Originally Posted by HenrikL
Sorry for spamming your thread but just remembered arnold quote. He had to start thinking of his biceps like mountains because if he kept thinking of the size his arms was from the beginning his mind was limiting his potential. Mountains can become any size, that was his thinking. Mentioning your starting nbp (which is the measure of a teenager with big fatpad) will bring you down, make you depressed keep you back from fulfilling your potential and feeling like shit when it’s a Bs measure. Do yourself a favor and feel good about yourself and you bpel measure!
Thanks I do appreciate your advice and I have most likely grown during that time. I am glad this site has kind people like brown dick & you henrikl to help a brother out when they feel down, there isn’t anyone I could talk to about this stuff except on yhis site, so thank you.
But I wasn’t overweight at the time and had an inch fat pad even though I had abs lol, I just keep fat there don’t know why.
But you’re right there’s no need to focus on where I started just where I’m going, I will start pumping when I have more privacy.
My main issue now is dating, I don’t know what to expect. If men don’t know what a true average is because of porn I don’t expect women to do either.
The truth is I really just have to accept what I am and get over my insecurities. That even if I get rejected for what I can’t change it is not my fault. Of course I could an inch to this and be happy with it but would hate the way there if I’m not a 100 % happy and ok with myself.
Stuff I need to change is thinking I failed because of something I was born with, or don’t deserve to be like other people because of a 4.5 BPEL. I need to change the way I think thank you for your advice you brown dick