No More Porn For Me

OK, I know that we’ve all been lead to believe that big dick = big orgasm for the girl, but you know what? It’s not even close to the whole picture. More oxytocin = more orgasms for the girl. How do we get the girl the release more of this awesome sacred hormone? Touch! Stop thinking about your dick size and start touching her in the bedroom. I mean really touching her. Touch her face, her hair, her back, her wrists, her collarbone, her tits, her stomach, her thighs, her ass. Interlace hands. I know it’s lame Hollywood love-makingly corny but just shut up and try it. Run your fingers through her hair. Get as much skin to skin contact as you can. Act like your trying to merge your body with hers. I’ve been trying this lately and the results have been pleasantly surprising. 5.9 inches is fine, you can wail all night on her g-spot with 5.9 inches. Go get em. What do you have to lose?

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^ Very good points! Obvious things, but we tend to forget them. On this size oriented Forum is never too much to repeat them!
Yesterday, when I surprised my wife kissing her neck from behind in the elevator, it acted like magic to put her in the mood for the whole evening!

After one and a half months of no porn, I have broken it :( . Let me say in my defence that I had to watch porn as a tool to get strong erections for “officially” measuring my PE progress. At my age just fantasizing is not enough for maximum hardness… The temptation to continue watching it is huge, but I’ll try to resist it till the next official PE measurements.

I should clarify that I was saying masturbation is essential when you arn’t having sex regularly or otherwise find a release regularly.

One and a half months is an awesome effort. Just get straight back on the horse. Each time it gets easier. Keep it up! :-)

If you can’t totally abstain from masturbation, you could also try just no masturbation for the week before you do your measurements. You’ll be rock hard and you won’t need porn’s help. I know that you probably want to keep the same conditions for measuring that you’ve always used for consistencies sake, but really, isn’t a porn free measurement more realistic? When you’re with a girl, you’re usually not watching porn so that’s the kind of state you should be trying to simulate when you measure.

Even this is doubtful in my opinion. There’s a popular idea that masturbation is healthy for the prostate but I’d really like to see some decent studies on this. Not sure if we’d find many men willing to lay off masturbation for long enough to have a decent sample size for a study. And then there’s interfering factors like erections/orgasm from intercourse etc. Men have a number of erections in their sleep every night and your penis and prostate get a workout then, so I don’t think stopping masturbation even over the long term is going to cause problems for sexual health. Men also have wet dreams periodically if they don’t orgasm through other means. On the flipside, I don’t think a little bit of masturbation is going to have any negative affects either, so it probably doesn’t matter either way. All this is really speculation though without decent studies.

I do note the “caged monkey” effect is quite hard to deal with. Not orgasming for more than 2 weeks for me definitely makes me frustrated and edgey to the point that it’s distracting and this carries over to other parts of my life.

I actually don’t use porn for masturbation, or at least don’t use it to ejaculate. I have an active sex life and I keep my load for my wife. The addiction to porn comes from too much drive, so even shortly after sex with my wife I was tempted to watching porn.

So I totally abstain from masturbation, but I have almost daily intercourse which I won’t cancel for the sake of PE measurements. I’m very much visual (like most men), so I need visual stimulus to get hard. That is what I get making real sex and also when watching porn. I’m doing stealth PE, so I can’t ask my wife to get me hard for measurements :)

Funny thing is though. The less visual stimulus you get over time, the less it takes to get rock hard. Using porn often desensitises you brain to visual stimulus.

^ Agree on all the above. After more than 45 porn free days, a little peeking to porn convinced me about the regained sensitivity, yielding record PE measurements! :)

I’m back to porn-free life hoping to last at least till the next PE measurements!

I’m facing a new challenge from the cable TV provider: I’ve found a new (and more exciting) adult channel in the program list which I’ll have to ignore until I’ll be able to unsubscribe.

Porn does not affect me. My brain sexual circuitry is broken.Psychological pleasure is just lacking, 3 days ago I decided to try doing A fantasy ended up triggering a dopamine release. The pleasure was incredible I did not even have to orgasm. Since I felt completely satisfied. As it was something I never felt before.

I’ve watched porn once since than which was over two months ago, and I really don’t miss it at all. And it takes way less to get me excited now.

Slightly off topic, but I would encourage you to not talk about your penis in a way diminutive way (like “little fella” above). I believe there is a mind body connection. Just try getting comfortable with using “Big Fella” and your words will lead your body.

Oh and by the way - no porn for 2 wks.

Champion effort! :-)

I am shearing the same idea/

Been clean for 7 weeks since my computer broke, just got a new one and I’m feeling the temptation already.