When is penis size too big & counterproductive?

Its never too big or counterproductive, hen we talk about human capabilities. Why is that. Because even if you grow a foot of dick, there are many women out there that can perfectly accommodate a foot, and even more, many looking for that foot.

So if you are in a relationship and it becomes a problem, is because your woman cant handle it, but it doesnt mean your penis is a problem. Plenty of other women will be able to handle it.

Only if you grow a penis that has supernatural dimensions like say 16 inches, in which case the female anatomy cannot accommodate that rod by design, then only in that case is a problem.

The issue is more of “who owns” the problem or “for who” is counterproductive.

When is it too big?

When the partner you want to spend your life with experiences discomfort. One night stands don’t count, in fact, those instances will only help your “credibility “.

The best explanation from a woman.. There’s one night stand dick and there’s husband dick.

Thats a bit deceiving, if you ask me. I cant be with my partner knowing she is willing to suck bigger dick than mine. I aint letting that shit happen, I would buy her a HORSE dildo if she needs big dick.

I don’t think that’s entirely true.

This is a generalisation but everything else being equal a woman will marry the guy with the 7” cock over the guy with the 5”. It’s more that there’s a lot of things more important to a woman when choosing a long term partner than penis size. Far more important are things like social status, health, intelligence, personality, career, ability to be a good father and protect and nurture children if you have any.

Tick all those boxes and most women will take the smaller cock in a heartbeat, and the ones that don’t usually aren’t worth marrying.

Like I said, generalisation, but in my experience it’s never far from the truth.

WAS willing to suck a bigger dick than yours, not is. As she stated.. She wouldn’t mind a bit of “John Homes” just to find out, but when it came to a permanent partner, she wouldn’t want uncomfortable donkey dick sex for the rest of her life.

In other words, she would prefer the sex to be comfortable for the rest of her life.. Take the quote for how it was intended, not how it makes you feel.

And yes Beefwormer, you are correct. Over 70% of women prefer how her partner makes her feel, and only about 8% get into a relationship because of the size of his dangly bits.

WE are the ones more worried about the size of our junk, not them.

Some fun positions just need you to have that length though, like spooning.

And for that purpose, having 8 or 9 inches is important to get in about 6inches. Especially for big booty girls

So the basics of this are the following;

vacation penis- Penis of such large size, one can only take it as much as vacations.
boyfriend penis- The goldilocks size, bigger than average but not as big as vacation dick.
average penis- the name says it all.
micro penis- no comment

Yup this is what my threads all about too. I don’t know when enough is enough I guess I’ll wait for a girl who wants a long term relationship but until then I’m still going to do PE. I’m coming to the conclusion that there’s no right answer to knowing when enough is enough. I’ve reached my goals and I’m still greedy for more I guess that’s human nature smh…

Obviously all women agree bigger is better the question is when is big too big. There ain’t a woman who would choose 1 inch over 2 inches, or 2 inches over 3 inches. But at what point do they stop?

I think for the vast majority of women, something around 7.5 to 8 inches bone pressed, around 5.5 to 6 inches girth, is going to be around the maximum they want for their “everyday” sex with their husband etc. Of course, where the line gets drawn exactly, will vary woman to woman.

A few bullet points when thinking about size…

First, the “bad news” (for those of us concerned we aren’t big enough)…

(1) yes bigger is better but it’s only to a point

(2) all women are interested in trying a massive penis, even if they never act on it, unless/until they have an experience that indicates to them that a massive penis won’t be fun for them

(3) most women will choose something slightly above average as their ideal size

(4) a big penis provides a more intense sensation for the woman, and even a massive penis that hurts her that she won’t want everyday will still probably make her orgasm very easily

Next, the “good news”…

(1) even women who want a massive penis, can still enjoy and get off on a regular or even small penis. A vagina can orgasm from a pinky finger. You might not be as big as her ideal, but she is still going to experience pleasure from your penis regardless

(2) for most women, penis size is low on the list of priorities. Obviously, all things being equal (chemistry, physical appearance, character, virtues, shared values, finances, sense of humor, etc), a bigger penis would be better (up to a point). But most women are far more concerned with you smile, your character, your finances, your sense of humor, your height, etc, than they are with your penis size. They would rather be with a guy they have chemistry with who is average or slightly below average, than with a guy they don’t have great chemistry with who has their ideal penis.

let me add another thing

the penis is erotic

Women will not only experience pleasure from an average or smaller penis,

They will also be aroused and turned on by it

As long as it’s on a man they are otherwise attracted to

Haaaaa, I like your description better than mine.

Vacation penis and boyfriend penis, although I would wager money that average penis would fall into the same category as boyfriend penis. It’s all about the feelings/emotions.

My preference on boobs is anywhere from a to c cup(small boobs, small bum), but do enjoy bragging about the big titty chick that I scored back in the day.

It allows me to understand the same about women’s bragging rights.

Let the old man weigh in…I have been with many women in my life, and I think sometimes it’s just a question of how you “fit” with a given woman. I am not huge, though from being here I have learned I am apparently not small, but with certain women we have just fit perfectly. By this I mean my curve seems to just hit all the right spots to get her where you want to. And it helps if she is multi orgasmic. Would a larger unit do even better? How would I know. But I do know that a lot has to do with the fit, and of course whether the emotional part is there. The most erotic and sensual organ for a woman is behind her eyes and between her ears….

My takeaway from this thread is:

1)Below certain size you will have issues (mentally, anxiety, always asking “what if”) and above certain size you will have issues (physically during sex, or rejection).

2)It’s better to have big dick problem than small dick problem. Accommodation can be made over time for a bigger penis, but not for a smaller one.

3) If you have a spouse with a deep emotional connection and a good physical fit, size becomes a non-topic.

4) men are more obsessed with penis size than women.

5) If you are BPEL 7.5-8 and EG 5.5-6 you can walk around worry-free, with peace of mind.

Alright cool, since I dont have a spouse with a deep emotional connection and good physical fit (single), it’s back to d*ck growing :D

This should be permanently tagged on the home page.

It’s about the best description so far and would answer probably 80 to 90% of all mens questions who arrive here looking for “THE” answer.

Number 3 should be in bold letters.

Hat tip to you brother.