 8.5 BPEL x 6 girth. It seems like most women can handle anything up to that size, even if some preparation and a slower start is required.

For blowjobs, it’s going to depend on the woman. My pre-PE girth was about 4.75-5, and even then there were some girls who couldn’t fit it without the dreaded teeth scraping my shaft. Others took most my length with ease, at least for a few seconds at a time. Lengthwise, my pre-PE BPEL was about 6.75-7, and out of 10+ women, only one has ever been able to deepthroat me. That’s my wife, and even when she does take it all, she can only go for a short while before she starts to gag or complains about her jaw hurting. I am going to start training her to take a nice throat fuck. I can imagine that guys with 6 inches or more girth have trouble getting good head—there’s a lot of posts about this being an issue on r/bigdickproblems.

For anal, also depends on the woman, but I think a lot of them are going to give a hard no if the guy is above 6 BPEL and above 5 girth, whereas they might be more open to it with average and smaller guys. I’ve only done it with one woman. I was flat out refused anal by other girls who said it was too big. My wife had it with her ex, but she says he was smaller than me. She’s given me a hard no on anal more than once, even though I have promised to go very slow and use tons of lube. She says she would like to, but doesn’t want to risk the injury.

My take is that there is only one way to find out! :)