How can I cum faster?

I want to know how I can make my penis more sensitive so I can cum faster? Plenty of tricks for delaying ejaculation that have been around for ages, but anything that goes the other way? Thanks.

Stop masturbating.

That’s not the problem. I don’t masturbate for days and sometimes I still have trouble cumming.

Your hand knows your dick best. I can almost cum on command, I just know where to stroke it. For me it’s around the top of the shaft, just below the head.

I’m going to bump this topic. I don’t know if Esc has the same “problem” as me, but perhaps he does.

I know it takes me an eternity to cum when having sex. Blowjobs are out of the question. I’ve only ever cum from a blowjob once and I still have no idea how she was able to accomplish that. Typically, I can have continuous penetration for 2-3 hours before feeling the need to cum. Even then, I almost have to force it out with my hand. It actually sucks in a way because eventually I become sore and then feel no desire to cum.

I wonder if this has something to do with all of the edging I have done. I’ve been edging since I was about 15-16 (I’m 20 now). I very rarely jerk off just to reach orgasm as I always enjoy it for as long as possible. I’ve edged for as long as 5 hours once. Has this maybe desensitized me?

Any tips to help speed-up the “process” while having sex? I’d love nothing more than to be able to actually pull-out and blow right away. Probably make the orgasm more intense anyway, not to mention more exciting for me and her.

Try fucking more on top with your legs close together, tens your body more, hold your breath.

Try to read how to cure premature ejaculation and do the opposite :)

I come faster it I kegel to.

Same boat, bj’s, hj’s, anything is out of the question.. And yes, my hand knows me best, but it’s more than that. It’s the way my body contorts when I’m going solo, and it’s just so hard to replicate while having sex. It took me 3 years of humpin’ (usually for 1-3 hours almost daily) to get off finally, and still it’s rare.

Gator, I was just about to suggest Edging as a cure.. I finally read up on it and messed around with it yesterday. Decided to see what my load would be like and good heavens, it was insane. I know sayian22 (sp?) uses edging to insure he’s ready to go for his regular exploits around the Atlanta area. Maybe only edge a little.. Prime it, make your dong crave the O. I’m gonna try this and see if it works for me. Will report back for sure. S22 does it for 5 min at the end of his PE sessions, fwiw.

I know there’s a website called “cure the death grip” or something like that.. I did it.. It helped me get off that very first time. To be honest, I think guys like us are just really jacked in the head, and one day we’ll figure out what we need.. And we’ll be so damn ashamed of how foul it is we’ll never mention it.. Haha.

Sorry to joke about it, but after being in a relationship of 4.5 years that’s now borderline falling to pieces, a little humor helps.. I know how frustrating this is. I’m just glad to know I’m not the only one. This is a problem none of us ever thought was even a possibility.

I’ve actually never had a complaint about it. Hell, the girl I am with now loves the fact that I can go and go and go forever without cumming. I think her last boyfriend was a quick cummer because she was amazed the first time we had sex and I was still going after about 10 minutes. Now she knows to be ready to get pounded for hours. It’s just me that finds it annoying. I think I actually may try doing some edging before I know we’re going to have sex - sort of like what you describe as getting primed and ready for it. I know edging makes me cum like a damn firehose and she definitely loves cum. I’ll have to test it out.

I edge every day without cumming, actually several times a day, as part of my PEing. However, I have done that for years as a part of my jack off routine. It allows you to really get to know your cock’s reactions very well. I can choose to blow really fast or take my time. It really helps you. I am not bragging about this, but I can go for 3 hours without cumming when edging and, if I choose, go ahead and blow the whole wad. Sometimes, if I think I am going to get some sex with my wife, I will edge a few times. The cums are awesome when I do that.

I had this problem for a long time. What helped the most, believe it or not was pumping. I suggest pumping for health, that means 5 in hg max, keep the time down in the beginning until you see how much is good for EQ.

If you use pumping to increase EQ, very good chance that you will also get improved sensitivity. I think high EQ will increase sensitivity and horniness all by itself, but if you use pumping, it will increase it even more.

Its funny, sometimes I will do a clamping cycle and find it decreases my sensitivity, but pumping will always bring it back for me.

OF course, the normal advice applies and should come first, cut back on, or stop masturbation, cut down on ejaculation outside of sex with your partner.

It is VERY VERY very possible that the way you are masturbating has made your dick less responsive to more subtle stimulation. Maybe gripping too hard, maybe only doing it one way, has trained your penis to only get off that way.

Try getting a fleshlight and only masturbating with that. After a few weeks of that my penis got its old sensitivity back.

(I am thinking I may need a refresher course.)

Gingko Biloba also seemed to make my glans super sensitive when I first starting taking it. Maybe too sensitive, I could hardly stand to have it touched at some point. It was TOOOO MUCH, hard to describe. So much sensation it was kind of awful. So I backed off on the dosage.

I’m in the same boat.

I blame it on my circumcision being shitty. I only have feeling on the underside of my penis towards the end. I can only ejaculate by rubbing/pinching that area. I can ejaculate during sex only about 50% of the time by emulating how I masturbate, and it’s difficult, and I can only do it in missionary.

Find your weakness. Sometimes Certain things turn you on extreme. For me a girl that screams or moans makes me wanna cum faster.

Also Having your partner talk dirty to you can turn you more as well. Find your sweet spot and Explode fast!!

The following have helped me a lot:

1) Foreskin restoration
2) Getting hormones in balance (my testosterone was low, estrogen was high….opposite of what I needed)

These days, I can edge for 9 hours, or fuck for 9 minutes, or whatever in between. I have full control, except when my wife’s in control ;-)

Hi Esc I have a similar problem. I’ve never ‘cum’ qucikly when having sex although can knock a wank out in no time. I think Sta-kool's is worth noting regarding your body getting use to a certain technique. Maybe mixing it up might help over time. I think these points should help:

1. I have explored all kinds of sexual positions and know the one which gets me off the quickest. Therefore, I can always fall back on to this if I’m struggling. For me its from behind but whilst she’s laid flat on her belly. Makes it really tight and I can get seriously deep, really turns me on.

2. A bit of a feminine comment here but, sex isn’t all about climaxing

3. Just go for it! I find going really hard (not all the time) when you want to finish up is a good option

4. Lets face it, its not as big a dilema as premature!