I have been working on EQ being away from porn, practicing Erotic meditation, and eating just as well as before. One food may be making a lot of difference at the moment, I’ll see if this is proven in the next few weeks.
EQ has been excellent a few times, I just realised releasing every other day may be better than once a week or a fortnight (hornier, better EQ). A few times EQ was excellent when edging after I had cummed earlier in the day (pelvic floor too tight?).
I’m doing 20-30 minutes of dry jelqs, with a few double handed squeezes at 80 % EL in between. I use the c-grip quite a bit and like it, I’m experiencing with a "different" overhanded ok grip at the moment which puts better stress on at least one of the cc (depends of the hand). Basically you just wrap your grip in such a way the tip of your index digs into the side of the cc, while still putting a lot of pressure on the other cc thanks to the area of the palm just below the fingers. Depending on hand size and girth your experience may be different.
Of course I still use the regular overhanded grip a lot.
I’m starting to add some stretches too, I may do them only one on one off to keep good chances of a great EQ.
I don’t warm up .
I have noticed excellent expansion and feel during my sessions back in early january , I was doing girth work but also had been using the phallosan for a while.
Then it all disappeared (why? semi erect bends ? food? too many kegels during the girth sessions? no phallosan? ), back to square one . Now it’s quite positive again albeit not as much as it once was.
I try to use less kegels during my sessions, relying more on mind and stimulation to engorge the wiener, avoiding to overuse the poor pf muscles of a sitting man.